Helping People grow!

Everything God does is common sense, the biggest issue is that we don’t understand it often.

When we first find God we pray. Most people ask for true love, a happy home, children, a good life and offer to help God with their lives.

A few years go by as God shows us the difference between good and even and we adapt to God’s way of living.

But then we go back to society. Now remember God has been preparing you and your future lover for marriage all this time, maybe 5 years, a decade, and you have changed much.

But change means nothing if we don’t want to show it.

Blending back into society,m old friends, their beliefs, religions, ways, demands and what they expect of us, well, that can be a big problem.

But God is fair, so years go by, and God keeps working with you, until you either give up everything to do Gods will for your life or you go back to society doing what your family, parent and friends expect of you. Eventually you become your old self.

Being fair and Just God will not make up your mind for you nor will God force you to do well for even yourself.
If we choose to sit on the fence or be atheist then that is our free will.

So after a decade of so of guiding you and I, and we prefer to ignore God Like this.
God has for the last 4-5 years been showing you a cripple, and you know that you love this person and are attracted to this person, hut you know that your parents, friend sand family expect much more from you than a cripple, so you jump at any chance to go for someone else and pretend that it is God’s will.

Say God wants you to be a nurse, a low paying, but very worthy nurse, but your family expects more of you. Over the decade you meet many nurses and people in the field of health, and you ignore them. Eventually God must let you have your way or else God is not fair.

So carefully God takes away what God has led you too. And week after week it all disappears and you are left with what you have decided you want, what family, friends and what people expect of you.

If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life [in the sense of indifference to or relative disregard for them in comparison with his attitude toward God]—he cannot be My disciple.

For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
This verse means that the parents are not qualified to guide their young into marriage and should not interfere with this new thing that God has created. Only God can lead them.

If you don’t feel that the one God prepared for you is not worthy of you then your ego and pride are far more important than love, marriage, and God. When you are your own god you want Satan to guide you, not God.

God is having tried for a long time and having not succeeded and in seeing what you want, removes all He gave and lets you have what you want, family, friends, and people pleasing.