If people have become comfortable in the rut of life that they are in then they will have no desire to leave that rut and they will prefer to stay where they are. Life in the rut is really fruitless and of no real worth except self-satisfaction or obeying others, but in its lie it

It could be pride, ego, vanity and such, you know, people who refuse to learn and grow with your advice and prefer to do it themselves. But it also could be that a person thinks that if he or she starts from the bottom or take the hard road they will gain so much more

Arguments and debates are good for finding out answers to problems when many people think bout the subject, debate the pros and cons and eventually (hopefully) come up with something new and useful. Self-Arguing is productive when there is no one to talk to. You think of all the things that come to mind. wait