When you start to really know someone, all his physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in his energy, recognize the scent of his skin. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with beauty. You can lust after it, be infatuated by

When gossipers and troublemakers go up to you to lie to you about other people they think: • That you are gullible because you are going to believe them without real evidence. • You are so easily-fooled that you won’t ask the victim if the gossip is true. • So foolish to listen to them