Christmas is a big time for many people with Temptations coming in to their lives such as drug abuses, alcohol abuse, various sexual encounters, all that would lead one away from happiness, God and Love.

The Peer Pressure is heavily on, the pressure to fit in and be a part of the masses, the pressure to be popular and to do as others do, and by doing so step out of your own boundaries and do things that you normally would not do.

The problem is that we can scar ourselves mentally and lose self respect with others and our own selves if we are not on guard.

Please remember, the devil does not lead you astray, the devil just puts the temptations before you, it is you who chooses to accept the temptations or not.

Personally I prefer to be the Grey Rock Method – for me I can have just as much fun at home doing things that don’t include the crowd, or what society wants of me, I just like being me and enjoying activities, hobbies and writing that I like to do.

But it is up to you as to who you want to be, and what is more important to you – is self respect, love and happiness more important than fitting in, and being part of a large mass of people who think as a group and not an individual.