Honesty

Honesty: Beautiful: but a very comprehensive term, generally signifying moral excellence. That which is good, pure, admirable. Honour (Latin = honestas), integrity, moral rectitude. Definition, a freedom from fraud, deceit, and hypocrisy, in intention, word and action. Honesty, forms of, Integrity: Unselfish honesty, uprightness in mutual dealings. Probity: Irreproachable honesty in the performance of those

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Love is…

Love is: Fall in love with the person who: Knows your phone number Knows how you like your coffee, tea etc Who cares to try to be with you Who shows a delighted smile at the sight of you Who does little things for you that others don’t Who listen and learns about what you

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Following the crowd makes the crowd the pilot of our life

Following the crowd makes the crowd the pilot of our life, and we are pushed, pulled, and shoved in all directions. The flight is rough, and takes many directions and a few disasters. Being our own pilot takes self control, and believing that we have a chance. It takes courage to step up to the

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A mistake can be a step in the wrong direction.

 To change direction (from what was learned) is to turn the mistake into a lesson, and then correct your path/life/direction, and then use the lesson to stop you from going back that way again. To continue in the direction of the mistake is to change the mistake into a foolish action/habit etc. Because now you

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What People-Pleasing Looks Like

If you have a People-Pleasing Pattern, you often try to be who others want you to be, to agree with them, to fit in. You may not be consciously aware that you are doing this, but there is a part of your psyche that wants to please others in order to avoid reactions that you

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My Narcissistic Mother

Narcissistic mother’s smear campaign involves lies, gossip and slander. You can be the target of a narcissist’s smear campaign for numerous reasons. It can be anything from her insane jealousy, to her suspecting you see the truth about her, to concealing abuse or even for simply disagreeing with her. My narcissistic mother was inordinately concerned

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Nadine Stair of Louisville, Kentucky

When the late Nadine Stair of Louisville, Kentucky, was 85 years old, she was asked what she would do if she had her life to live over again. “I’d make more mistakes next time,” she said. “I’d relax. I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been on this trip. I would

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Love is sustained by action…

People say things and make promises they have no intention of keeping on a daily basis. You can tell someone you love him or her as many times as you want, but until your behavior coincides with that, the other person will probably not believe you. Some feelings cannot be expressed in mere words; they

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Martin Luther King Jr Quotes.

Faith is taking the first step even when you can’t see the whole staircase.” ° “There comes a time when silence is betrayal.” ° “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” ° “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of

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Good men cannot be bought.

When a man is stronger than the addictions that he can have from women (immoral sex etc) and he deals with his own insecurities, and he has mature control over his mind, emotions and body, he will not be a victim of careless weak-minded women. In this strong mental state he will not allow his

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Vegetarianism

Until he extends the circle of his compassion to all living things, man will not himself find peace. – Albert Schweitzer. . It is my view that the vegetarian manner of living, by its purely physical effect on the human temperament, would most beneficially influence the lot of mankind. – Albert Einstein. . I have

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Have Measurable Targets.

It’s hard to achieve anything from life without knowing what you really want. But the same goes for vague goals: when you want something very vague, it’s hard to imagine exactly what success will look like, which makes it hard to get motivated. For instance, your goal might be to get fitter. But that’s a

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