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“You are the answer to every prayer I’ve offered. You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.” – Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook .
When a poor person dies of hunger, it has not happen because God did not take care of him or her. It has happened because neither you nor I wanted to give that person what he or she needed – Mother Teresa.
When your friends don’t share the same values as you do & respect it. Time for some changes. Moving up & away. Don’t take real friendships for granted, you’ll discover you lost something precious that cannot be gained back. Friendships cannot be bought with money, gifts, etc. Only by being real are friendships formed. Sound & authentic! Letting go... – Reneé Beeson.
Worrying never did anyone any good. – English Proverb.
Life just gives me time and space.
It is up to me how to fill that time and space.
And whether to be positive or negative in all I do and partake in.
– Author Unknown.
“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” – Martin Luther King Jr.
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I was looking on a friends Facebook page and he said that if you Google searched the word askew then the page would tilt and he is right. Try it.
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Fear less, hope more.
Eat less, chew more.
Whine less, breathe more.
Talk less, say more.
Hate less, love more
and all good things are yours.
– Swedish Proverb.
When you hear yourself say “I can’t…!” or “I cannot because…” change those words for “I can” each time you hear negative thoughts in your mind, until they become a habit. The good thoughts will become a habit more than the bad thoughts and each thought will become concrete in your mind as each success comes into your life from positive thinking.
Everyone in the apartment complex I lived in knew who Ugly was. Ugly was the resident tomcat. Ugly loved three things in this world: fighting, eating garbage, and, shall we say, love.
The combination of these things combined with a life spent outside had their effect on Ugly. To start with, he had only one eye, and where the other should have been, there was a hole. He was also missing his ear on the same side. His left foot appeared to have been badly broken at one time and had healed at an unnatural angle, making him look like he was always turning the corner.
Ugly would have been a dark gray tabby, striped type, except for the sores covering his head, neck, and even his shoulders. Every time someone saw Ugly there was the same reaction. “That’s one UGLY cat!!!”
All the children were warned not to touch him, the adults threw rocks at him, hosed him down, squirted him when he tried to come in their homes, or shut his paws in the door when he would not leave. Ugly always had the same reaction.
If you turned the hose on him, he would stand there, getting soaked until you gave up and quit. If you threw things at him, he would curl his lanky body around your feet in forgiveness.
Whenever he spied children, he would come running, meowing frantically and bump his head against their hands, begging for their love. If you ever picked him up he would immediately begin suckling on your shirt, earrings, whatever he could find.
One day Ugly shared his love with the neighbor’s dogs. They did not respond kindly, and Ugly was badly mauled. I tried to rush to his aid. By the time I got to where he was laying, it was apparent Ugly’s sad life was almost at an end.
As I picked him up and tried to carry him home, I could hear him wheezing and gasping, and could feel him struggling. It must be hurting him terribly, I thought. Then I felt a familiar tugging, sucking sensation on my ear. Ugly, in so much pain, suffering and obviously dying, was trying to suckle my ear. I pulled him closer to me, and he bumped the palm of my hand with his head, then he turned his one golden eye towards me, and I could hear the distinct sound of purring.
Even in the greatest pain, that ugly battled scarred cat was asking only for a little affection, perhaps some compassion. At that moment I thought Ugly was the most beautiful, loving creature I had ever seen. Never once did he try to bite or scratch me, try to get away from me, or struggle in any way. Ugly just looked up at me completely trusting in me to relieve his pain.
Ugly died in my arms before I could get inside, but I sat and held him for a long time afterwards, thinking about how one scarred, deformed little stray could so alter my opinion about what it means to have true pureness of spirit, to love so totally and truly.
Ugly taught me more about giving and compassion than a thousand books, lectures, or talk show specials ever could, and for that I will always be thankful. He had been scarred on the outside, but I was scarred on the inside, and it was time for me to move on and learn to love truly and deeply — to give my total to those I cared for.
Many people want to be richer, more successful, well liked, and beautiful – except for me. I will always try to be Ugly.
– Author Unknown.
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