Have you noticed how the craters around Auckland that they claim were multiple volcanoes look a lot like the craters made by meteors.
Back before the common bathtub chlorine water and fluoride, we washed in what today is called dirty water. Water that contained leaves, dirt, water that was running water like from a river or stream. I am not sure about well water, I suppose they must have bathed in that when no flowing water was nearby.
Because we don’t bath anymore, but instead have showers for our fast paced world, we miss the benefits of leaves, herbs and such in our water, water that was chemical free, and many just used a cloth and not a fat-based soap made from dead animal fat.
The benefits I would suggest are what touches our skin we soak in. Thus if you put chemicals on your skin, chemicals soak in, especially in the likes of cosmetics, make-up, and such.
Thus, in the past the water that they bathed in had medicinal benefits. If people lived by the sea they would go and sit in the sea water to cleanse themselves while also healing themselves as salt water is good for healing infections.
This is why I thought that it was a better idea to ship water from the sea for swimming pools rather than using large amounts of chemicals, fluoride and chlorine in the water.
The Giants
I read about these many years ago, especially in New Zealand, and then I discovered that they were found all over the world, yet every government refuses to admit that they ever existed. One reason I read for their denial in NZ was that the Maori story cannot be told with Giants in it, because you see that would contribute to the Maori being cannibals and warlike and wiping out races that lived in NZ before the Maori, like the Moriori.
In one book they stated that a Spanish conquistador helmet dating back hundreds of years was found in Auckland, and instead of it being given to museums for study etc, it was given to a local Auckland Maori tribe. If it were proven that the Spanish were hear way back then, then the Maori-Myth as it is being called, the NZ Government Accepted and well established NZ Maori history would be wrong.
There are many places in NZ where the public are not allowed to go, and they are fenced off with no-trespassing signs etc. Why? The government feels that they don’t have to answer this question.
You see, in order for you to accept industry, commerce, and the working comfort zone that the wealthy have created for us, we must accept a nice comforting history that was lied to us, and anything that does, not conform to that history or causes doubts about the superior knowledge of the education system of government and science, must be immediately removed. You cannot be comfortable unless you are made to think that all is always well and that you are comfortable, safe, therefore happy and content.
The problem with the giants myth/truth is that far too many books, histories include these giants, many are very tall, cannibals, and red hair. I was listening to a talk back show in the 1990’s and a cliff-bank on the side of the road in Winter collapsed on the road to Taupo, and people rang in saying that very tall “giant” skeletons were seen among the dirt of the collapsed bank.
Some stopped, and in a short time, Police or officials arrived, the area was swiftly cordoned off, and the public denied access to the site, while the skeletons were removed. And as far as i can tell there was never a official statement about the skeletons.
Many of us who had read previous about giants found all around the world thought that finally here was proof, and then swiftly it disappeared.
Another reason why the giants story would be denied is its ties to the Bible, and as Hitler knew, if the people believed in God, especially masses of people, then they would fight for love, justice, God, and rise against any dictators or tyranny. If the people have no real coherent faith they can easily be controlled, seduced and used.
Faith in God causes people to unite and give their lives for justice, and good, and that is the opposite that anyone wants of a people who they are wanting to control. So anything outside of the accepted taught box of beliefs is removed as soon as it appears.
Most people struggle to heal from the past because they are not mentally capable
of dealing with the past.
You notice how people say that today females and males are not as strong as they used to be in the past, females in the Second World War on the front line risking her life to save soldiers while in the Red Cross or teenage boys flying Spitfires over France, children even in the French resistance and so on. History is famous for young people doing amazing courageous things. They learned to deal with life and the past as part of growing up.
Today the young adults are far mentally weaker, spending a lot of their childhood as many have on ritalin, and other drugs, being told that they are worthy, important, special without them actually being worthy, special or important, today’s society creates weak minded young adults, and as the world has a very serious child-abuse problems huge amounts of young people are in Survival Mode struggling to cope with basic life, thus they are not mentally capable of seeing the past as it really was, and that means that they cannot heal from the past.
In the book (which I recommend) Toxic Parents, Susan writes of a woman who was sexually abused by her mother but heavily denies it. It is not until after a lot of therapy and sessions the adult-daughter starts to get memories of her mothers face “down-there” that she starts to see the truth of her being sexually abused by her mother. But in panic she asks Susan about it, and Susan congratulates her on her discovery because this discovery will help heal the woman as it is the cause of her mental issues as an adult.
But in a fit of denial she refuses to believe that her mother would ever do that to her, or that she would have a lesbian relationship with her own mother, and she leaves the therapy and never goes back, remaining mentally ill, struggling and on medication for the rest of her life.
The woman was unable to heal due to the abuse, but when she realised that she had been abused quickly denied the abuse and remained a half-version of herself for the rest of her life. This example shows that the mental issues and the lack of Life Education makes us mentally weak, and therefore it is very hard to get people to face the past when they struggle to face each day or fail to cope in basic life living.
Children of the Middle-Ages lived in villages that were attacked by other villages, and right in front of the children animals, people, friends and family were chopped up with swords, burned to death, raped and so on, yet the children grew up stable, courageous, strong willed and defenders of their village and family.
Today our life is based on steering clear of struggles, avoiding tragedy, living in comfort, and in this snuggled up lifestyle, parents too busy to give us the gender and life-education each child needs, we become “fluffs’ of weakness in a real world of harshness.
Children don’t need to be put in the army or boot camp to grow up, they need to be ‘grown-up” all over again in to adulthood so that they are stable, confident, willing to face life challenges, and face the past.
We are not in the great times of modern success, we are in the modern times of mass selfishness,
carnal weaknesses, and family failure.
Getting older now. Yesterday broke a coffee mug and this morning tripped and fell on the back doorstep and dropped and broke another coffee mug. I’ll break my silly neck before too long 🙂
Making more mistakes than before.
My health physically is fine, but my mistakes, balance and such is not, having one leg shorter than the other doesn’t help though.
I was made aware of a young woman less than half my age reading about the articles and posts that I wrote about love and romance, marriage and hope, and she fell in love with my writings.
Her family, upset at this, worried that since I am local that she might visit me and she might even try to seduce me, told her a lot of bad things about me.
Like anyone else, I don’t want people to lie about me, but I also have no desire to have a romantic relationship with what I call a child (anyone under 30 years old), so I think that it is probably excusable to put the female off me, but hopefully she still learn from what I wrote if any of it can apply to her life.
This particular female is now scared of me, tells people that I frighten her, and when I drive past her house or where she visits she has some sort of panic attacks. I knew where she used to live, but I have no idea where she lives now, so its kid of had to avoid her when I don’t know where she is.
So, her entire physical and mental health reaction to just my passing her house is in her control of which I am told she has no control.
But just like she’s thinks it’s gross to think of me at my age that way, I feel that way about her, especially her age.
Today masses of people are immature, easily seduced, weak thinking, and they tend to put their weaknesses before common sense. Gentlemen of values and rules can see that these young females are sexually active and could be physically pleasurable, but also common sense and wisdom completely put his mind, body and soul off any interactions with her other than of father and daughter.
Thus, she may not be his daughter, but that is how she thinks of her, as a child and completely 100% sexually and romantically out of bounds, and he doesn’t even entertain thoughts about her.
It’s a great honour to be fatherly with my writings, and I will never risk my ability to help young people with a stupid relationship with a young person. I need to keep a good decent reputation so that what I write can help people, because I wrote it to help people.
The whole point of what I write is to help people’s lives, especially of the young, to get a better start in life. There was and never will be any version of what i write to take advantage of anyone, because if I did then all the hard work that I have put in to this web site would all be lost.
The original idea was to help young people, such as what I was when I was young, to deal with life if their parents were not helpful to them and did not prepare them for life, as my parents did very little to help prepare me for life, in fact my mother a Feminist wanted to do her best to limit any success that i may have in life, and that is why she refused to allow me into groups for boys like Scouts, rugby, or any sports, and I never went on school trips ether but my sisters did. The idea was to make my sisters socially and mentally stronger and me a complete failure, dad had no interest in me at all, so as an only boy I was basically parentless and while I stumbled through life I made a mess of my life, I want to try to help people understand their pasts, not blame themselves, and mature in to strong human beings, a chance I barely got the chance to do myself.
This web site is about helping children get a start in life even if their parents didn’t care to help,and even if a parents was Feminist or Chauvinist and a womanizer, the boy or girl would hopefully see a different point of view of life, learn that he or she has a voice in the world, is worthy, but must take a more narrow path to enjoy a strong healthy loving life with like minded people of the same views and lifestyle.
If one teenager, or young adult saw this site and got a boost or more hope, or came to believe i The Living God, and marriage, gained Empathy and compassion for people and animals, and felt a loving responsibility for the planet, the work is important and what is on this site is worth it.
You may have noticed that more and more large fish
are being caught in the oceans and seen in the seas.
The reason for this is the result of mass theft of the seas by greedy countries catching fish. These large fish now must come up much higher in the oceans to find food because it is becoming more scarce as the top layers of fish are depleted and food is getting harder to find.
Also the dirt, dead bodies, body wastes etc all float to the bottom of the ocean as well as poisons, nuclear wastes, and the results of human toxic dumping’s in the seas. This makes the bottom of the ocean for these big fish toxic so they rise out of their once protective environment and look for cleaner places to live and eat. It is the natural search for survival.
People are excited and marveling about the amazing “catches” that they are getting and the huge great white sharks found in the seas in recent times. What they fail to understand, and the scientists fail to understand is that this is a warning that things are getting much worst as human beings destroy our food and water supplies.
And even if the rich and politicians discovered what was happening they wouldn’t tell anyone because they don’t want to upset rich friends and they probably have a finger in the pie and are sampling the riches coming from this evil business.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Wednesday, 5 October 2016, 10:59:12 am
For every thing that happens to you that made you uncomfortable comes a growth of spiritual courage followed by more confidence. At first a challenge can be a frightening thing, and we can face anxiety and worry how the outcome will be.
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I noted at school there were timid people like me, and other more confident people. Some boys amazed me. They would go to any sport, get stuck in and come out a winner. I always failed, always. Why was I different to them?
I told myself that the reason was because I was a loser, incapable of doing even the simplest things right and often just making a fool of myself. The reason for this thinking was from others.
What I discovered was that I was reacting to other people’s opinions of me, and when things went bad I built up my failures just like others had done (especially adults telling me that I was a failure) and I assume their superior knowledge etc and that I was as hopeless and I was told I was.
The boys at school who were confident had no such issues. They were from families who taught them to believe in themselves. They gave them active experience coupled with encouraging statements every day. And when the child failed the parents showed the child how to get over that obstacle by using his (or her) own thinking abilities and talents.
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The reason that some adults are failure, drug addicts and alcohol abusers etc is because of their “Foundation”.
If they are weakened by not truly experiencing life and its challenges then they ware weak minded, (some are cowards), some have coping and anxiety issues. The “base” of their upbringing was not what would give a person courage and confidence, and as a teenager this person is left wondering how to cope in the world. Many just give up and take the offerings from devious individuals or from places that sell “excapes” from the world.
But please consider the animals. If humans leave them alone they become wonderful happy capable creatures in their own world. We were born into the world with all that we need to have a truly confident life of happiness.
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Consider a society based on materialism.
All government and local political spending is based on materialism. yet all around them is crime, children abused, suicide, addictions and domestic violence. What do the political people do when faced with trying to keep the public happy? They waste millions of dollars on “things” that will perish, and the crime will get worse, additions worse and the reason is that the real issues of the society are not being addressed, they are being ignored by those who are successful in materialism, they get their rewards (money, things etc) from materialism, so the last thing that they want to do is to tear it down.
If the whole society is based on materialism then the people lack ‘spiritual strengths” and lack true confidence, self belief and courage.
The political people will keep giving the people things in the hope that the people will be grateful and show gratitude just as if the political people think that offering presents to the people, very expensive presents (that the people pay for anyway out of taxes and rates etc) will satisfy the people and bring prosperity to the town and all will be well. But the prosperity they want to get is materialism. A new shopping mall will not stop suicide, or addictions, or help the general public cope, have courage and confidence.
We need to see what is more important, money or good communities made up of people who have good values and who care about each other. The politicians are failing us because they have no clue what is ailing us. The blind leading the blind.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 23 February 2017, 6:00:34 pm.
I think about the years I spent just passing through.
I’d like to have the time I lost and give it back to you.
But you just smile and take my hand.
You’ve been there, you understand.
It’s all part of a grander plan that is coming true.
Like a vine climbing a tree,
My heart is entwined around thee,
Surrounding you with my dearest thoughts and dreams,
Hugging you is a lovers supreme theme.
Nothing can stop our togetherness,
Because this is life and bliss,
I look into your smiling eyes and see,
My future, my children, what God gave to me.
You are not a mistake of nature,
It took you some centuries to mature,
But before me is the genuine modal, daughter, mother and more,
Woman: a legend that history have for so long learned to adore.
Together we live in the peace of the world,
We dance with the wind and the leaves of the trees in a twirl,
For every true lover is a poet who breathes loving words to share,
These are the ones who live with love and not fear
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
February 14, 2013 at 3:23pm
I wrote this out as a comment to a friends comment on Facebook:
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Oh boy, do I feel your pain. We can understand (but dislike) parents and others treating us bad, but for a leader of a church it is very shameful. Your past and mine are similar where abuse is concerned. I was also unfairly treated by a Pastor who in fear of my popularity did all that he could to shut me down and give my children unfair treatment, and when I tried to tell the church that we were being victimized I was told that I was a liar and the church turned on me – the Pastor had already been working on them in a narcissistic manner for a few years and they all submitted to him obediently.
I was bullied at school too, never was that much popular, seldom chosen for sports teams, always seen as a loser, and from that very unconfident. I always believed that I was ugly and not wanted by females, this set me up for always choosing second best or worse because I always thought that I was never good enough for anyone good, kind and decent, and for anything better than the pathetic person I believed I was. I became very clingy.
Suicide, self harm they all feel like the right way because so much attack and harm is coming from places where the love is supposed to show, the forgiveness and care etc.And instead we get the opposite, and sadly with time we start to believe in what they say and we start to hate ourself and want to die, or we want o live alone, with animals, but not where the pain comes from, the so-called people who claim that they love us.
No matter what your past was, no matter what was said and done to you, all that happened was a reflection of those other peoples toxic souls. It is no reflection of you. And how you reacted, in anger, foolishness, and all the lost emotions, they are all what we mostly all did, we knew no better (Toxic upbringings cause us to be mentally unbalanced, have little emotional control, behave badly, and even do deliberate bad things – some of us want to strike out in reaction and some want o curl up into a safe ball and hide away).
Most of us did self harm, had suicidal thoughts, wanted to die, wanted even to hate and cause harm, because we knew deep down in our hearts that what was happening was wrong, but sadly when we are young and there is nowhere to turn or that no one would listen, we needed a release, a way to get our feelings out, to express the madness that had been put on us by those who were supposedly wiser, and were suppose to love and care for us, and we do silly and foolish things.
The only way to heal is to express what happened out loud, even in public to help others, and to especially to learn to have sympathy for the child inside that never got a chance to grow up in a good way. That inner-child is still lost in many of us when we are adults, and that is why so many adults today act as children when something goes wrong – they haven’t learned how to act in a mature manner as an adult yet, so they spit out the dummy, have tantrums etc. I saw this behaviour in myself many times years ago, it was hard to understand or to deal with, and harder to find out where it came from and how this was input into my child-life-learning to cause me to suffer and to cause others to suffer later on.
Another thing that we notice is that we react with the wrong emotions to what happens to us. Like we react in fear when something good is offered to us because we don’t know how to react with courage, so we avoid the challenge and we hide away. We can react in anger when we are frustrated, and this causes no good. But if we reacted in frustration and then common sense and logic we could solve our problems. A positive reaction and taking up the challenge is the mature way to deal with a situation, but if our childhood was toxic then we don’t have this kind of understanding and we don’t know how to use the correct tools that we were born with we tend to do the wrong thing and then hate ourselves for it later on.
We can be very insecure in relationships and cling to the one we love and this scares them and they go away for good leaving us feeling even more insecure and unhappy, and we can become a recluse from these feelings of being lost, alone once again, and of feelings of rejecting. The logic is simple, if I prick you with a pin you go away from where the pain came from, you don’t move towards it and embrace it – so the mind thinks, “I don’t like these people, they are mean to me. Hmm, maybe I don’t like all people..!” and that thought becomes more and more comfortable and we move on away from the pain and struggle and want to live alone.
One of the saddest things for me was the reliving of past events. Memories came back when I was strong enough to deal with them, and instead of rejecting them I received them and by gosh it was hard. When I tried to deal with them I could suddenly see where the real blame came from. Narcissist parents want their children victims to believe that the child victim is weak and to blame, and the main reason for this is so that the child victim will always be humbly beholden to the narcissist and in the narcissist’s control. Huge amounts of adults today still love, adore and honour their own narcissist parents, and they do this because they have been taught to do this and that society and “their people” (human race) expects them not to rock the boat, to be grateful for the food on their table, and to be silent about skeletons (sins, secrets, shame etc) in the family closet.
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When we face the past for what it really was, and we do it with an honest and humble heart it can be truly heart wrenching and very emotionally painful. But the gold is the learning of what really happened and who was really to blame. This is why they say that as long as you live with or are in the control of the narcissist’s who abused you that you will never heal, because they will use all their manipulative narcissist ways to drag the victim back into the blame and use guilt trips and these are some of their weapons of destruction in their poor victims souls.
I have no idea how many tears that i have cried, but I can recall many years of crying over something that I remember doing or that someone did to me when I was unable to defend myself and reliving the even painfully. I always found that for some events I would cry and cry very pitifully and so terribly sad, but then after a while it lost its sadness in the emotional sense and simply became a memory of my life and my past. This was the reward for facing the painful truth.
I also found that I was people pleasing, and that I had many other issues and by facing the past I can now see why and where these unhealthy addictions or habits developed. Much to think about and to deal with in recent years.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Sunday, 2 July 2017, 12:38:28 pm.
Trauma and Life Damage is obvious to those in the know. But those who were bought up inadequately, were traumatised, abused, etc, cannot set wrong in wrong because of their own dysfunction had affected their ability to set things as they really are.
Am example of this is the immature child not being able to comprehend the common sense and logic of an adult – Adults who are Immature (dysfunctional) cannot see the logic of a mature thinker. As it is beyond the comprehension of the child it is so of the adult who has not had Life Learning.
I have heard of women who have had sex for the first time, got hurt because her partner was too immature and rushed even though he promised that he wouldn’t, and the pain was so much that she left him and never had sex again.
Obviously if she were treated in a mature way she still would have felt pain but would have been treated gently with understanding, love and compassion, as is the way of people who are capable of healing the broken, instead of adding to the trauma and suffering.
Immature people struggle to see that they are immature and they use their age as proof of their maturity, even while act immature.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Friday, 16 October 2020, 9:31:57 pm
Lacking simple logic.