If love works, then why does Marriage guidance exist?
Because everyone is married to or with someone who they were never supposed to be with. They are not equally yoked, that’s why they need drugs, extra sex with others, parties, booze and counseling.
It is said that a small part of the universe is light and the rest is dark matter and dark energy, thus darkness.
But as they say, if you know something then you have found the light, the Prophets were called the Light, and God is often called the light.
So Dark is associated with Satan, Evil, Devils and so on.
Light is associated with God, Angels of Love, Love, and all things good.
Being in Darkness, can be in bright sunlight, because the Darkness is Evil, thus you are in a bad toxic situation, thus you are in darkness. If you are lied too, then you are in darkness while the truth is all around you, but you are unaware of it. Thus you are as good as in a dark tunnel because you cannot see what is really going on all around you.
This is where the situation arises where people will protect, defend, side with, the Darkness that they have become convinced is light.
There is an interesting difference between obsession and love.
There is an interesting difference between obsession and love.
A person who is obsessed is driven by an internal force to get what it is that they want – it drives them hard and they do things that do not fit their character but they do them to get what it is that they want.
They will even hunt down and kill what they are obsessed with. They can be very dangerous and scary.
Being in love can have many of the same symptoms as being obsessed about a person.
But there is one difference and that is loving the other person more than what it is that you want.
Love is giving, not taking by force or intimidation etc.
I remember the story about the woman who is risen in fame and becomes a model.
(True story) and she one day is met by the man who claims to love her and eventually he kills her because he doesn’t want anyone else to have her.
The other case, and there have been throughout history many true examples of this, is the case of loving the person more than what you want yourself.
The perfect example of this is shown in the Charles Dickens story called A Tale Of Two Cities.
Sydney Carton who seems a worthless chap by society falls desperately in love with a woman.
But she is in love with another man, Charles Darnay. In the end the man that the woman loves, is sentenced to death.
Both men look alike so Sydney sneakily trades places with the man who is his rival (the one innocently sentenced to death) and he takes his punishment, death – because to have her and know that she loved another man is too much for him to handle.
So he does what he can do to make the woman that he loves happy by giving her the man that she is in love with.
And Sydney going to his death comforts a young girl who is going to be killed in the French Revolution with him. Love is about unselfishly giving, and then giving some more and more.
“It is a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done; it is a far, far better rest that I go to than I have ever known.”
To me that story is far more romantic than Romeo and Juliet.
Because love sometimes requires sacrifice.
Many parents since the beginning of time have given their own lives for their children or done such wonderful things for their children. In the most dangerous situations the parent not only risks their lives, but gives their lives for their children
– they are not selfish and their child’s/children’s interests are far more important than their own interests.
They want to do all that they can to give their children the best opportunities in life – and one is living.
I remember the story of the teacher protecting the children in a recent shooting.
During a history lesson with my son we came across a man who managed to save all his class except one.
He held the door closed while the killer was trying to get into the classroom – and while he had bullet wounds he held on and finally a shot through the head killed him.
There was the woman teacher who hid the children.
This is going the extra mile and not being selfish with fear but brave beyond the call of duty.
These people are examples of love and sacrifice for others.
The mother who’s child was about to be mauled by a bear
– she had a broom and stepped forward yelling at her poor frightened child to get to safety
and then she attacked the bear all the time knowing that this was not going to end in her favour but forward she went, bravely and full of love for her child she hit it and then it killed her.
The child got away.
Love sometimes is shown in sacrifice and sometimes simply in being lovable.
I fell in love with a girl and tried fairly hard to let her know that I loved her.
I told her mother I loved her daughter but her mother was against the relationship and retaliated viciously.
And finally I saw that the girl was happy with someone else.
And so I stepped aside to let her have the love that she wanted.
It is better to try your best but if that is not what the other person clearly wants then the best thing is that they are happy.
I love her enough to want to see her happy as she wants to be and with who she wants to be with.
People who love one another want the other person to be happy, even if it means being sad for some time.
Even today what happened disappoints me, but what would be the good of living with someone who didn’t love me!
There are many true life stories where people have given their life or in some was sacrificing what they had for the one/s that they love.
Parents sometimes go without food so that their children can grow up strong and healthy.
There are so many wonderful examples of true love that people have for one another. It is all about empathy and caring so much so that we genuinely want to see other people happy.
We love them so much.
They know that when they do this that someone else will have the one that they love once the grieving is over but still their love is far stronger than even their own life.
God is love.
Look to Jesus and God to find an amazing example of sacrifice, compassion and love.
There is no selfishness in spiritual love.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
September 8, 2013 at 9:51 AM.
Many people don’t understand what other people know about them, and that it is only through the grace of God that they are not hanging from the noose that they made themselves. Pride makes people think that they can come up with a plan to seduce and fool people. This reminds me of that girl who wanted to sleep with me, she was already pregnant, but she didn’t want the man responsible to be found out because he was well known in the community, so she needed to blame someone else.
God interfered with her plans, and even though I had no idea what she was doing and how she was trying to use me, God stopped it.
When people don’t believe in God they struggle to understand why things don’t go their way. They make plans, they are sneaky, clever even, but still once again the fail – but they refuse to believe that the reason why their devilish plans don’t come through is because they are being watched as they try to use, abuse and hurt God’s people and God’s faithful.
I was talking to the neighbours wife, gave her a bike helmet, and she told me that she was clearing out under the lawnmower – and I asked her if she had turned off the engine at the switch or throttle and she said no. I told her that I read years ago that if the engine was turned on and if you moved the blades under the lawnmower the mower could start and chop your hands off. So, I mentioned to her that it was a good idea if she turned off the mower first before she did anything under the mower.\
Jamie is now 14 years old. her birthday was yesterday. She wanted to know what I got her for her birthday, and i said that if she wanted I could make a t-shirt pattern for her.
Wookie, the fluffy kitten that rides on my shoulder from time to time, has stuff on his eye (I think its a her) and when I try to clean her eye she attacks me and gets very upset. So its hard to clean her eye when she does this.
My latest t-shirt creation.
Denial may seem to protect us from painful feelings, but it doesn’t make them go away – it just helps us avoid them temporarily. You can only kid yourself for so long. Generally, the longer you deny the truth, the more pain it causes until it finally becomes impossible to ignore. Denial always turns out to be self-defeating. – Susan Forward.
I may not be:
I may not be the fastest
I may not be the tallest
Or the strongest
I may not be the best
Or the brightest
But one thing I can do better
Than anyone else…
That is to be me
– Leonard Nimoy.
Dreams are thin air until we have the courage to make them happen. 2021.
Please remember this,. every time a person argue with a proven liar all we are doing is giving the liar a chance to lie themselves out of being caught out again. You don’t have to take part in pointless argument with people have proven that they are fakes and not trustworthy. 2021.
When a person idealizes the person who they are in a relationship with they see only what they want to see in the other person. Facts may be clear, but to the person doing the idealizing the only thing that he or she see’s is the one thing that will keep them together. They have taken an imaginary badge and pinned it on that person who they have decided is their perfect person and it does not matter what this person does wrong they disregard everything except the imaginary perfection they pretend is real to make their fantasy complete.
This is why when it all falls apart the person doing the idealizing is completely devastated that the other person is not who they had thought that they were, they have finally woken up and seen that person for ho they really are.
Life is better when we see people with truth, honesty and don’t allow ourselves to put people up on pedestals.
2021.
Say you are in an unfruitful situation, and you want to be away from it but fear trying.
The thing to remember is that if you try at least there is a chance of change, if we don’t try there is not change, we guarantee that we fail we do not succeed and there is nothing better than what we currently have.
Trying is giving ourself a chance, and if we end up back where we are now then that is fine, at least we tried, took risks, had a go, and wanted out.
Back when Dobie got lost.
The Pound told me that they had no dog of her description and then this afternoon I got a call about it, went down and sure enough the naughty girl was there after all.
I found out the hard way that the valve for the tubeless tires gets seriously rock-hard stuck. My back tire had gone down and I pumped it up with my electric pump but I was unable by hand to tighten the valve nut, it had frozen solid, so I had to walk home and loosen it with a pair of pliers. I then pumped it up and all was well.
The argument that Jesus was not God is that God cannot sin.
Adam and Eve were cast to Earth “Because they were sinners” and were sent to the place where God cannot go, Earth where the sinners go.
God cannot be where evil is, and there was huge amounts of evil on Earth when Jesus walked the planet.
The sin-cloud is the cloud we create that distances us from God, it keeps us far from God and closer to Evil.
To remove the sin-cloud we must be more like Jesus, the man, and Mary the woman, after they had both become God’s children.
God turns from sin, cannot help us do evil, so clearly God could not walk the planet with sin all around Him everywhere, and that is why God created Prophets and their wives, to do His work here on Earth when humans lose touch with God. The church was not created by Jesus or God, it came after Jesus is dismissed from the Bible.
Jesus, nor Mary, could not help people unless they knew what it was like to do all the sinful things, such as being a alcohol drinker, sex partaker, many relationships, be parents, and so on, all things that a Holy God could not do.
That makes Jesus a man, born into a bad family, Mary the same, but Mary was a lesbian virgin because she had to be kept a virgin to consummate the marriage with Jesus so that they can become the worlds Salvation from both individually burning over hot coals with years and years of suffering from family, friends, sex abusers and so forth.
What ever was bad in those times either Jesus or Mary suffered it.
The consummation of their marriage was also the pair of them telling God that they were now ready to go forth and bring God’s message to the world in the form of their teachings based on their experiences, love for God, faith, trust, and hope for a better future and destiny for all.
So clearly Jesus could not be God.
Jesus had to be a man, had to suffer, had to know what it was like to be abused, sexually raped as a child, have a feminist mothers, chauvinist father, evil around him, and then when Mary finally came to him in tears, she understood that she had been brainwashed, trained, and fill of hate for Jesus at the teachings of her immoral, indecent, child abusing parents.
This is how God saved the world, through the marriage of Jesus and Mary.
The so-called good looking Jesus is the antichrists, an image of Mr Perfect. In the New Testament it states (I forget where) that Jesus was “not yet 50” which gives the impression he was close to 50 years old, and that he was a wine drinker and so forth, clearly a man older than Mary, who had experienced much, been victimized by women, had made some bad choices because he knew not what he was doing
And because of this he and Mary could teach people that now as adults that they too, “Knew not what they were doing”, and healed the world.
Why does the world not know this?
Because if it were written, both Mary and Jesus would have seen the plot and probably got together much earlier, before they had learned all that they needed to know to help others, plus also other people may have read it and put two and two together and praised Jesus and Mary and they would have become prideful and arrogant, victims of their own ego’s, and they would have been of no use to God or the world, it had to be done at the right time.
It had to be done in such a way that neither knew, and Mary had to help the evil family victimize Jesus so that she could learn what it was like to be on both sides of the fence, that she was worshiping Satan, that she was loving, helping and supporting evil people and Enabling them to carry on busing others, and that she had to learn how to be humble and go to Jesus in honest tears of shame for how she had helped him suffer for o long.
I have been, for 17 years protected by God, and everytime a violent situation comes up the others always back down even though there is only one of me. So why, in the name of heaven would God kill Jesus (yet save me) when God needed Jesus to change the world, and why would God allow the others, like James to be killed? He wouldn’t, you don’t kill (or allow the killing of) of your finest people, and where love is concerned honestly, would God have torn Jesus and Mary apart or brought them together to show the world how to have a family, a godly decent family.
You see, Mary was bad, considered a filthy person, Jesus was shamed, considered many ugly things through what people said about him, both seen as unfit for the ministry, or for teaching in the church, and that is why God needed them to tear down the old system and start things anew. “All things become new”, a reformation.
Both Jesus and Mary were anointed before birth, both destined for each other, both had no idea about this at first, then Jesus knew for a long time, and then finally Mary figured it out, but she had to realize just how well she was brainwashed, and how much she was used to hurt the man she loved.
The reason the church is failing the world is that it is not God’s.
God has worked to help people in the church system, all of them, for many years to help them out because God still loves them wherever they are, God Does Not recognize human churches.
I read today that one of the reasons people don’t like Chlorine in the water supply is that it can go on to be chloroform in the right conditions 🙁
So if you drink tap water and have dizzy spells or want to sleep, that may be why.
A man who was a tyrant, insisted that his wife arise early in the morning to prepare his breakfast. He was very demanding with regard to her care of the house, required a strict accounting of the money spent on groceries, clothes for the children, etc. Then he died.
Later she married a man who was the opposite, loving, tender, considerate, unselfish. One day she was going through some of the effects of her first husband and found a list of all the things he had required her to do.
Then to her amazement, she realized she was doing all those things for her present husband without being required to do them. She was doing them voluntarily because she loved and respected him.
– Author Unknown.
I had a girl friend who I loved a lot. I put a lot of faith and belief in her. I wanted to live with her for the rest of my life. And I wanted her to be the mother of my children.
Over the years, every now and then someone would tell me that she was seen with other men while I was at work. Some said that she was having affairs.
But you see I had put her on a a pedestal in my mind and I refused to see anything except that perfect wife, mother of my children, person I loved who loved me, image in my mind.
So for a long time I was very gullible and was used and abused by her because she was having affairs.
Some people defiantly defend people who are treating them wrong and abusing the relationship, but because we put them on a pedestal of unbreakable honour we remain weak, gullible, used and abused, and we refuse to accept what is obvious and what is happening right under our own noses.
A narrow mind, is a blind mind.
We got to wake up, and I finally did. And I took hard tearful action, because I couldn’t allow myself to be abused like that by her ever again.
If you need to, be brave and free yourself. It is hard at the beginning, but it is something that you will never regret.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2015.
To you folk out there who have had a rough life, treated in a lesser way than you should have been, and had this done by people who want to lower your expectations of yourself and of what you deserve in life, I want you to know that you do deserve the best in this world.
The world is a free gift to us all. Society is who strips us of our natural wealth and what we are truly due at birth. The day that we were born we inherited the planet. Yes, each and every one of us. No one can honestly claim ownership of our planet.
Please don’t let sorrow, unhappiness, and disappointments of the past along with people opinions of you stop you from believing that others should have the best and not you.
You want a wedding, a nice wedding, with love around you, with God there, with caring folk to send you and your love off to a new life. It is yours, keep hanging on to that dream and working towards it. It will only be your feeling that you don’t deserve this that will stop you from having it. Don’t take something cheaper and less, believing that you don’t deserve the best. You will forever be disappointed if you accept something less, believe and don’t ever give up on you. You are worthy.
Stand strong on your honour, stand for love and decency, stand for truth and goodness, because all of these are what you want your future family to be blessed with. So start now and be strong so that your future family will have your strong loving decent foundation to stand on for strength and durability. Your courage now will be your children’s courage in the future. Don’t take less than what you deserve, you deserve the best, God’s best.
The world is not for just the few. Everyone was born equal, it is society that segregates us into divisions based on race, religion, country, wealth and fame etc. People sometimes want to put us down and freely judge us, and those feelings can make us feel less worthy, and we feel that only the few can enjoy the special treatments and blessings of life, but that is wrong thinking.
You are a blessed child, you too can have all that too, all that the others have and more. What are your dreams and desires, ask yourself this.
Dream of that wedding, dream of that future, dream of those things that will bless your heart, soul and future family life.
You are a human being, a jewel created on this earth to shine in the life of others, while bringing back to yourself what you deserve. What you give out in your loving shine is reflected back to you by others and by a pleased loving God.
Don’t let opinion, mistakes, and old sins hold you back from what you deserve in this life as an honored child of God.
You are awesome, believe that, believe in you. Be true to you.
And please don’t ever stop dreaming, and acting on those worthy dreams!
All the best from
James M Sandbrook. 2014.
If the person that you are with lies to other people you can be sure that when the time suits this person and the occasion is something that they want you to see as different to what it really is then they will lie to you and deceive you. If you are willing to keep this type of company (family or not) you must be willing to accept the results and expect to not receive the truth in the future.
Not receiving the truth is detrimental to your life. We make judgments and decisions based on what we know to be true. So if a person lies to you (As you have seen them lie to others) then you will base your decisions on the lie (hoping that it is true) and you will fall into a ditch of regrets while the liar walks away with a smile on their face because they deceive you for a reason, it is so that they can gain something from the lie and you believing in that lie.
Be not deceived, bad company corrupts good manners.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook. 2013.
There was this young lady who was brought up with a tough feminist mother and a weak father. The mother ruled the roost and the daughters were her prey to manipulate freely. The mother knew how to get what she wanted from the weak-minded father, he put his wife before his children.
The young lady found God. She had been through some tough times and was once a very hard-out person with activities that would make any church shudder, although she was a bit of trouble her mother was pleased with her. This young lady once she found Christ collected motivational stories and lessons and she followed some people who were known for their motivational skills etc. She wanted to improve her life, she wanted to grow spiritually and have a relationship with God.
She even fell in love after she changed her ways. She prayed for a husband to take her away – but the man that God gave her didn’t sit well with her family and they rejected him with harsh enthusiasm, making up lies and going to great lengths to put the man down. Rather than disappoint her mother and sisters she kept away from the man. When she saw him her heart flipped and she felt very drawn to him but the power of her mother, sisters and old friends was far too strong for this weak-hearted lass.
So she searched here and there for a new man of her dreams. She yearned for a better life but wouldn’t depart from those in her old life. She still lived at home with her family and their influence on her life and actions was strong, very strong. Butch tough female friends were regular visitors and friends and they kept her in her place. This girl, a past people pleaser prayed for God’s protection and that God would take her from it all and God did try, but the lass wouldn’t take up the courage to follow God’s guidance.
After some years this lass gathered some good standards and was a much better person than she was in the past.
As time went by she stopped reading and collecting motivational religious material and listened to her mother and friends more and more. Their influence cleverly crept up on her, and day by day, night by night, they all gained more and more influence in her life again.
One day she came across her old writings the motivational religious materials that she had once collected and read so joyfully, and when she picked them up a flood of memories and feelings overwhelmed her soul. In shock and tears she realized what had happened. She had put God aside, she had finally become the same as her friends and her mother and sisters. It just crept up on her and she never made that move to freedom. She never escaped. She had become what it was that she hated in people, she was now one of them, again.
Slowly and cleverly her parents, sisters, friends, parties, drug and alcohol induced world had kept her young mind busy and deluded. Dreams disappear when the mind is misty from alcohol and drugs, ego and arrogance and a desperation to be accepted had drowned out God and the dreams of having a happy family of her own.
Along with pats on her back as she was comforted and motivated to go back to the old ways she slipped right back into the groove of life that she had once left to follow Christ. Devastated she cried a lot that afternoon.
She had lost it all. The man that God sent to her had moved on and was married to his own little lady and he had reached out to the world. Together a useful meaningful pair that were a symbol of good marriage and they now had children. God only gives the best but sometimes the temptations of the world are just too much and some people never experience the best or a better life.
The lesson this young lady learned was hard and a shock. This can happen to any of us because the old days are familiar and we once accepted them and lived them, and while we accepted the old ways we felt comforted that we were accepted by the crowd. It is easy to slip back into that life and accept it again. Especially it is easy to go back to the old ways when we allow our minds and souls to be in the clutches of those who still live that old life.
If one really follows God with a gentle love for themselves then they will want better for themself and be truly disgusted in the old ways so much that they will never ever go back to them. Allow yourself to be convinced by Christ!
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
14th of April, 2013.
When you know what you are doing, distance, and good timing:
https://fb.watch/cn1TpTNG_K/
Anyone who knows anything about humans and the human mind knows that humans love structure, and to be given rules to happily abide by, and to live in “patterns”, to love tradition and to follow creeds, orders, and so on. People today are falling away from “traditional” religion, not just the old religion but new religion.
All forms of “other” Governments are a form of “religion”, just as the Catholics and Protestants are, also the eastern and other religions.
Its a form of mind control because the people love it.
A child therapist will tell you how your child likes a well ordered, well structured, well planned home, with repetition, it gives their lives meaning, a pattern, and makes life easy to carry out a it seems so secure and strong, until there is an Earthquake and so on, or a death in the family to throw all that order, ‘out of order’.
The Jesus of History and the Jesus of Religion are two different things, and this is why Jesus said you may call my name but I will not know you.
This is because the Jesus they (those who don’t follow Jesus’ teaching but follow church teachings) are calling too is not the real Jesus.
What Jesus taught was of a way to life, in the homes, out in the fields, out on the boats, everywhere.
Jesus taught of feeding, clothing, helping people, so did James.
Some people claim that the religion that we have today is the Antichrist, the fake Jesus.
In the churches the people were walking with Jesus and the antichrist side by side, but for the most many were with the real Jesus because they acted as Jesus asked of them and as Jesus preached.
The preaching, was a teaching, of a new way to live, as God intended us to live.
The Antichrist is the traditional church, the “invented-Jesus” to keep the church alive and running, – Religion is said to be supernatural, but for who? God, Satan, the antichrist? “Religion” itself has become a business, it takes money, has leaders, laws, and so on, but at its worst does not follow the Jesus they claim to follow, they instead follow the antichrist, their own invention, the perfect man that we cannot hope to ever reach, or become, or copy. By keeping us weak, sinners, and helpless, the congregation stays trapped (Stockholm Syndrome) in survival mode adoring our captives and feeling like we are a part of some elite group that God loves, and we don’t have to do anything to really make God happy except go to church pay money, adore the church leaders, and stay failures.
If all that Jesus taught is a way of life, “to live with empathy, compassion, and so on”, why do we not live that way today and still sing to Jesus?
How can we love Jesus, but not be as Jesus was – all these are signs of the entire church being hypocrites.
If you walk with the real Jesus you do as Jesus taught.
If you walk with the Antichrist then you go to church, tithe, praise Jesus, and go home and do indecent, immoral sex acts, cause strife amongst people,
What God hates, Jesus hates, a proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, a false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren. If you live in anyway or sense what God or Christ hates then you are walking with the Antichrist and not Jesus or God.
Going to a building, your prayers, tithes/offerings, praises, singing, all of that means nothing to God if you are not following the teachings of Jesus.
Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloth, Wrath, Envy, Pride, do you partake in such ways?
One of the amazing discoveries in church was that those who partakers in the 7 deadly sins had no idea that they were, including the preachers, their wives and members of the church.
By the way, any church that has a “membership” is not following Jesus, because Jesus welcomed all, kept them all, and stood by them.
Are you prideful? If you are you probably justify it in your mind and refuse to see it. The truth is too uncomfortable for the prideful to see their own guilt.
Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloth, Wrath, Envy, what about those.
For most people its sex. An uncontrolled desire to masturbate, have sex, affairs, do immoral indecent acts, and then call them good, fun, normal, yet, be honest, how can they be normal?
You can’t go from uncontrolled masturbation to normal sex, you need to be healed first, to go from one to the other means just becoming a whore, but there will always be a religion out there that caters fro feminism, whores, and all sort sof filth.
The real Christ does not agree with such things, the antichrist makes excuses for them and states that it is what it is, so don’t trouble yourself over doing these things, its life – the meanings and words of evil, upon willing minds keen to sin, but also keen to pretend to God that they follow Him, while they love rolling in filth.
The Woman Of The Holy Spirit.
Genesis Chapter 1, verses 26-27:
And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
The message is about the woman who follows God with commitment and wants to be a blessing to her family and knows that the only way that she can do this is by following God’s teachings. The same for the male who must treat his wife with utmost respect and gentle love. I believe in this with all my heart and soul.
The rough and bad life and modern opinions tend to scare people from being submissive to God. Or that being a humble person is alright for “that guy” but not me, or that meek people are wimps. But the reality I found is that being a quiet meek-hearted person (the opposite to how I was brought up) makes us stronger because we deeply have to lean on God in faith instead of ourself. God fixes everything. God makes everything right when people have made them wrong. God does protect us totally. If our faith is strong enough and we follow God as He asks us to be committed to Him then you will see that God will protect you against the world.
A male and female with the Holy Spirit are a type of the Holy Spirit. Meaning they are like the Holy Spirit in their ways. We are spirit, body and soul. The good example of God is the person who follows God because they know that this is the best way to live. God is glorified by the godly woman because of how she acts, brings up her children and is a wonderful loving example of how a woman should be. She is a fine example that her children will follow because children pick up habits of their mothers who is normally their first teacher. If she is a badly-behaved woman then she is a bad teacher for her poor children and they will pick up those bad habits. So you can see that a godly woman is someone God is greatly pleased with and her life will show God’s blessings.
John Chapter 14, verse 16:
And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever;Just like the Holy Spirit who is a great Comforter a godly woman/wife/mother is a great comfort to her husband and children. She brings peace and harmony to the home. Her will is strong, and her ways are fair, kind and generous. She is a great comforter and families need that very much.
Romans Chapter 14, verse 17: For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.
We see here ‘and joy in the Holy Ghost’ and the woman (or man) is a joy to her family. The woman who follows the Holy Spirit like her husband who does the same and like her husband they are both a joy to their family. And a joy to one another. This is God’s way.
The godly woman calms the atmosphere.
She is a teacher of right and how to avoid wrong.
A comforter to injured family members.
She soothes sad hearts, broken emotions, and calms the storms of unhappy family members with her gentle loving ways.
She soothes hurt bodies too and she is looked upon gratefully as a comforter to injuries.
She is a fine example of the Holy Spirit.
John Chapter 14, verse 26: But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
As we see in the above verse the mother and wife like the Holy Ghost will teach all things of God and of life, love and laughter. She teaches like the Holy Ghost does because she cares, she genuinely cares. She knows sacrifice like her husband. She knows the example Jesus gave of sacrifice and she is strong and willing to do her best for her family as is her own husband for her and their children.
She guides the home. Is often organizes the home budget and keeps the money in order. A home without a father is unbalanced. A home without the mother is unbalanced and struggles. An ungodly home struggles.
A man is greatly encouraged by support from his wife. I can tell you this personally that this form of encouragement means a lot to a man. He needs to have someone to hold in the trying times and she needs to be gentle and understanding. The godly male and godly female were made for one another.
Once I was talking to a Pastors wife and she wanted to know how she could help her husband in hard times and I said that she should be a kind of spring-board that he could ask questions to or listen to his sermons and encourage him in his work, she could then reply with comments, suggestions and love. If he had something to say but no one to listen to him then he feels trapped and alone and I said to her that she is to be his helper, his listener.
And he should also be her comforter, helper, and listening ear when she needed it. Wrapped in each others arms with God’s protection from above they are a godly family following God’s ways.
The godly woman is humble, good, wise and a protector of her young and a teacher of decency and courage. She leads her children to understand God’s role in their lives and to walk in His ways.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 14, 2013 at 3:20 PM.
Sorry
Saying sorry for me once was very hard. I came from a childhood that was bitter and sorry wasn’t a word spoken often and when it was it often was not said with any sincerity. I wanted to learn to say sorry and mean it as I became an adult. I had been so tired of meaningless relationships.
For those who are frightened of the reaction from them saying sorry, believe me it is worth it anyway. Especially because it does us a lot of good to say it, regardless of the other persons reaction. I feel so blessed when people apologise to me. If they are sincere then it means so much.
I taught myself to keep looking at my actions all the time. Day after day I watched what I was doing. I positively self-criticized myself, I self-corrected myself. I gradually learned to say sorry when I was losing my temper which stopped me losing my temper and calmed me down – I was learning to realise that everyone makes mistakes, we all can play the fool sometimes, and it is very wise to stop at that realization and immediately apologise.
The moment we say the word sorry and mean it the situation can completely change. Enemies can become friends. People who are geared up for an all out argument are stunned, and lost for words at an instant apology sometimes.
It is important that both people understand that the apology is a humble admission of a mistake. A good heart apologizes. I want to have a good heart. I don’t care if other people laugh at me for being kind. I don’t care if other people think that I am a fool for wanting to say sorry and admit my guilty moment. I want to be a good person and I will never reach that goal unless I try to apologise the moment I realise that I have done wrong.
My advice to everyone is to always apologise. Pride is nothing. Pride is a bad thing. Imagine not apologizing and dying and God showing you what could have been if you had followed Him and not Satan’s foolish tool of pride.
Saying sorry is taking down walls and opening the doors to possibilities and friendships. Don’t you ever let a chance go by where you could have freed your soul by humbling yourself and saying sorry.
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Lots of love from
James M Sandbrook.
11th of April 2013.
Years ago I asked a company to quote the price of two trees being cut down, and the man in charge said over $300 a tree. He went on to explain that they had to cut the branches and dump them at their cost.
The trouble with this was I talked to his work mate separately and he told me that they chipped up the branches, put them in sacks and sold them at a nice profit as chippings or compost 
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Just recently I bought something expensive in our town and the company person asked if I wanted them to take the old item I was replacing away for a fee of course, and they would dump it for me.
But recently I talked to someone else who told me that he removed these items for free. This meant that they charged me for a service they didn’t do
The trouble with telling lies is that they look foolish in the end when caught out, and we trust them much less, when we discover the lies. Honesty is the best policy, because someone will always tell the truth to us eventually.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook. 2019.
The past is gone and the future is in your hands. Be wise, listen to your heart.
Don’t accept half, or a quarter of that dream for your future. Go for the entire dream, maybe aim a bit higher.
Do this with love and hope in your heart.
Do what is good for you, and do it right, and do it as it should be.
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No win or success is good if your part in it leaves you with self-disgust, self-disappointment etc. So do your work fairly, be honest, be the decent kind of person that you hope to compete against.
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Don’t sacrifice love for your personal goals. Instead bring love into your dreams to help complete yourself and become the one that comes from two.
To deny love is to deny spiritual happiness. To welcome innocent spiritual love that glues two souls together in harmony as God intended love to be, is to receive the love that has been enjoyed since the beginning of time.
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Believe in yourself, you are worth so much more than you could possibly imagine.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
11th of April 2013.