Some of the hardest things to discover for a person:
° That I was wrong.
° That I mistreated someone who is innocent.
° That I blamed others for my failings.
° That I was so insecure I was arrogant.
° That I wasn’t as innocent as I thought I was.
° The I refused to apologize because I had pride.
° I refused to make right the wrongs I had done because I didn’t want my friends to know I had been wrong all along.
° That I was people pleasing.
° That I had crucified someone publicly for something that person hadn’t done.
° That I let people push me around because I was too scared to stand up for myself.
° That there were battles I could of won but I was too scared of the consequences of being right.
° That I let someone down who believed in me.
° That I turned away true love because my family and friends said to turn away.
° That I broke someone’s heart because I thought of myself first.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
July 14, 2016 at 4:40 PM
The heard mental health sounds exactly the same as my ex-wife, the Borderline Personality Disorder and so on.
The interesting part is how she says that his reaction was the same as mine with the ex.
This goes beyond his or my character, its any how you react to another person’s treatment of you. And Heard in the psychiatric report comes out really bad, she sounds just like my ex.
She had that thing where she does wrong and can’t see it for the life of her but will blame her partner (or children) for it, but she can’t see it in herself. Heard, deems herself completely innocent. Meaning like they both did wrong, but Heard only things that Depp did wrong and that she was victimized, she even went as far as did interviews of his abuse of her, and claiming that she was the only victim.
The blonde I lived with did the same, she split up with me and told everyone how she was victimized, innocent and did no wrong and that I was the cause of the split up.
When you are the guy you cannot publicly defend yourself because the woman instantly gets the sympathy and adoration as the victim.When the wife left, she first left me with 2 childrne nd she was adored, then she left a second time, leaving 4 childrne, and was still adored, when she took me to court after not seeing the childrne for 4 years claiming that I stopped her from seeing them, and 3 were willing to defend me in court the judge, child lawyer, my female lawyer, and her lawyer all supported her, thats how she got Jimmy.If I stand up and claim unfair play all support her, Tracy, Rachel and Grace were horrified at how she manipulated the courts and won, and successfully made me out to be a monster.
The blonde I lived with did the same, she split up with me and told everyone how she was victimized, innocent and did no wrong and that I was the cause of the split up.
When you are the guy you cannot publicly defend yourself because the woman instantly gets the sympathy and adoration as the victim.When the wife left, she first left me with 2 childrne nd she was adored, then she left a second time, leaving 4 childrne, and was still adored, when she took me to court after not seeing the childrne for 4 years claiming that I stopped her from seeing them, and 3 were willing to defend me in court the judge, child lawyer, my female lawyer, and her lawyer all supported her, thats how she got Jimmy.If I stand up and claim unfair play all support her, Tracy, Rachel and Grace were horrified at how she manipulated the courts and won, and successfully made me out to be a monster.
“Don’t worry about tomorrow. After all, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.” – Author Unknown.
Many with titles, education, money etc get adored by the public yet they do everything for themselves. While the meek, humble genuine souls are often ignored, yet they are the foundation of the better decent honourable world that the public so desperately long for.
Some religious people I have met have told me that they want the truth. So they have prayed, and then when the truth (I see it easily from outside of the situation) is presented for them to see an digest, they refuse to see it, even if it is clearly obvious and shown to them.
They have at some stage previously got a strong belief in something, a core-belief, and that got a strong emotional hold on their hearts and souls, and when presented with some truths that prove that core belief wrong they refuse to see it. Maybe they don’t want to believe that a relative or old friend set them up.
To see the truth would give them the horrible feeling that they were wrong, that they made a very serious error of judgment, and possibly hurt someone innocent in the process. That they failed God and themselves.
Psalm 27, verse 11: “Teach me thy way, O LORD!”
Honesty = Moral Excellence. That which is good. Pure, admirable, true, honourable, integrity, moral rectitude.
An honest man is the noblest work of God – A Pope.
It is better to be more than you seem, than to seem more than you are.
Because they are religious they pray for God’s help and guidance in the issue before them, but they really don’t want the truth because it would upset them too much. But they were given the truth. But God gave it to them anyway to them to set them free from whatever false/fake-story (fake person) that was previously given to them.
God wants truthful, humble, honest, people on His team, not people who are easily influenced, seduced, and then afraid to face the truth of their part in some dishonest scheme.
Pretending that the truth is false is not doing anyone any good, and is not fooling God in the least.
Just how courageous are religious people when they don’t want to face the truth and set things right that they have previously done wrong!
Obedience – doing God’s will rather than your own.
Had he done as the master told him, he would soon have come to understand. Obedience is the opener of eyes. – George MacDonald. (Unspoken Sermons).
Psalm 51, verse 6:
Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.
I thirst for truth, But shall not drink it until I reach the source. – Robert Browning.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2018.
Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. – Maya Angelou.
Another video to the female that will probably never see them but its nice for me to let out the feelings, explanations, feelings and hurt: