On the subject of flashmobs…
It just occurred to me, I don’t know why, but I think that the female who started the Character Assassination, who we shall call kitten, I suspect that she is 33 years old and met me at 17 or thereabouts, thus…
She, when she reaches 34 (17+17=34), will have spent Half of her life Character Assassinating me, destroying my life, lying about me, and stopping my work for God. Half her life. Now thats an appalling record of slander, lying and cruelty.
Artificial Intelligence song.
https://youtu.be/seKidZ7YLnc?si=oBgt6_RIe7uY_0co
Artificial Intelligence of Princess Diana and Joe Rogan.
There are two versions of marriage:
One created by Atheism ad the other created by God.
The atheist version is when two people hook up (probably the easiest way of explaining it), or they date and then decide that it feels right and get married (even church people do this), or they meet in places that God is not there, such as parties etc.
God’s version is ancient. A man and woman are connected spiritually by God, and when this happens only the two know it because they feel the love between them, no one else feels it or knows it. These two have two choices, they can marry and consummate the marriage sexually or they can choose someone else and marry that person.
The sealing of the marriage covenant is the act of sex between the two that God chose to be together. If he or she has sexual relations with someone else then the deal is off for good, there is no going back.
In days gone by, the parents brought their children up to marry as virgins. When they married they were the first for each other and they had no other sexual act to compare their love with so there was no desire to fool around and have an affair. The opposite is the Atheist version where causal sex before marriage is fully permitted and is seen as fun and getting experience etc. A person who is divorced or has had sex can still be a virgin again, but that is after a long time of trials, full commitment to God and being Born Again.
The marriage that God puts together is forever.
The marriage that atheism puts together is “lucky” if it lasts because their is no spiritual connection and it is two people of completely different characters “having a go at it” and hoping that they will stay together and the very high divorce in this modern society is proof of this.
In ancient times is was a very serious thing to marry the right person who God chose you. Spiritually connected and matched because God knows their hearts, both felt the connection, both knew that they were matched by God.
For them to date or to see other people was a sin of great measure and seen as sacrilege and seen as a direct insult to God and an insult to God’s choice for you.
Dating was seen as showing God that you didn’t trust Him and that you didn’t care for the choice that God made for you, and that was why people married and it was seen as a very serious event and that the deal (Covenant, a formal alliance and/or agreement made by God and you both) was the most important religious event of their lives other than finding Christ in the first place (unless they were brought up in a god loving home in the first place and new God from childhood).
This deal, covenant, this trinity, is the most sacred deal between a man and wife and God, and what the base that the decent Holy family was designed for. This family stands up because both are firmly believers and love each other physically and spiritually, with them and God nothing is impossible, nothing can break such a strong bond of physical and spiritual harmony and love.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Saturday, 6 May 2017, 10:59:18 pm.
Its very hard in the modern world for genuine loving guys to get a genuine loving woman, because feminism has groomed billions of females into being irrational, selfish, greedy and easily sexually active. We need loving caring women who have courage, fight, and the desire to be a wife, mother and good decent woman.
I got s lot of deja vu’s watching this, about my ex-wife. She was always going round and round in circles making me guess all the time what it was that upset her, or what she wants, or what she is feeling and so on, just one bog toxic drama. Many women state that men when they leave them are toxic, mean, and so on, but the reality is that he is over her, and over women and she is the reason why. You see, if the world were to know it was her fault, she wouldn’t be able to abuse, use and screw up the life of the next man.
The sad part for guys who go through this female hell, is that there are no women to show him how a good woman is.
Shame:
When we see children we see innocence, we see the true character of a person before he or she has matured, we laugh at the innocence, at the silly things that they do, and we love their spontaneous ways. One of the most delightful things about little children is their laugh, so full of real happiness and joy – there is nothing fake there, nothing pretentious. This is how you and I were once. This was before the modern world took us and shook us up and down painfully, confused us, abused us, and we focused on many unimportant things and lost our way doing silly things and the end result was a dislike of ourself and shame.
We, you and me, each one of us, was born with the innocent joy of life, the desire to discover, the wonder of it all and we moved with the thrill of discovery.
Some people do something so bad that they discover within themselves such a deep shame that they struggle to deal with it. It seeps right into their inner core. To deal with this they can develop a new “self’. A person can go through his or her life doing bad things and making excuses for them rather than face them for what damage they did to ourself or others.
For many of us these days we feel flawed, that something is wrong with us, we think that we are failures, unable to cope, dim etc. Why does this happen to some and not others? It depends on what happened to us during our most influential years, or even when older.
I used to wonder why rich people with all the money, best schools, best doctors, best therapist, etc have children that are drug addicts, commit suicide, become alcohol addicted, or become sex and porn addicted. They have it all, the had the best that society can offer, and yet it all failed, why? Why does the poor kid from the ghetto rise up and succeed where the rich failed? Because life has nothing to do with material gain or money, it is about what happens to us as we grow. Our real education is what happens to us during our lives.
Like the tree everything has a root from which it started from.
For instance if you have an anger/violence issue it can be traced back to the past somewhere. My father had a spontaneous anger that would erupt at a moments notice. And as an adult I discovered that i was doing this. I assumed that it was part of my character or that something was wrong with me and I became ashamed of myself every time I freaked out. “What was wrong with me?” One problem was that I was mimicking the closest male example I had as a child, my father.
And I was hurt because of what had happened to me by others that I was ashamed of, and things I had done myself that I was ashamed of, so I was angry at life, my part in life, and angry at myself for who I was and what I had become.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Sunday, 12 March 2017, 11:53:44 pm.
Years ago when I was a child I had two bad events happen to me. One was extremely bad, and the other bad. My mind, in order to protect my child-mind from going insane blocked out the extremely bad event and merged it with the other event and I thought that they were both the same event.
One, the extremely bad one, was of a shadow, darkness, and then a horrific=c event (I was 9 years old).
The other was an event where the piece of wood went into my forehead and they took an X-ray of this and the big black X-ray zoomed over me and I was crying, screaming in fear. I always thought that my reaction was an overreaction for a simple x-ray.
The reality is that they were two completely different events joined together so that I would not remember the other more traumatic event.
There was a young woman who had a sexual memory that kept coming to her night after night in bed. She rang up her sister and assumed that her father had abused her as a child, but the reality was that it was her mother and oral sexual abuse on her daughter. At first the daughter, trying to avoid the truth, was in denial. But finally she asked her sister who said that it was the mother who abused them both.
Years ago one my daughters was shown a very short part of a movie that was violent, by me. It wasn’t a bad scene or anything like that. But years later in tears and anger she told me of how I hurt her and caused her much fear and grief from showing her the movie. I was at a loss for words and very confused. But finally after some conversation we finally worked out that her mother had shown her the entire movie and somehow my daughter had “imagined” that I had shown her the bad movie so I got the blame.
I saw an interesting movie where a mother who hated a man who her daughter loved, used a tragic event to brainwash the daughter into thinking that the man had done it to the daughter. All through the movie (which I cannot remember the name of) the daughter dislikes the man, and he is totally confused and at a loss for the daughters dislike for him. Finally the daughters mind separates the two events and the daughter realizes that the mother lied to her for many years to keep them apart.
Facts:
The mind can block or merge memories so that we will not remember them until old enough and strong enough to face them all over again.
People can brainwash us into thinking something bad happened that didn’t happen at all, or we can be brainwashed to hate or to see in evil in people who did us no harm at all.
So please be weary of old memories that are not so clear, and do please be open-minded that what you remember may have been tampered with by your own mind of by sneaky mind tricks of people trying to confuse you and have you believing in the wrong things.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
I have met or read about a lot of wannabe motivators, or wannabe religious leaders. People who want to be famous for their intelligence and ability to help coach or motivate others.
Years ago I read that one cannot be a leader in a field or motivator until he or she has been trough the narrow path to their version of success themselves. In other words you can’t get it from books, or from courses, you have to live it, or at least be living it as you teach it.
In the case of religion God cannot express His will through an unclean vessel or a vessel that is not approved of by God personally for that task. Satan can though. Unclean could be a vessel that is still a babe in Christ, meaning still holding on fondly to addictions and bad habit,s pride etc. Clean could mean this person has been on the long and narrow path and has removed all addictions and bad
habits and is obedient and listens to God guidance etc.
It is the same as a student who passes a course on carpentry in the theory, does all right on the projects, and passes, yet in reality is excellent at the theory and very weak on putting it in action. In other words this person cannot efficiently teach carpentry.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook. 2018.
Your home is your castle. A trespasser or intruder knows that he or she will get “sorted out” by the home owner, so they enter at their own risk. And thats the point. In days of old you could give them a damn good hiding to “give the intruder a lesson” so they won’t do it again making the community safe for everyone, the law was all good with that. But after the “we don’t want to offend or hurt anyone” the criminals get treated like victims even though it is obvious that entering someone’s home they could do anything evil and bad. If the criminal gets a decent hiding the criminal can say, “I wasn’t going to hurt anyone” and the laws support the criminal. Madness.