When Both Sides Are running On Fear Panic Is The result.

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When Both Sides Are running On Fear Panic Is The result.

I was watching a movie about the US and Russian and a possible nuclear war, and both sides are in total panic about what the other side will do, but both sides are terrified of not seeming to be weak to the other side.

The reality is that neither sides wants war, mass destruction and mass deaths, but both sides are always terrified of each other and scared of who will attack first, and then when that happened what will the response be?

Such as, one city in the USA is bombed, does the USA bomb only one city in Russian or many cities?

Both sides are trying, while terrified and panicking, to predict what the other side will do and then how to respond to what the other side will do, and both sides have Generals who want to hit back with nuclear bombs and other Generals who don’t.

The scene is panic, the whole setting of the greatest most powerful minds in each country of so called logic is best-guesses, little common sense, less wisdom, and much fear of being the last one to launch many missiles against the other, but neither wants to be the first one to launch many missiles against the other.

The goal should be to find an answer!

What is missing is common sense communication.

What they are doing is being threatening with each other hoping to scare the other while trying to look confident, strong, and not scaring themselves with their tough talk. This is a waste of time.

Both sides want this to end peacefully, but they are reacting so that it will fail and more trouble will come, because their wild imaginations coupled with anxiety fears that will lead them to the outcome that they both fear.

In the movie I mentioned above the out come that they feared was nuclear war, and due tio their panic and foolishness that is exactly what they very nearly got until someone else intervened and stopped both Russia and the USA Governments from destroying each others countries.

Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience." —

Mark Twain

Panic, fears and a big ego is how people drive forward at a rush to get the worse situation that they can get because they have not calmly thought it through and make obvious common sense efforts to sort it out. Please don't get caught up in their foolishness.

James M Sandbrook

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Also in an argument both sides have egos, and they don’t want to lose, but that’s all about pride, what about fact, maturity, and actually recognizing that you or the other person is actually wrong.

The Goal of the Mature Argument should always be To Solve A Problem that Both Sides have, and to solve the problem so that both sides are satisfied (as best as they can be as they may have to make a compromise etc) and the problem solved and the problem is gone.

Due to pride and ego issues arguments are not solved and feuds can go on for decades as both sides keep blaming the other and they cause all sorts of pointless drama, suffering and arguments, and since they refuse to admit defeat or that they were wrong, they don’t have any real intention of stopping the argument and doing the best for everyone.

We should also always be aware that Pride Comes Before a Fall. That means that those who obey Pride instead of common sense and they cause drama that is not needed or wanted, they will get to a stage where the pointless drama and arguments means that the prideful finally come to the end of their power and lose.

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