Watching: Stalked By My Neighbor – 2016. USA VPN.
But is she being stalked, but who by. Only a quarter of the way through this movie.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8696895-journey-to-freedom
I can’t comprehend why liberals want criminals protected and not charged. Its not common sense to let criminals off, as to protect the innocent criminals must be charged and go to prison. I would call it a mental health issue when people side with criminals and want them to stay free, when in reality the criminals signed their prison forms to enter prison when they became criminals.
What i would like to see, though, is for those who were seduced and brainwashed to become criminals (like Patty Hearst) get treatment and help so that they can come back down to earth and see common sense for what it is and have a chance to choose side. There nothing more satisfying that people who were abused coming up against their abusers and ending the cycle of abuse and criminal activities.
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In the video below they show lots of industry in New Zealand, and many engineers and inventors developing items for New Zealand use. When, in the 1970s or 1980s, the tariffs were removed, and overseas products became so cheap, like Japanese cheap cars, the entire New Zealand car industry died along with most other industry, and now most of what we use is imported and sold here so cheap that New Zealand companies are not able to compete – this is one of the main reasons why New Zealand lost so much industry, another reason was unions and greed.
I would imagine, that the industry and jobs, opportunities and growth are what Donald Trump is trying to bring back tot he US. Trouble is, as with Moses, people love their slavery, weaknesses, and they are getting upset at the rise of product prices in the USA. Its a waiting game, but if Trump’s lot lose the next election in the USA the Democrats will take the tariffs away and the whole thing returns to it was, unemployment rising, cheaper prices, and so on.
There is a video on YouTube of a man who traveled to China and was taken to the factories that made the latest iPhones, the iPhones cost $10 to make, and are sold all around the world at over $1000 each. If the tariffs are in place, the people in the countries like New Zealand can come up with a way to make cell phones but without slave labour.
I like the way people lived in the 1950s, it was when governments were trying, and yes there were crooks in government, but feminism was low, schooling was caring for the minds of the young, homosexuality was a mental illness, and because in many occupations mainly only men worked, thus there was far less unemployment. As you can see int he video many women worked anyway, but in the early 1970s it all change with women entering the workforce in large numbers taking up many mens jobs, and the welfare system was introduced thus making it far easier to leave the family, become a solo mother, and never work for the rest of her life as my mother did.
I used to work on a sheep farm out at Mōkai, and thankfully I did not kill any animals, but I did do dagging, shearing, making many big farm gates, painting, and so on.
You can also see, that the average person in the 1950s and backwards did not need gyms, because the manual labour that was common in basically every employment meant that men and women were using their arms to lift heavy or weighty items, they walked a lot, and all of this natural normal human behaviour made them fit, well exercised.
By the way, the pharmaceutical mental illness “cures”, pills and such did not exist n common homes during this period of time, the large pharmaceutical growth was the 1970s onwards, same with the therapy and so on.
In the past people worked out their own issues, no need for pills and therapy – today the family is the cause for people wanting therapy and pills.
The cat with the missing back foot came into the house this morning, and is inside right now in the kitchen. She still won’t let me near her, but she seems to be getting comfortable inside. She has been living on the front doorstep for about a month now, but if I feed the cats at the back she hoons around to the back to eat with them.
She reminds me of that crazy owl-looking cat that would come in the house and sleep at my feet during the wintertime. I was never allowed to touch, hold or pat her.
She had the 8 kittens outside under a tree, and they would get drenched when it rained. But one of the other mother cats, there were 2, got the owl cats 8 kittens and brought them all inside my house and she, the owl-looking cat, was forced to nurse her kittens inside, but I was still not allowed near her, but I was allowed to hold her kittens.
There is also a sick kitten that lives on my front doorstep. I have been bringing the kitten inside the last 2 days to get it out of the rain. My other cats and kittens sleep in the greenhouse or the little houses I made for them, but this silly kitten sleeps all night in the cold on the doorstep, even in the worst weather. I get home while working and there the kitten is drenched from the rain.
I have to sweep, vacuum, and wash the kitchen and lounge floors. In the lounge I will vacuum and then use the carpet cleaner to make it all nice and clean 🙂 Having some oven cooked toast for breakfast first.
I have been sleeping on the couch for about `10-15 years. Due to that and always being in a L-shape when I sleep, I have been in great pain when trying to sleep lying down, the muscles in my back hurt for about a half hour or more after waking up, even after only sleeping on the bed for about 2 hours.
When people are in a coma, someone has to come into the room and stretch the coma victims limbs, because when the limbs are not in use the hamstring etc shorten and pull the leg in to a bent position – thus if the person came out of the coma he or she would not be able to walk.
I kind of think that is what happened when you sleep sitting up for many years, the muscles become used to being bent at rest time, they possibly shrink, thus this is why the stretching is helping.
I read an article in a medical journal a year or so back. It appears many people sleep on the couch or in a chair instead of a bed. Homeless people would probably do this as well. Many people who live alone like me probably sleep on the couch because sleeping in a double-bed situation makes them feel more lonely and cold (no hugs).
If my guess is correct, after the children had all left, about 2012 I think, I was getting those ear-balance issues, and the only way that I could sleep without getting the head-spins and vomiting all night, was to sleep sitting upright with pillows on each side to keep my head upright. So, my guess, is that was when it started, and i must have just got used to it. Also being in the lounge meant that I could close the doors, the fireplace warm, and I didn’t need to warm up the entire house, saving wood, money, until eventually the only place I could sleep was on the couch.
So, what I have been doing is doing many different stretches for my back, and finally last night for the first time in over a decade I was able to sleep on my bed. The first time I got up, and the second time, I felt no issues, but this morning when I got up my back was a little bit sore. Finally, some success. I will be keeping with the stretches, the various exercises I do like martial arts, and I should be back to bed sleeping as I once was years ago.
Love is About Healing – True Love Heals.
This tells us that “we have a need to be together” – its not just about sex, its not just about comfort, its about our Need to be Healed”, and the only person who can Heal You, is the partner that God gave you for life.
For example:
If I had doubts about ‘her”, and didn’t want to be with her, God could ask me, “Do, you want to walk around the rest of your life self hating? You have tried everything else and everything you tried has failed”
“I have offered you an answer to this pressing problem in your Soul where you curse at yourself, you put yourself down, you dislike yourself – you were not put here on Earth to be bad to yourself – I, your God, have given you a healer, a Lover, a Help-Meet, A Comforter, a person who can move you from where you are as a struggling Soul, to a courageous Soul able to Cope and live in Peace with Yourself.”
“There is no other way than the way that I have offered you, to become new, healed, happy and to live life of Joy.”
“No one can offer you joy more than the partner I have given you, because this Soul has been through exactly what you need to become cured, healed and even though this person is like you, struggling, this person is the very person who has been equipped by life, and by Me, to Heal you.
“Society cannot come up with anyone better. Society wants you to go back to what hurt you, the Material Cold Apathetic Society that was created by Lost People – People who know not God. Thus, they cannot help you” “The Healing that you need can only be yours through Love. You have been prepared for each other.“
Be mindful of who you let touch you… energy transfer is real.
There is a Seduction Narcissist Trick where the Narcissist-Manipulator preys on you by pretending to be your friend, touching you in seemingly innocent ways, as a hug here and there when you are down, wiping away your tears, a pat on the shoulder, rubbing next to you as you pass each other in the hall, just general touching or rubbing, that is designed to get you used to touching this persons physical body, so that you become accustomed to their physical warmth, and you grow to like the hugs, and what is seen by you a innocent is to get that person into your bed.
As time passes the victims walls of protection come down as he or she feels that they are in a safe place with this person. And the mental-anchor is that this person is warm, comforting, cozy, and protective, and then the next thing you know you are showing your gratitude for their kindness in bed.
The more days that go by, the more hugs, the more seemingly innocent touches, go by with some general clever acting by the Narcissist, and the victim feels no harm could come to the victim by being in a sexual or complete relationship with this person – this is exactly what the Narcissist wants the victim to think, believe and then react sexually as well.
Especially be wary of the person who hugs you or is in some physical and verbal way ‘intimate’ with you just before you go to bed at night, because the idea is to get your mind to associate bedtime with that persons kindness, positiveness and body warmth, so that they can make you feel that sex is the natural progression from this intimate ritual that they have created before your bed time. The victim takes part with no suspicion that she was groomed into this act.
The person/victim, who is being manipulated feels emotionally that the intimate moments with the other person are good, healthy, progressive, and when the victim chooses to have sex with the other person the victim believes totally that her choice to do this is completely her own choice. Thus, when she regrets what they did afterwards the Narcissist can say, “Hey, it was not my idea, you seduced me in to bed, not the other way around.” and to the victim the Narcissist seems to be right.
It is good to ask yourself why people are in your life, and what the role that they had in your life should was and should be, because a change of heart or a sexual desire for that person, can very well be a seductive manipulative move to weaken your protective boundaries, and then make you think that you desire the other person, and thus the Narcissist makes it look like you were the predator and you made the Narcissist the victim, and with the guilt that comes from this the Narcissist controls the victim for the near future pretending to be the victim, and the real victim feels guilty and works extra hard to satisfy the Narcissist.
You know that you are mentally stronger than those who torment you, drug you, gaslight you and so on because they have to use drugs and stuff to attack your mind so that you will become like them or submit to them, they can’t handle taking you on one-to-one because they know that they will lose, that is also why the people who did the Character Assassination against me and all their friends will never debate me face-to-face even though they get so many opportunities to do so. A hater is a hater, and all you will ever get from a Narcissist hater is pure hate, lies, and satanic tools to destroy the good in people and life.
What makes a narcissist revalue you?
I’m afraid you are not going to like this answer, but you need to know.
If a narcissist ever returns to you, it is not because they love you, or missed you terribly, or just woke up to how much they care about you- though they may say all of those things.
It is because they are between supplies, or getting bored with the current one (as they did with you, when you thought you were together and exclusive). It is temporary, and they will leave again when they get a better offer (they won’t stop looking). Leopards don’t change their spots. And narcissists don’t change, they just lie about being prepared to. You have a choice now.
You can believe the narcissist, and their false promises (but know that, very soon, they will up and leave again). Or you can resist their phoney charms, block them so they can’t reach you to tell their sweet little lies, and read about the disorder. It’s not a great choice- either way, pain will ensue. But, believe me on this, because I was once where you are, the pain of hoping and being let down yet again is greater. Your narcissist is not coming back, and will never revalue you- he or she is manipulating you yet again. If you think you are with a narcissist, it will help you enormously to read about narcissism, and get some clarity on what is really going on.
My new favourite book on the subject is one written by a survivor- Is There A Narcissist In Your Life?, by Amanda Clymont.
She goes through all the basics, from the indicators (red flags) through the narcissist system, to how they all behave, and the tricks they use to control you and keep you from leaving. It is the book I wish had been around when I was going through my own torture. It wouldn’t have taken away the pain, but it would have stopped me prolonging the agony, and listening for far too long to the lies. I think it would help you in your situation. Your gut is telling you this could be more of the same- listen to your gut.
– Edward Tierney.
It is a test of our inner strength and courage when people pressure us to do something we don’t want to do and we say “No!”
Have Faith in your beliefs. Only you know what you want so be sure to follow God and be true to yourself.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2016.
One of my instructors states that if the stick/staff hits you then it is telling you
that you are doing well, and that you have to keep trying and practicing.
All you have to do is send a text to someone to make an energy-spiritual connection, so if that person is evil-within you have transferred evil energy into yourself from that person while they take your clean energy.
Why do so many people become evil in time yet started out so innocent?
Because the more that they hang around evil energy the more that they absorb, and the more that evil energy finally becomes that person.
Science and mental illness people just claim that “the person changed”, but the reality is that sleeping or conversing or just touching “possessed people’ will cause an evil transference of energy from them to you, the goal is to make you like them.
And this is so easy these days because of the mass acceptance of satanic rituals like parties, casual sex, porn, immoral sexual behavior, Narcissistic behaviours, and so on, its all accepted today and hardly frowned n.
People just think that they are ‘expressing themselves” and “having fun” while actually taking part if dark satanic acts, they know not what they are doing.
So if you are being love-bombed, or you feel uncomfortable about someone even though it seems to look right to your mind, go with your heart and instincts because they can sense evil, and for your own sake don’t take part in any acts that you think are satanic or be with people who try or have tried to make you do them.
Evil is evil, don’t dress it up and don’t pretend its fun, because the price many have paid is allowing evil to take over their Soul.
When one is depressed or having some life struggle it could be time for a renewal of beliefs – the old system didn’t work and has drawn you to unhappiness and sorrow. A new belief-system is what we need.
And that comes with a throwing out of the old beliefs. Looking to God is something that people have done for Salvation, inner peace, understanding and love – millions of people cannot be wrong over thousands of years…
In a lost world the lost will tell you things about God that are not true, but that is simply because they are lost and want you to follow their beliefs. Trust your own feelings about God. Trust what you know (not what the lost tell you). Trust the good experiences that you have had and the good experiences that other people have had about God and life and miracles etc. Trust God in all things.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2013.
I watched a video from Paper Skies and it was about planes and a group of bombers that accidentally all crashed in a fog, and a pilot survived the demonstration while many of his group died. But years later, he too died in a fog when his plane took off, went into the fog, and crashed killing him.
Reminds me of the guy who’s car was hit by a falling tree on a windy day in a street as he passed by driving the car. A decade or so later he went around the same corner and the new tree at the exact same spot fell on his car. People marveled in the town how the ‘coincidence” didn’t kill him. A few decades later, going past the same lucky spot the new tree fell and killed him in his car. Seems to be that if it is meant to happen it will.
Many have a belief that we have a destiny and we will die a certain way at a certain time and we cannot avoid it unless God intervenes and changes our path.
I always had a very strong belief all my life up to 30 that I would die when I was 30 years old. And that nearly happened, but didn’t. After that age that belief stopped because I had passed it and also because I do believe that God stopped it happening.
To the narcissist, “Submission means Permission”.
Meaning that the narcissist manipulator see’s each time the victim submits and lets the narcissist have their way is permission to keep pushing and pushing to get what the narcissist wants.
Its like going up a ladder to control someone step by step, and each submission is proof of success to the narcissist and proof that one day he or she will have total control over the person they wish to abuse.
Each submission by the person being abused is to corrupt their morals, destroy any hope they had, and to destroy their will power and confidence, step by step.
Freedom can only come to the victim by courage to walk away to a safer place.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook. 2021.
One case I read of, of manipulation was of a man who wanted to appear to the female as her hero, someone who could protect her, so that she would trust him. So he entered a boxing match and that gave her the impression that he was an experienced boxer. It didn’t matter whether he won or how he did, just the impression on a mind that was very anxious and fearful. So in desperation for a hero she welcomed him into her home with open arms, but from then on the manipulation started with drugging and other devious actions all of which she was unaware of due to her fixation on having some fearless hero close by (of which he clearly wasn’t).
When people want something they will go to great lengths to fool someone.
When one is depressed or having some life struggle it could be time for a renewal of beliefs – the old system didn’t work and has drawn you to unhappiness and sorrow. A new belief-system is what we need.
And that comes with a throwing out of the old beliefs. Looking to God is something that people have done for Salvation, inner peace, understanding and love – millions of people cannot be wrong over thousands of years…
In a lost world the lost will tell you things about God that are not true, but that is simply because they are lost and want you to follow their beliefs. Trust your own feelings about God. Trust what you know (not what the lost tell you). Trust the good experiences that you have had and the good experiences that other people have had about God and life and miracles etc. Trust God in all things.
2019.
When you have something to face that you are anxious about, “Prepare for it, don’t fear it!”
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All you can do is to try to do the best that you can do. Nothing more. So please just try your absolute best and then do it!
Plan.
Follow your plan.
Be adjustable, flexible, adaptable, forgivable, apologetic, and understanding.
Stick to your plan.
Stick to your beliefs and values.
Be as clear headed as you can be.
Be honest, don’t offend, be true.
Think of the other person.
Do what you need to do according to your plan and the good results you intend to gain.
You will respect your self for trying.
You will love yourself for having a go!
You won’t live with regrets.
And and whatever the outcome is, you will be wiser, have more knowledge, and very possibly open a new and exciting progressive chapter to your life.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 5, 2017 at 3:23 PM.
The thing is that is most important with an apology is fixing up what we did wrong, before or when we apologise.
Bitter, angry, hurt feelings can exist “because we were unfairly wronged”, and obviously those feelings can be felt about the person/people who wronged us.
When the person/people will fix the wrongs that were done then they show us how much they are really sorry for what happened, and they also show us what lengths they will go to prove it to us, and how much they want us to be healed.
Words are cheap, easily said, and people often don’t walk the talk that they speak.
An apology should always come with repentance, repairing the damage, and a change of character.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2019.
Sometimes, its lke you can’t even go down the street and someone hassles innocent people who are doing nothing wrong. This is not SB Mowing, but he still got hassled and the police were called and all.