The much modernly wanted foreplay is the manipulation of another person’s body to “get that person in the mood” for sex.
But the reality is that cd someone is naturally lover then you need no foreplay, you will be turned on when you think of that person.
Foreplay is Satan’s way to get people in to unnatural caustic toxic relationships where they are not equally yoked.
If that parson who claims to live you demands forplay, ask why? Because someone who loves you does not need to be put in the mood, because being in the mood is what happens naturally.
A person cannot live you as they say they can, if they have to be physically seduced in to being turned on to you.
What’s Rotorsport Racing?
The Truth shall set you free!
Welcome the truth, and welcome freedom!
I was just reading about love, and friendship and a thought came to me.
The world has a high amount of divorce, so something is obviously not working on relationships where people make vows to stay with one another for life and through all things, good or bad.
James E Sullivan says that there is love where we meet people and do kind things for them. It may be a sort of friendship but it doesn’t involve our inner thoughts from deep down.
Then we have friends, a friendship love. Friends know more about us and they share more. We connect with them spiritually in a joyful manner.
Then we have what he calls Genital Love – this is where a man and woman are willing to give their total life, soul and body in love to the other person, everything.
Many people don’t know what love is before they marry. Many give the body before marriage.
Some marry because the person they want is rich – this means a limited kind of friendship, but not love. Sadness is the result.
Some people marry someone because that person is famous – but that isn’t love either, it won’t last because they are just friends.
Some people marry because of sexual enjoyment – but that isn’t love and that cannot last, because sexual pleasure always becomes boring unless it is good and honest.
Some marry because they party together – but that dies when the children come along and they have to be responsible, then the struggles come out.
etc.
Do you understand what I am saying?
I am thinking that if people are ‘not really in love’ and ‘they don’t know what love really is’ then the marriage is not going to last.
They are really just friends making serious commitments but their heart and soul (even though it may seem so at the time of marriage) is not committed to the other person genuinely.
They are just ‘going with the feeling’, and ‘enjoying the attention’, fun times, careless life, and doing as they feel etc.
In the end friendship-love brings unhappiness, divorce, and some very miserable children who have to witness their biological parents try to destroy one another with anger and dislike. Worst of all they destroy the children’s dreams of happiness and a happy home. Friends can become enemies, this happens all the time, in all societies.
The innocent children know that the love is supposed to hold their parents together. They want to believe that their parents love one another, so they are left saddened and confused when they split-up, the children then doubt that real love exists. And the children lose hope in life when the very life that created them, their parents, walk away from one another bitterly.
Real love goes a long way past any material connection between two people. And real love can weather the storms that come its way because they comfort one another and both are equal in each others minds. They want the best for reach other and will stand together through anything, that is what love is all about.
Genuine love is a spiritual connection.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2015.
People who don’t understand you or your thinking patterns, or how so little satisfies you, put you down – it is their conviction of the way of life that they have that gives them the ego and pride to try to shame your beliefs, feelings, and wants for your own life.
I have always admired the Amish, but also I do like technology, thus there is a conflict there in my thinking. But I like the life of being completely off grid and away from modern society, yet I am also concerned about modern life and the struggle people put their young in. You see, the less we experience of the natural life, the more we become distant from thinking of life in a natural way, and thus we think “plastic” thinking, become heartless while thinking that we are loving, and we tend to think less of other people and more of ourselves.
But there is a lot to be said in favour of good old fashioned healthy living, good wholesome healthy food, good healthy thinking, genuine love and care for those around us without worrying that we are being used, abused and fed lies by a Narcissist.
From a young age all I ever wanted was some land, a family, and to live in a reasonably healthy and peaceful life. This is very hard to do, as society has designed it, for someone who is not wealthy, to fail living a natural life. The wealthy buy large lots of land, can go off grid, and so on. But the not-so-wealthy can’t, thus they are slaves to their lack of money.
I admire the Amish for doing what they do, and them being happy that they do it their own way, they stepped away from the trappings and weaknesses of the human race. Years ago many people claimed that one day the Amish and their lot will come begging to be a part of modern life, but so far they have not.
I don’t agree with all of this but his views are really open, somewhat new to many I would imagine and at least he looks out of the square and uses his own mind to think his own way right or wrong, its called freedom to think as you are. The nudity at the end is definitely not my scene 🙂
Hitler
Still frames of Adolf Hitler during a speech show his use of emotion and body language to convey his message.
Adolf Hitler believed he could apply the lessons of propaganda he learned painfully from the Allies during World War I and apply those lessons to benefit Germany thereafter. The following points offer helpful insight into his thinking behind his on-stage performances:
- Appeal to the masses: “[Propaganda] must be addressed always and exclusively to the masses”, rather than the “scientifically trained intelligentsia.”
- Target the emotions: “[Propaganda] must be aimed at the emotions and only to a very limited degree at the so-called intellect.”
- Keep your message simple: “It is a mistake to make propaganda many-sided…The receptivity of the great masses is very limited, their intelligence is small, but their power of forgetting is enormous.”
- Prepare your audience for the worst-case scenario: “[Prepare] the individual soldier for the terrors of war, and thus [help] to preserve him from disappointments. After this, the most terrible weapon that was used against him seemed only to confirm what his propagandists had told him; it likewise reinforced his faith in the truth of his government’s assertions, while on the other hand it increased his rage and hatred against the vile enemy.”
- Make no half statements: “…emphasize the one right which it has set out to argue for. Its task is not to make an objective study of the truth, in so far as it favors the enemy, and then set it before the masses with academic fairness; its task is to serve our own right, always and unflinchingly.”
- Repeat your message constantly: “[Propagandist technique] must confine itself to a few points and repeat them over and over. Here, as so often in this world, persistence is the first and most important requirement for success.” (Gustave Le Bon believed that messages that are affirmed and repeated are often perceived as truth and spread by means of contagion. “Man, like animals, has a natural tendency to imitation. Imitation is a necessity for him, provided always that the imitation is quite easy”, wrote Le Bon.
In his 1881 essay “L’Homme et Societes”, he wrote “It is by examples not by arguments that crowds are guided.” He stressed that in order to influence, one must not be too far removed his audience nor his example unattainable by them. If it is, his influence will be nil.)[44]
The Nazi Party in Germany used propaganda to develop a cult of personality around Hitler. Historians such as Ian Kershaw emphasise the psychological impact of Hitler’s skill as an orator.[45] Neil Kressel reports, “Overwhelmingly … Germans speak with mystification of Hitler’s ‘hypnotic’ appeal”.[46] Roger Gill states: “His moving speeches captured the minds and hearts of a vast number of the German people: he virtually hypnotized his audiences”.[47] Hitler was especially effective when he could absorb the feedback from a live audience, and listeners would also be caught up in the mounting enthusiasm.[48] He looked for signs of fanatic devotion, stating that his ideas would then remain “like words received under an hypnotic influence.”
– Wikipedia.
Deuteronomy Chapter 31, verse 6: Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.
We should always remember the past the miracles and blessings that God has done for you to show you that in the future God will be there. That is proof and evidence of God’s work in your life, yes God almighty did it for you, and that is neat to know 
With God right behind you, you can have courage, and show your inner-strength and continue to be a blessing to all those around you – James M Sandbrook.
19th of April, 2011.
Think of Amazing Grace when it comes to seeking love, happiness and forgiveness. Bad people will tell you that you will not be loved, forgiven and happy, thats because they are bad people and don’t want you to be happy. Please do the best for you, and know that when you choose love happiness will follow. 
2021.
Love…
With love between a man and woman you have the two forces created by God which are physical and spiritual. Both have their amazing strengths. Both made spiritually in the image of God. But both not fully functional until they are together in spiritual love.
Together, if they are willing to love together truly and unselfishly, then they become a force on their own. Strong, secure, they become one being. Together they are much, they feel much spiritually and physically. They know each other, they are each other.
This is what a human being exists for. This love between a man and woman. There is nothing more truer, there is nothing more supported than love, than this love, than this existence.
This new oneness between the two which becomes one brings new life. New life to create new love. The power to do this is strong. This power is mixed with the powers of the universe. Yet it is gentle, true spiritual love is gentle with the waves of tender decent compassion. Love is the goal, satisfaction, completeness, a combining of God’s creation is in the love of a man and his wife.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 19, 2013 at 11:05pm.
One of the reasons why we should marry the person who we truly love, is because we can only get that type of love from that person. So regardless of how rich, educated, titled, poor, or how high an achiever a person is, the one who you love is the only one who can give you the love you want and need.
No one else will ever do or satisfy your heart, soul and body.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook. 2021.
Murphy’s Boy by Torey Hayden..
An amazing story of hope all because of a caring soul, Torey Hayden.
A fifteen year old boy who hadn’t said a word since he was seven years old. The assignment to help this boy had long been dismissed as futile. Kevin, the boy, institutionalised, hid under tables, feared roads, door hinges, spirals on notebooks, odd bits of string and more. This boys mind had snapped, and he had gone within himself to deny the world because it had done him wrong.
In this boys past was a dreadful secret, mental cruelty, and a wayward mother, and father. This book is an emotional story, there is so much going on and so many lies and hidden secrets. This poor child had to deal with so much that a child shouldn’t have to deal with in an adults world – some adults seem to think that the child’s mind can deal with as much as an adults – or maybe some adults really just don’t care.
I liked this book very much for what I learned from reading it. God put it on my lap at a certain time in my life when I was deeply struggling with mistreatment in my own past and I needed to accept that my past was not normal and that my parents were not normal. I also needed to accept that memories were going to surface as my courage grew and I was to face them and then they would become memories of the past, no matter how tragic or painful. Kevin had to do this as well.
Torey took this boy and took him out of his torture until finally the secret came to light and Kevin could tell the story of his life and mistreatment by adults. An amazing story of hope, and the last I read Kevin is a normal adult living a normal life.
Keven also taught me because of his life that we can get through anything. I learned a lot about inner-strength and courage from this book too. This is a tough book to read but worth it and I recommend it to people who are interested in such reading material.
All the best from James M Sandbrook. 2013.
It is when we don’t stand up for what we believe in then we let our own self down.
The only way you and I will ever know what we are capable of is to do something that we are afraid of doing. Not a scary situation but something of the heart. We gain self respect when we stand up and do what is right, no matter what the odds. And we must stay strong.
It is when we stand up against the wrongs of the world and do what we know deep down inside us that we must do that we truly come to know ourself and come to love ourself as we all should do.
Those who live a shadow of a life are not living, they are simply existing and that is no fun. Chasing self satisfaction and entertainments is not living, that is just filling in time before we die.
Challenge yourself and do what you need to do. Stand up for what is right, please follow your heart. Be strong and of good courage that is the only way that your world will ever get better.
When we don’t speak out and when we do follow the crowd we let our heart and soul down and that is a hard thing to deal with when we look in the mirror.
To love ourself we must be ourself. We must be who we were born to be, and we must be that person no matter what the odds are. Stand for what you believe in and all the fears will come crumbling down and good will become stronger than evil and your life will improve with your courage and goodwill.
Fight the good fight and do it with honour and love!
The world needs you!
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 29, 2013.
If you poke a thorn in someone’s side that person will willingly reject you and distance themself from the source of their suffering.
Even if they love that person.
The obvious thing to do is to depart from the company of the source of suffering, to stop the suffering.
If the person removes the thorn, apologizes, and completely repents with complete proven action then the person who had the thorn in their side will forgive that person and will allow a new relationship to form.
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It is only through repentance, love, compassion, apologies and forgiveness that we can repair the damage done to our minds and relationships. This is what is needed to make the world a better place.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 19, 2016 at 9:13am.
What we give out comes back to us. I fully believe this. In some way and in some manner we will get a return for the good and the bad that we do in the world. It may not happen as we expect it, but it always happens. It is because we choose our master, good or evil, God or Satan, and the returns come from the master that we show our dedication to.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
19th of April, 2013.
If we go into a relationship (not just romance) and we allow a person to be disrespectful to us for any reason then we are allowing that person to misuse us in the future.
Once a person meets you or I and they take advantage of us then they will see this as permission to take advantage of us in the future. They will, with time, come to know our weaknesses, or our gentle nature, and they will take advantage of those things leaving us saddened and unhappy with the final result when that person walks away. They often walk away untouched by it all because deep down inside they didn’t care, and we who really do care are hurt as the result. They forget the relationship in a moment, but we hurt for years. If we don’t want this to happen then we must be wise and not let ourselves be “set up”.
Some people will test a person to see how far that they can be pushed and then as the relationship goes forward they will push more and more, gaining more ground while the victim loses ground and respect in the relationship.
This is why we need clear lines where we say, “I will not cross over that boundary because it will leave me feeling unhappy and I won’t respect myself because of it. I need to respect myself and I want to love myself honestly.”
We need to put clear boundaries out for our children and we say, “Don’t go over that line because I will not accept anything beyond that!” Parents can be firm about this as it will keep the peace and happiness in the home intact and help the child’s future.
We have a home too. Your body is your physical home and it should be looked after. It is wise that we set boundaries that we will not cross over for our health’s sake. It is good to make a stand for your own health sake. No drug abuse, no alcohol abuse, no physical abuse etc.
The same is for your spiritual heart. If you do not love yourself you will allow yourself to be abused and misused and you will not feel that you deserve God’s blessings. You will greatly regret allowing people to abuse or use you in the future, so be very careful.
We must set strong firm stubborn rules and regulations according to the feel of our heart as the Holy Spirit guides us. You and I need to set boundaries that we will not step over so that we will not feel disgusted, ashamed or unhappy with ourself. We lose our respect for ourself when we allow ourself to be taken advantage of.
When people take part in one night stands they allow someone to use their body as a plaything then move on, sometimes leaving an unwanted baby (they want to play but not take the responsibility for the result of their meaningless games), and sometimes a disease or illness is the result of the action. The long term affect is the shame connected with each one night stand.
Even right now if you don’t respect yourself, show respect for yourself by doing the best that you can for yourself, “by giving yourself a chance”.
If you don’t believe in yourself right now, by taking a strong firm stand against those trying to push you around you are well on the way to believing in yourself, as you make all things become new in your heart for your life.
You are not trash and even those that you love “do not have the right to make you do something that you know that you shouldn’t do” – let them know that and stand firm. Let people know what your beliefs and values are and let them know that you won’t go beyond those values into the darker side of life.
Remember that God is with you.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 9, 2013.
Each soul learns at a different pace.
If we put individuals in a environment where they are taught to be the same we destroy their individual creativity, and deny them the opportunity to find their natural talents.
To measure and compare them with each other is to make a few feel wonderful and the others feel that they let themselves and their parents down.
Each child will shine if started off in life right, with the freedom to know that they will find their true self and worth as they mature and learn of all the wonders of love and life.
This has to be the most famous story ever written about telling lies
and fooling someone into believing what is not true.
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Genesis Chapter 3, verse 1-6:
Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?
And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden:
But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die.
And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die:
For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.
And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.
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The serpent is the ear-whisperer in this story. Spiritually or physically we can have a whisper in our ears and be lied to. The father of lies is Satan and the master of evil practices and the destroyer of truth, faith and love.
Eve argued, seemed to be putting up a good fight and then she gave in. She saw an advantage in her favour and she also was tempted away from the truth that God had taught her. She allowed her better judgment to be swayed away from the truth and from God and what is right.
A professional liar (anyone who lies, it could be your mother, father, sister, doctor, businessman, lawyer, teacher, best friend etc) is subtle (suttle) and weighs up your responses to what they tell you, they weigh up your replies and reactions, and then weave a new lie to get their way, to teach you that their untruths are truths. They have an answer to all your questions by mixing lies with truths. They have a reason that everything happens how they said that it happened. The best and most lethal liars are those who know us well and have known us for many years. They are crafty, sneaky and convincing with their persistence and their actions. And their facial expressions and looks towards us are convincing.
If we suspect someone of lies it is wise to try to see them through new eyes. If there are many that you think maybe telling fibs ask yourself why would they do this? What are they after from you? And what will you lose from believing their story? Pray, ask God to show you the truth. A little doubt can lead you to the truth especially with God behind you along the way.
The professional liar makes you feel stupid, small, foolish and sometimes even an idiot for questioning them. If there are many together then they will scoff and laugh at you and then to not feel left out or shamed you can give in and believe the lies simply to be accepted. They will offer you other things to do to get you off the path of discovery and truth that you were on. And what they offer seems fun, looks attractive and will sink your soul. What they offer will also distance you from God and His help in your life.
Eve knew that she could gain from what the liar was telling her. She was listening with an eager ear. Perhaps too eager and willing until her very unfortunate downfall. But we must realize that our downfall and destruction is what the liar is trying to bring about.
Too late Adam and Eve found out that Eve was wrong and that God was right. And they payed severely for that.
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Here are some words from Jesus:
John Chapter 8, verse 44-47:
Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it. And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not. Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me?
He that is of God heareth God’s words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God.
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People do evil deeds and tell lies for gain because they are following the ways of evil. People do evil deeds when they have weakened to evil ways because they feel some attraction or excitement by doing what is wrong. Their spiritual father is not God but Satan. Those with pride and arrogance laugh at God, they laugh at Satan and Satan laughs at them and then rewards them, his way. There is no truth in Satan or in those humans that follow Satan’s ways.
Those that don’t know God and don’t know Christ don’t follow the same rules of righteousness and goodness as Jesus does. The father of lies (Satan) has many children who try to guide us away from God’s true teachers. This is to our great disadvantage.
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There is the story in Acts which is a strong story of lying for gain.
Acts Chapter 5, verse 1-5:
But a certain man named Ananias, with Sapphira his wife, sold a possession,
And kept back part of the price, his wife also being privy to it, and brought a certain part, and laid it at the apostles’ feet. But Peter said, Ananias, why hath Satan filled thine heart to lie to the Holy Ghost, and to keep back part of the price of the land?
Whiles it remained, was it not thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power? why hast thou conceived this thing in thine heart? thou hast not lied unto men, but unto God. And Ananias hearing these words fell down, and gave up the ghost: and great fear came on all them that heard these things.
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Both Ananias and Sapphira his wife paid for their lie with their life. They wanted to keep some of the money yet give the impression that they had given their all.
People when they are weak and worldly let evil fill their hearts with lies. Each lie can be found out if one is really committed to finding out the truth. “If” we are willing to keep searching until our soul is satisfied and not simply give up when evil offers us “temptations” to take us off the track and so that we lose the plot, then we will find the truth.
The ways of evil is very crafty, sneaky and destructive. The plan of evil is that we accept the lies blindly and lose the plot.
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1 Peter Chapter 5, verse 8: Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:
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Walk in truth is the best advice I can give you on this subject. Follow God in all things that you think say and do. Don’t allow yourself to be convinced away from God or from the truth. If you have doubts, even the smallest of doubts don’t be swayed until either you find the truth or have no more doubts. God will make a way and God will show you the truth.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 19, 2013 at 12:08 PM.
If a person really loves you it will will be obvious, it will show and God will let you know.
This is true except in the case when you have turned them down and been mean and they have had to hide their love and walk the streets looking the other way when they see you and looking at the ground when you are near – they know that you deny them and even though it breaks their heart they know that to sow any love or care is simply giving you the ammunition to hurt them so much more and that would kill them.
That is why it may seem that they don’t really love you! God will still let you know that they love you but they must look away and you will of course walk away leaving behind the heart that you broke because the crowd and weaknesses are your God.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 19, 2013 at 2:43 PM.
God’s warnings are like rainbows in the sky. They are God’s promise to protect us from what we can’t see and don’t yet know.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 19, 2013 at 6:20 PM.
When I was a child I had this idea of what a man should be. My father was the worst example possible of this and he didn’t fit the image I had in my mind at all.
But as time went by that blessed childhood image became hidden behind all the pressures of High School, women, trying to be accepted by my peers, and eventually marriage.
After my marriage failed, I had depression, and struggled. While in recovery mode I remembered that childhood vision of being a good decent man, being a good father, having courage, confidence, and setting a good worthy example for the young males of today and I went back to being like that.
I often suggest to people to go back to that childhood vision they had of themselves, or their gender, what they though life should be, and what they wanted love to be and how they wanted their children to turn out like, because back when we were children we were innocent, and we thought innocently without the dysfunction of this material world in our minds.
Children think far more clearer than adults, they don’t have an agenda, they just want to grow up in a loving beautiful world with loving beautiful people and to be the very best that they can be for others and themselves.
For each of us this vision may be different, but as children it is basically the same for all children everywhere. If we got rid of the fake person society made us into and became the wonderful soul we wanted to be as a child the world will be a much better place for us all.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
It is when we don’t stand up for what we believe in then we let our own self down.
The only way you and I will ever know what we are capable of is to do something that we are afraid of doing. Not a scary situation but something of the heart. We gain self respect when we stand up and do what is right, no matter what the odds. And we must stay strong.
It is when we stand up against the wrongs of the world and do what we know deep down inside us that we must do that we truly come to know ourself and come to love ourself as we all should do.
Those who live a shadow of a life are not living, they are simply existing and that is no fun. Chasing self satisfaction and entertainments is not living, that is just filling in time before we die.
Challenge yourself and do what you need to do. Stand up for what is right, please follow your heart. Be strong and of good courage that is the only way that your world will ever get better.
When we don’t speak out and when we do follow the crowd we let our heart and soul down and that is a hard thing to deal with when we look in the mirror.
To love ourself we must be ourself. We must be who we were born to be, and we must be that person no matter what the odds are. Stand for what you believe in and all the fears will come crumbling down and good will become stronger than evil and your life will improve with your courage and goodwill.
Fight the good fight and do it with honour and love!
The world needs you!
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
April 29, 2013.
What I was never prepared for as a child was how to react to people, how to cope with stress, or be mature. An angry mother and father taught me how to be short tempered and angry. My ex caught on to this and she learned to pick at me over and over again until I lost my temper at her and then she would play the victim and claim that I was a bad person etc. I became very confused, angry at her, angry at life, myself, and especially at my lack of self control, and also I felt guilty when I tried to stand up for myself or defend myself because she would by the end of it make me feel that my anger was because I was a bad person.
Please, don’t let anyone do this to you. Gain control of your feelings and emotions, react in a mature way, and you won’t feel guilty. But most of all, remove yourself from the people who bring out the worst in you. 2019.
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