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It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.”-Sir Edmund Hillary.
“Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge.” – Manoj Arora.
“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” – Dale Carnegie.
Please remember that those who suggest you go their way won’t have to wear the pain if you are going the wrong way. They have their path, you have yours. Be brave, your path will always be worth it!
“Most everything that you want is just outside your comfort zone.” “Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.” “Our job is not to figure out the ‘how’. The ‘how’ will show up out of the commitment and believe in the ‘what.” – Jack Canfield.
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” – Albert Einstein.
“The best piece of advice someone has ever given me was ‘do it scared.’ And no matter if you’re scared, just go ahead and do it anyway because you might as well do it scared, so it will get done and you will feel so much better if you step out of your comfort zone.” – Sherri Shepherd.
A critic (hater) is someone who finds your life more interesting than themselves – Mike Murdock.
People must cease attributing their problems to their environment and learn to exercise their will-their personal responsibility in the realm of faith and morals – Albert Schweitzer.
“Everything we want is outside of our comfort zone and on the other side of your fears.”
Tips That Helped Me “Break Out” Of My Comfort Zone:
If it makes you uncomfortable, DO IT!
Whenever embarking on something new, you’re going to most likely be doing new things that you haven’t done before, and it’s going to feel uncomfortable. For me, speaking on stage is still a huge fear I have, even after doing it a half dozen times, in front of audiences of thousands. But I know that every time I do it, I get better. I’m able to touch more people and deliver my message in a better way
than I had previously. The same goes (for me) when I make videos, or do conference calls, or webinars, etc. But I know that each time I’m doing these things I’m growing and that’s what’s important. Not only has this been great for my own personal development, but it’s made a huge impact on my business as well. So, it does go to show; if it makes you uncomfortable, you’re growing and that’s a sign
that you’re on the right track.
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While on you’re journey, you’ll undoubtedly receive a slew of unsolicited advice, comments, and criticism from those around you, and unfortunately most of it could be (and probably will be) negative. I know all to well what it’s like to be pumped up about something, and then to have a peer (family or friend) doubt me. It can be hard to stick with something when you’re having family/friends tell you that
what you’re doing won’t work, it’s a waste of time, or that you should just quit. Often times, these types of comments and criticisms come from a jealous and fear-based place. But sometimes, it can be your family just trying to look out for you because they love you and want what’s best for you, but in reality, they may not have any grounds to offer you such “advice”. So if “Uncle Bob” is telling you all
those “work from home deals” are scams, or they don’t work, or nobody makes any money and you should quit, should you listen? Well, if “Uncle Bob” doesn’t own his own business, isn’t independently wealthy, or has ever made any money outside of punching a time clock, is he qualified to give you advice? NO! Don’t take advice from those who are not in any position to give it, or who have no
experience in whatever you’re pursuing. It makes no sense, and you don’t need that type of negativity when you’re making changes to better yourself…
…Don’t be afraid of the fact that you might fail a few times before you get it right. That’s okay, everyone does. But the point is, to take ACTION as this is what actually begins the process of making progress in whatever it is that you’re doing.
– Chuck Marshall.
This is a useful exercise to start the process of allowing yourself to think of your needs first instead of continually putting others needs before your own.
The bill of rights is also a good exercise to alleviate guilt. It is important to emphasise that these are basic human rights they do not need to be earned or justified.
These are your fundamental rights and privileges that are considered important and essential by you.
Try making a list of your bill of rights.
Give yourself permission to acknowledge your rights. If you have difficulty start by writing the bill of rights for your child, friend or loved one. Then challenge yourself to see that you are entitled to the same rights.
Below is a sample bill of rights.
I have the right to:
Make mistakes
Put myself first occasionally
Change my mind
Be respected
Be happy
Take charge and control over my life
Everyone else has the same rights too.
– Gretchen Nether field.
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