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14th-8-2025
Watching
King Kong (2005)
Didn’t watch it all, it got stupid so I stopped.
Its not that men want this, it is mens primal instinct, its what his Male Life Blueprint tells him that this is what a man gets from his woman. The reason for men thinking this way is that we are born with it within us, and it has existed in families since the beginning of time unless there is carnal immorality and feminism.
There was feminism when Jesus walked the planet. Eve had her spat of listening to evil and overriding Adam – Feminism.
Its hard not to expect what your inner-core is telling you will happen, and then be shocked and disappointed at what he gets, and then having to force his inner-core instincts to shut up to suit the demands of the modern woman.
Children go through this as well. The boys and girls see their feminist mother making demands and getting what she wants, and a monthly tantrum when she gets her period, and then watching porn as young adults, then going to high school and being told that they are proud females, decent, good, and such, yet they see their lot as filth in porn, and the boys are told to respect women and they see that as well.
Its hard to believe what society and school are telling you, when reality right in your face is showing you that it is not true, that in reality you came from apes, you are a carnal animal with creature desires, and your childhood dreams are shattered by modern society.
A lot of people, because they believe that Jesus is God, think that Jesus saved the Prophets of the past, but the reality is that it was God, because there is only one God, and Jesus was not Him. Jesus was a Prophet just like the other Prophets, and he freed many, but he was not God and he never saved those before him.
This is why I always say that God did it, pray to God, God is your Savior, and if you read the Bible without the churches indoctrination (the process of teaching a person or group to accept a set of beliefs uncritically) you will discover that Jesus was trying to say, “Who am I, I am nothing, God is everything.”
So while many still claim Jesus was God and that Jesus did all the amazing miracles that God did, give credit where it is due, give it to God, the one and only Living God.
You got to have the right gear.
The Wet Pants.
Family Violence.
The Tucker Twins.
Ezer.
Slander.
Great Stories Of The Victoria Cross.
Reviewed by James M Sandbrook – Tuesday, 3 June 2003, 2:39:14 PM.
2 bike rides so far, two laps each time, about 3-4km each time.
Brian was known for putting two vovies together of two different peopel to get a different vocal, and every now and then one vocal from one person would shine through, thus it was cl;aimed that a certain person was doing the vocals.
It is cl;aimed that on Surf City ht Brian did the high parts, and on Little Honda by the Hondells that it was Brian holding his nose doing the lead singing.
Please don’t forget The Weenie Beenies.
I just discovered that the page 6 is not there, looking for it…
People With Mental Issues such as anxieties,
irrational fears and coping issues…
…are not mentally structured as \ Mature People, thus they are easily confused, controlled, messed up, and can be abused and think that the abuse is normal, natural, decent and good.
The reason for this is their Mental Foundation is weak, and so is there ability to reach rational decisions, because their thought processes were never formed.
People who are not well formed mentally through child abuse and so on, tend to react over-emotionally, such as the child brought up as a gang member, he loses his cool very easily as a teenager and adult, and hungers for what satisfies his body, emotions and makes him feel good, in control, feared and desired. He knows no other way to react, act, be motivated and feel good – its just what he lived, was taught and became.
One of the reasons why the mother makes her child and adult child unwell mentally and physically is because it is very easy to control that person.
Feed an irrational over-emotional person with anxieties irrational fears and thoughts and that person is easily seduced, convinced and controlled.
My belief is that people who make accusations and the like should be also considered to be possibly making the accusations due to their mental issues rather than facts.
Because irrational over-emotional anxious people are that way, they actually see what they are fed to be actually true, real and fact, and thus totally convinced that what they believe is reality they then make a big thing about it, and some get locked up in asylums, go to courts for over-reactive violent emotional freak-outs.
The best thing to do is ignore them, but that in some cases can make them much worse.
I know a man who was single but unknown to him his ex-girlfriend lived in his bedroom closet. So every time he brought a woman home for sex his ex would watch.
In my case a female would sit in my front yard at night and watch my children and I through the windows and listen to us as the night wore on. She did for for many weeks, maybe months.
When people do crazy things they have no idea that what they are doing is crazy, or they know that it is crazy but they just cannot help themselves.
You know how mental issues are heavily labelled, characterized and then particular drugs are given to those in a category with that particular label?
I see that we are humans living in hard times that other humans before us created, and these times are toxic, thus anything growing in toxic environment will wilt, struggle and eventually choke, be messed up within, and die probably well before its due date of death.
If we saw each human being as a person who is different, possibly struggling, as we all are, then we can see that all that person needs is to get back on track, but if the medical and health systems and governments are all based on money, spending, pharmaceutical company profits, saving money, high wages for those at the top, and a job for workers, then we can see that the health system and mental systems will fail.
If the person has growing up or abuse issues, and the system is so heavily complex, and the so-called cures or quieting of the patients/people is so complex, the simple obvious cures are ignored due to shortage of staff, government spending and such, the patient who could be on the way to healthy recovery would ‘under the system’ be a prisoner to mental illness labeling and so-called cures for the next 20 or more years.
Like growing drug use, growing crime, growing immorality and dishonesty, the failure of the mental health system and pharmaceutical industry’s incredible profiting on the failures, it is very Obvious that Something is Very Wrong.
The only cure is to go back to the basics and discover “why” each patient has issues, and then go back to social basics, family unit basics, and start again, seeing each person as somehow messed up growing up, and then helping that person back on his or her feet, and only the seriously mental-disturbed people find their way into an asylum for day to day care.
You see, people are not born criminals, they are born into criminal families or find that they are rejected by society and turn to crime and so on, it is a mental misunderstanding.
Those who are mentally struggling are doing so due to being hurt, abused, harmed and their Life Path of Personal Growth as a Child was Stunted or Stopped, and thus this person never got a Full Life Education.
A materialistic Apathetic Commercial Industrial Society is Not a Society that Understands the people, instead it labels, orders, corrects harshly people who were originally misused and abused as children, then when treated harshly for their crimes and foolishness, they do the natural thing in their harmed and confused minds, they fight back, because they are mentally in Survival Mode all the time.
Masses of Modern Adults are harmed children in Adult Bodies, they were never grown to Maturity, they were instead taken advantage of, bullied, shamed, harmed in some way, and definitely misunderstood, and if they are not understood they cannot be cured or healed or helped by chemical drugs, or therapy that does not understand, and this is why society today is hopeless and helpless and unable to stop the growth in all things bad and evil, especially when many or most of those at the top are not judged morally, or for honesty or decency.
They are the Mentally-Blind leading and creating more Mentally Blind masses.
Society is Not Stopping Mental Illness or Crime, it is Creating Mental Illness and Increasing Crime by Creating Criminals.
The society that is self-destroying itself and clinging to its toxic nature, has no idea it is committing suicide nor does it realise that all its “systems” are adding to the problem and curing nothing.
Bought Stack of Tracks by the Beach Boys and Vangelis – The Collection CD1 & Vangelis – The Collection CD2.
Also Paul Mauriat – French Hit Collection, and Paul Mauriat – The Best World Instrumental Hits CD1, Duane Eddy – 21 Greatest Guitar Hits & The Shadows – The Best World Instrumental Hits CD1, The Beach Boys – The Smile Sessions (Box Set Edition) CD1.
A friend in the USA many years ago sent me Stack of Tracks on Cassette tape and I loved it. He also sent me many other Beach Boy albums that we could not get here in New Zealand back in the 1990’s.
Are you being used as a flying monkey for a narcissist?
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For those who don’t know this term, “flying monkeys” are people that a narcissist uses to do their bidding. Sometimes, a narcissist will not attack you publicly in any way–which makes them look good–but they are privately telling carefully chosen people how evil and awful you are. They select these people the same way they chose you.
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They are experts at reading people and realizing who will make an easy target and a puppet. They also know who won’t, so they avoid the people they can’t easily use.
Narcissists usually choose other, lesser, narcissists who will enjoy attacking you, or they choose very empathetic people who believe their stories and honestly believe they are supporting an innocent person.
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These flying monkeys then proceed to stalk you and report back to the narcissist–again, either to be mean or because they think they are helping the wronged party. Or, the worst flying monkeys will spread the lies the narcissist tells them privately by taking them public. The lies don’t come from the narcissist’s mouth, so they can claim they are “taking the high road,” but the words the flying monkeys spread are *exactly* what they heard from the narc. They do the narcissist’s evil, but make it seem like the narcissist isn’t really involved. They have no idea they are being used.
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The term comes from the flying monkeys in the Wizard of Oz since the wicked witch sends them to carry out her attacks. Most of the time, the narcissist has convinced the monkeys that the narcissist is the victim and the real victim is the abuser, so the monkeys go after the real victim and treat the real victim like the abuser. Although, I have seen some cases where the monkeys know who is the real abuser and who is the real victim, but just want to jump in on the attack on the victim. (Scary.)
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– Joanna Moore.
Discussion.
The goal should be to find an answer or to achieve a goal etc.
Discussion and arguments should not be about egos or who wins the argument. The idea is about positive communication.
The idea is to communicate in a way that all people are heard fairly, and that something positive is achieved by the end of the discussion.
Positive communication that creates positive feedback is a good goal.
To use bad language will lower some peoples opinion of you.
To accuse others, abuse others, or lose control of yourself will warn other people that you cannot be taken seriously and that what you say is “questionable” to say the least.
Humans were hard-wired to be social and have a desire to be with others. Good communication keeps the peace and gets good results.
Bad communication causes stress, and bad results, confusions and often failures.
Before we go into any discussion or possibly an argument we need our wits about us and a positive attitude.
Sometimes not all of us are like this, but if we are calm, and in control of our emotions we will be able to ask questions and answer any questions with clarity and with good results.
Our goal should be for the good of everyone.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
September 15, 2015 .
Wolf.
People who have hurt me have tested me and taught me after I challenged myself to learn to love them and not retaliate. I told myself to try to understand them even after they treated me bad, and the gift they gave me was the understanding that we can forgive even while being treated bad, and while being misunderstood, and while trying to be nice to them even though they are not nice back.
My greatest wish is that someday they too will learn what I have been learning and that they too will grow and know why Jesus forgave and did not retaliate with vengeance, but instead with love and understanding.
James Chapter 1, verses 2-3: My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.
Is it a temptation to attack back sometimes. And when we are given that opportunity and we turn it down, rejoice that you had the chance to do bad, but you gave God the chance to be very pleased with you by showing love to your attackers.
Your goodness is an example of His worthy ways, and your goodness is an example of being a good godly person who follows Christ.
Your goodness under harsh trials is proof that God is working in you to bring about much happiness and blessings to you as your good will and good nature shines to others.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
A hundred years or so back science and religious thought were connected for many, it seems that Psychiatry was the same with the spiritual thought, but today both science and psychiatry both distance themselves from their roots and original thinking.
Note should be taken that science has lost its work-ethics and morality in favour of fame, money and careers, while Psychiatry has become far less spiritual and has a very vicious history of mistakes where many many people have died because of unethical practices, torture (electric shock treatments, lobotomies, and so on) and in the last 120 years lots and lots of innocent people given experimental
medication, falsely labelled, unethical experimentation etc.
Psychiatry as we know it today was a very different “bag of tricks” in the 1890s when Jung was starting out on his career. Investigation of the psyche (from the Greek, “soul”) was seen by many of Jung’s contemporaries as intimately related to the problems raised by psychical research – the study of “spiritualist” phenomena. The Society for Psychical Research was founded in 1882 to provide evidence
that the human psyche was an immaterial substance, not dependent for its existence on the body. – Hyde, Maggie.
Immanuel Kant’s ideas about two orientations of the Soul, one towards everyday concerns and the other towards the “spirit” world, echoed Jung’s own dualism.
If Kant was right, then perhaps paranormal phenomena which distorted time and space could teach us about the Soul. Is there a chance that Kat was also think that maybe this was the 4th or 5th dimension?
Out of mountains of letters not more than a half a dozen have brought up any question of theology, such as the differences which divide the religious communions. How to learn a finer art of living is the main matter, trying to learn how to shape the stuff of life into forms of beauty, power and joy. Life for so many today is deflated, a thing to be endured rather than enjoyed.
All of us are living a life of unfulfilled possibilities; we are living below our possible selves, thwarted, unable to find a way out. Yet there is a way of thinking and living which will set us free to use our powers to the full. What is it that inhibits us and cripples us?
Enemy Number 1 is neither sin nor sorrow: it is Fear.
The most one that is rife is fear of ourselves; and that is not healthy.
How can we fight our fears?
The first thing to realise is that “since our fears have been learned, so they can be unlearned.”
Courage we need of course, courage to “take it” and come back, courage to meet defeat and not be defeated.
When we win faith, fear is driven out of our hearts. When fear is dead, life begins. People who know how to use spiritual energy in daily life attain serenely and self-stability, and build up an inner defence against the pressures and strains of life.
Next to fear – if not the form of it – is the nagging, gnawing worry which wears us out and unfits us for living. Worry is a tiny rivulet seeping into the mind like a slow poison, until it paralyses us. Unless it is checked, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.
In nine cases out of ten the thing that we are afraid of does not happen, and, if it does, other things will happen too which will change the setting and modify the result, making a different picture from the one that fear paints now.
With a little effort we can learn the knack of putting things from us far enough to see them more clearly – and we discover that many of them do not matter and are not worth the bother of of worrying.
– Joseph F Newton.
Not seen this.
Comparing yourself to others and what they are doing, and what they have achieved in their lives is very self defeating for you.
Please understand some other people have done more than you and some have done less than you, that is life. And what they have done is no comparison to your life because those other people have experienced a different life than you have, even people from the same family that have lived in the same house for many years have experienced many different things in the same home.
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Years ago a woman told me that her daughter had issues and she and her daughter were struggling to see eye to eye. And then one day the daughter told the mother that when she was a teenager she was raped in a park but in her distress she had told no one about it. And all those years she had his this emotional hurt and baggage on her own shoulders. Once they spoke about it tears flowed, and hearts mended.
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See how people in the same house should not be compared? Also parents have favorites sometimes, and each child faces different ordeals through life.
Please don’t compare yourself with anyone else. You are genuine, you are special in your own way. You have had to face your own trials and ordeals, and because you did (and some of those ordeals and tragic moments you were not prepared for so you struggled and stumbled through them, as we all do) no person has the right to try to pressure you to be like someone else.
You have a completely different character than any other person. Even all the people of the past that are dead since the beginning of time didn’t have your exact character. This shows you how genuine and amazing that you are. You really are one in a trillion trillion 
Be very grateful that you are not like your sister or your mother, father, brother, etc.
To be told to be a copy of someone else is a huge insult to you because God has a plan for your character. He wants to see you progress in His way, and then He wants your life to be blessed in the most wonderful life.
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If people compare you to others then they are telling you that they don’t like who you are, and that they would prefer that you were not around because they would prefer that you were someone else. Save these false hearted people the hassle and move out of their reach. Show yourself some respect.
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Please don’t copy other people’s clothes, hair, attitudes and lives. We live in a time where people think that copying someone famous makes them special. When Lady Diana was at her peak of fame her haircut was the most copied around the world. Many hairdressers made a fortune on people’s lack of self-confidence, and many still are.
When we mimic others we kill some part of our unique individual character. Please stand strong, dare to be different, dare to be you. “Dare To Be Awesome!”
Look inside your character. Search for your strong points, we all have them. Keep positive. Find out what sets your soul on fire.
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Please teach your children to think as an individual.
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When we look less at what other people are like and what they are doing we can notice more and more about the best things about ourself.
Instead of following the crowds desires, ask yourself what your desires are. As you get more time to discovering yourself you will find out more and more things that you would really like to be and do that the crowd are not doing, and you will find that you like doing less and less what the masses are doing. And this is because you are becoming more aware of who you are, what you really want in your life, and who you really want to share your life and adventures with.
We realize that it is time that we stop allowing the crowd to think for us.
Finding our real likes and dislikes can be quiet a surprise. It takes getting away from the crowds, and getting away from peer pressure, family and friends pressure, and simply discovering what is really important to our self.
God will always lend a helping hand in this personal work, because it is a good work of character.
Learn to appreciate the new you, and appreciate your value, unique qualities and character. Humbly appreciate the wonder that is you.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
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