A person can have a perfectly good character and be a good person at heart and yet feel terrible about themself when other people treat them bad. Your worth as a person is still good no matter how other people affect your day. Some people play the Rejection Game where he or she uses rejection

Some people make the wrong choice. But then the situation comes up again, but it is like a woman we once knew who looks different, new dress, different colour hair etc. And the options look different, like the are some good possibilities. The reality is you just chose the same choice all over again, and

Scapegoats in families are attention diverters, bridge builders, garbage pails and punching bags. People can avoid looking at their own problems by pointing a finger at the scapegoat. Family members can feel close and bonded as they gossip about the scapegoat and they can release their pent up frustration by making everything the scapegoat’s fault.

So, you’ve been dating for a while now. Things have been going great. You’ve laughed together. You’ve had some lengthy conversations. You have plenty in common. You’re both very attracted to each other. You think the world of each other. And yet— something isn’t clicking. You just can’t put your finger on what’s wrong. On

People who are looking for happiness often try to find it outside of themself, like they hope that a career will give them happiness, or more money will bring power and more opportunities and that will make them happy, or parties, drug abuse, alcohol abuse, and material gain may bring happiness, confidence and greater self-esteem,

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us

When a person finds themself in trouble that they got into they have two choices to get out of it. One is to face up to their mistakes and apologise or make amends and the other is to keep faking it, lying and attack (mostly from a cowardly stance). The courageous move is to stand

On the front page of the New Zealand Herald the national newspaper is an article about by students in New Zealand. They are putting up “OMG Confessions” pages on Facebook or “memes” and they are becoming increasingly popular. People are anonymously allowed to put whatever they want there, make accusations, be abusive, tell of sexual

I used to have a very big Great Dane. I also had a small picket fence on my section. When my dog, Duke, was a puppy he couldn’t get over that fence. So he formed an opinion in his mind that, “he couldn’t get over the fence”. Even when he was about a foot or

Our greatest goal could be, to have a strong courageous happy journey through life, living as we each feel is the right way to live that is connected with our Creator and nature in the simplest basic and innocent life. An uncomplicated, innocent, simple, life based on the principles of honesty and truth. All the

Wanting to enjoy a good life is common to us all. We all want the same things, good health, positive relationships, fulfilling career, and enough money to live comfortably. But, there are others that want a life of abundance and prosperity. These are the ones that have dreams of doing great things, having successful businesses,

We all go through good times that have made us happy, laugh and smile. We all go through some harsh times that made us frown, angry or cry. We can be treated bad, abused, hurt emotionally and physically, and this causes us to have self-value problems, and to lack confidence in ourselves. We are all

“Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. “Pooh,” he whispered. “Yes, Piglet?” “Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw, “I just wanted to be sure of you.” * And that is what we all want too. We want to know if there is someone who will hold us through the bad times and wipe away the

I found that even I got nervous or breathing fast, that looking for “the positives” about what I wanted or needed to do made a big difference. Remember it is something about what you have to do that makes you nervous. If your thoughts and view on the subject change then you are not so

One person can lower his or her defense shields and be honest, sincere, giving, and treat the one they love with respect and appreciation. And in knowing he or she can trust the other, and that they can honestly rely on one another her or she has found life security. Another person can be manipulative,

This is a coating of positive motivation designed to make a person feel capable of dealing with life, and capable of improving their future. It is about learning to believe in yourself. But if the person has mental health issues, emotional imbalances, then the Sugar-coated Motivation will get cracks in the surface as life gets