Sex Issues & Healing!

Healthy Sex.
When we are, as younger people, brought up in a home where the sex is immoral, disrespect, chauvinist or feminist parents, then we gain an unhealthy view of sex.

Sometimes we will meet someone who goes on about being abused by parents sexually or by a family friend and so on and for years this person had many issues with sex. Then he or she got into immoral indecent relationships, participated in oral sex, and the like, and came to be disgusted and dislike sex.

Then all of as sudden you meet that person and he or she is happily in love and in a relationship that has them with a healthy view of sex and sexually satisfied.

What changed their minds?

A decent partner who respected the man or woman and who loved that person so much that they could not have them do immoral or indecent acts, because to do so would be to disrespect their lover, and they didn’t want that at all.

You see, with decent people and true love, immoral and indecent sex is not an option it is something that they both are disgusted by and would never take part in and certainly they love their partner so much that they would never expect their partner to take part in immoral and indecent sexual acts or thinking.

We can love someone deeply. But when we talk them into filthy immoral and indecent acts we lose respect for that person until eventually the love does and we want to move on because we unintentionally see that person as weak and sexually filthy, we may not voice it, but we no longer see that person as heavenly, an angel, or someone to love.

When we respect and love our partner, the sex is gentle, satisfying, simple and deeply felt. Both are happy with simple decent moral clean sex and would not want anything else.
With a love life like that neither will feel disrespect. or disrespect the other and neither will expect immoral or indecent from the other.

If you are currently suffering from sex-issues, then look back to your younger years and young adult years. Ask yourself, what you were like, what was your opinion of indecent immoral sex? Who taught or influenced you the most and led you astray. We don’t just gain sex issues one day, these issues are of childhood abuse, trauma and so on, something happened to make us immoral, indecent and confused about the worth and value of sex and taught us to have unhealthy sex, and for some of us to become disgusted in the sexual act for many years.

Love cures. Respect gives us back a feeling that sex s good, worth it, healthy and natural. With the right person sex becomes a blessing, release, healthy and fun that two can share with no fears, anxieties or shame.

This is why love is so important. When you love your partner you will heal.
If the past lovers hurt you, then it was not love, because love heals, is good for the mind, body and soul.
Remember this, and look for true love, and the rest of a good life will follow.

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
20th of December, 2021.