We talk about being victims of this and that, but few people, including the experts realise that those, we, all of us, but especially females, are victims of society so we grow up feeling victimized but having no clear idea who victimized us or how we were victimized, and that may be why so many

When you are a child, living in a toxic home, you try to soothe yourself, tell yourself that your parents weird behaviour is normal, natural and what goes on in other people’s families. You are trying to normalise insanity and bad behaviour. In time, as time goes by, you join in with the toxic behaviour