Society teaches the young “to fit in”, to copy others, to do what everyone else does. To be your best is to be the best that you can be on your own and fitting in and the like is a way of dimming your light so to speak. Think of your physical health and do

Because rules are another persons views on how you should do something. Safety rules should be obeyed, but other rules, well, many need to be broken or can be broken, and still very positive and amazing results can happen. Like they say, Rules Were made To Be Broken! We struggle with rules because we did

When I was 18-19 and working on the sawmill logend a new guy got a job with us. He was tall, big build, black and walked around looking mean and arrogant. I didn’t like what I saw and I didn’t like the idea of working with him. He looked like nothing but trouble. I tried

You are of great value to God and for the human race, animals and planet. Everything that you do is a reflection of your heart and soul. If you follow the teachings of Christ then you will reflect kindness, love, charity, and you will bless many. If you did the opposite you would harm many.

 …they are things that you have done, or things that have happened to you and that you may blame yourself for. If you have a problem, addiction, sickness, issues, you never brought it on yourself because somewhere, somehow in the past someone else or some other event made you troubled, sad, confused, lost, addicted and

To have someone to talk to is a treasure if that person can be trusted with your whole heart and soul. Some people have never shared their own thoughts, dreams, feelings or ideas because they don’t trust the people that they are with. To share with the right person is to have someone who will

Your life was designed to be peaceful, relaxed and in the world. We are tuned into the sounds of nature and people. Offices, buildings, cars, the fast lane, and a lot of modern living is not what we were designed for and they are part of the reason why people get stressed out. The sounds

When fear is the most powerful feeling in a person’s mind nothing will get done, and nothing will be achieved. If a stronger emotion overtakes the feeling of fear then finally things can change. Feelings of hope, desire, excitement, adventure etc are like emotional engines that drive people forward to having a go, and especially

Years ago I noticed how happy children are, and how serious adults are. And it occurred to me that somewhere along the path of our lives we lost the delight in innocent fun times. Adults seemed to flock to things that cause them harm, yet they called them fun times. They might be involved in

I met a woman in town recently who does busking, and she said that her family were not supportive. So she got a guitar, learned how to play, the family didn’t encourage her. But she started busking in town and her family took notice when she came home with money. So they watched her play

From childhood we are encouraged to fit in, to be like others. To play nicely with others. To behave as others do. To conform as others do. School demands, tells us, encourages us to be Team Members, to be a part of the team, to be worthy of the team, to not let others down.

I have probably spent most of my life in financial struggle. A while back it occurred to me that the planet was free, and it was people that put a price on everything. So why was ther poor people? Why are the elderly and crippled struggling to eat? Why do we need charities when the

Just remember that when people gossip, complain, demand changes in you, and talk about you etc, they are doing it because they have their own insecurities. They feel threatened by your talents, abilities, worth, intelligence, and the fact that you are original and stand strong alone and without the crowd. They are frightened to walk

Some people are so bitter, so guilty, so angry, that all the badness that they claim to see in us, is their own character faults. They claim complete justification for their feelings and bitterness. Yet they are completely wrong. Sometimes those that are our accusers are guilty of what they accuse us of, and we

People who are not humble struggle to understand the humble. They are often forceful and see a person as foolish for wanting to be genuinely kind, even under attack. Humble people know that to fight back physically will just stir up even more trouble, and may even get more people involved and angry, causing even

He was a seen by the gullible masses as a common criminal. People had ganged up on Jesus and told lies to attempt character assassination. The masses had joined together as one to convict an innocent person who they hated, because they were foolish enough to be seduced by the lies. Imagine the things that

I wanted to make a video but I don’t have the data to put it on YouTube so I will write it. Whatever happened to you as a child was not your fault. It didn’t happen because you were unworthy. Also if you enjoyed what happened, such as sex seduction by adults, your parents etc,

The risks and the fears are nothing compared to the rewards “after the fear is overcome and the risks taken”, then and only then will the rewards reveal themselves and a better life achieved. ° All the best from James M Sandbrook. ‎Tuesday, ‎1 ‎March ‎2016, ‏‎7:04:50 PM.

The problem with putting other people first, is that you have taught them that you come second, or third, but never first. And that is how they have come to accept you and your existence. Happily they always put themselves first. Sometimes they will even be offended and upset that you decide that you want