Please give people more than they expect, go the extra mile and show people that love, charity, kindness, and goodness are far more important than money or materialism.
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Please give with a smile on your face and a prayer in your heart.
Give with your heart and soul and please don’t expect anything in return for your generosity. Give because you can. Give because your heart tells you so.
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Please don’t believe all you hear. It is your God given right to investigate and find out for yourself what is right and what is wrong. If you have doubts then investigate and please don’t judge people. Find the truth because the truth will set you free, leave no stone unturned until you are completely satisfied.
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Apologize when you need to for your own sake and for the friendship and love of the other person.
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When you say “I love you”, mean it, show it, be it, do it. Make your day about love in all its wonderful ways. For a better world your heartfelt charitable example will change people’s lives and will inspire others to do as you do, especially when they see how you are blessed by your kindness and how others are made so much happier and comfortable from your loving heart.
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When you say “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye and let your body language show that you mean it by hugs, genuine tears and kisses.
Save the best of you for your marriage – and keep your marriage special, innocent and decent so that it will last, and to keep the respect alive between husband and wife.
Please don’t give in to temptations that will make your husband or wife lose respect for you. In all doings of true love, respect is very important. When we keep love genuine, decent, caring and good, we feel decent, respect each other, and no dark thoughts come between the two, or bad feelings etc.
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We should never laugh at anyone’s dreams because their imagination may be seeing something our imagination has not thought of yet.
Please instead encourage, inspire and advise them and discuss the adventures yet to come. Help show them the way. They may have discovered the next great invention or idea that may make important changes to your life and the world – please always encourage and help people to explore their own ideas. You could end up on the ground floor of something amazing.
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Please encourage people with all your heart and soul because to do so will make them happier people and your encouragement is a blessing to both of you. You will always be happily remembered for your encouragement. And people will attempt more and reach further in their lives because of your encouragement and positive attitude towards them.
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Love deeply and passionately. Love with all your heart and soul holding back nothing. Be your true loving self. Please remember always that people and love, charity, kindness etc are always more important than money, carreer and material gain.
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Please always have a tender spot in your heart for the underprivileged, the sad, the needy, the poor, and the homeless. They need our help, love and encouragement to reach within themselves to change.
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Do feel sorry for the narcissists, the greedy, mean and abusive. Remember always that the problem that they have with you is a reflection of who they are and their mental issues etc. Their opinion of you is just what they think, “it is not truth just because they say it is” – these caustic toxic people don’t know you. Please distance yourself from them, forgive them, but don’t allow them room in your life to do damage again. A great peace and harmony comes into the lives of those who remove the trouble from their lives and welcome the worthy.
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In disagreements, please discuss the problem and be willing to admit fault, mistakes as soon as you can, because this stops arguments early and happiness, friendship etc is restored.
If you are right then be humble and careful of the other persons feelings.
Please never brag, be arrogant and prideful, all that will do is cause the argument to go on and lose good friends.
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Don’t judge people in any sense of the word. We all grew up differently and we all have a story to tell. The only life that you really know to some degree of accuracy is your own life. So if you want to see change and a new world then start with yourself and others will generally follow if you are worth following.
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Please think before you speak. Please don’t be loud, pushy and raise your voice above others trying to have their say.
It is mostly immature and not polite to raise our voice in anger. If you lose self control in any sense of the word then apologise to everyone for that as soon as you realize it. And try to never do it again. People will always respect a person who is in self control and is real.
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Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. Step out, take the risk because it could be your destiny. Courage opens doors. Risk has a wonderful way of showing us what we can achieve, and at our limits are, and shows us our strong points and weaknesses. Have a go if you feel that you really need to.
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Be nice to your enemies. Show kindness. Be fair. And if they need help then help them. Always want your enemies to become your friends.
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Be a gentleman or lady at all times. Because you are a gentleman or lady people will respect you because of your polite, good behavior, and because no matter what station that they have in life you will not judge them.
Because you know that you could have been born in that person’s home, and under the same circumstances that person grew up in you could have reacted to life as that person has.
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Please be modest and humble at all times as possible for you.
Don’t give up if you are sure of your goals, but please don’t hesitate to adjust and make changes to your goals, or completely change the goal as you require to do so. And do work for self improvement everyday in all ways, the people that are important for you will love you for this.
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Surround yourself with people who encourage, motivate and love you. For personal growth being with the right people really does make a big difference.
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All the best with lots of love from
James M Sandbrook.
October 31, 2012