Immature Sexual Thinking

Immature Sexual Thinking

Sex is supposed to be that one thing that partners share with one another that no one else is ever supposed to experience.

A material world has people treating sex as a sweet, something to enjoy as a tasty snack, but not something spiritual between two, not love.

But when one partner sees sex as a very personal, intimate, beautiful act that he or she only wants to share with the one they love it is completely soulfully devastating if the other has sex with someone else.

Obviously the unfaithful one did not see sex the same way. This is why we should be very careful when falling in love and choosing a partner for life.

Immature Love Puts Your Partner on a Pedestal

In this kind of love, one partner believes the other is perfect.
The relationship begins in a way that focuses on all the positive aspects of their partner while ignoring anything negative.
They believe they’re lucky to be in the relationship. At times, they may even feel unworthy of their partner.

Mature Love Recognizes The Faults in Their Partner

Someone experiencing mature love will see their partner as who they are.
They acknowledge all the great aspects along with the negative ones, too. They understand their partner isn’t perfect, nor do they fault them for that.
Mature love functions in a way that both partners are equal.

– Kirstie Taylor.

Both need to be sure that the other will remain faithful.
There are signs like one partner joking with mates about other women, if their eyes wandered when they see another person, when they react happily to being “chatted up” by someone else, enjoying someone’s obvious attention towards them, pin-ups in the house or garage, comments about women in movies or TV etc.
The signs are there, but often we want to believe that this is the dream love of a lifetime so we remain blind to the signs right before us.

We want to believe in the first Core Belief that this person is the real deal and we refuse to see any evidence that shows that this person wants others on the side or disrespects women etc

True lovers remain faithful for life, and if the sex gets a bit boring they talk about it, they get closer during the day, have fun, realise that something in their relationship is causing this situation and together they find out what the problem is. You see, if the sex gets boring it has nothing to do with sex because it is the same people who rocked it up just fine not so long ago, the problem is in their heads. The same with rape, rape is about domination and disrespectful, angry, feelings about the opposite gender etc.

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If one partner actively thinks about having an affair, or is attracted to someone else then there is a problem in the marriage and it is not a sexual problem mostly, but something else like one becoming bored with sex because he or she is overworking, tired all the time, on some form of medication etc. It can be worked out for those who want to try.

All the best from

James M Sandbrook.

First Published – 7 September 2018.

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