If you hate someone, then know instantly that there is something wrong in how you view the person you hate and the situation surrounding your relationship with that person.
Somehow you have accumulated the wrong ideas how to deal with your emotions and feelings, and people, especially this person you feel that you hate.
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Hate is unnatural.
Love is natural.
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Children, teenager’s, can be taught to hate, so can people who suffer mental instability and insecurities.
People who hate are often scared, so their raging hate and desires to see what they perceive as an enemy to be physically harmed in revenge for real or imagined offenses.
Somewhere in the haters past they were shown that reacting in hate seems to solve a problem. But it is like abortion. Abortion doesn’t remove a problem, it creates a lifetime of regrets, guilt, and depression. Abortion creates problems. Hate causes problems.
The hater thinks that revenge and retaliation for real or imagined wrongs done to them is solving a problem, but the reality is that it is causing far more problems than before.
I have noted that with Narcissistic people that they can simply hate their victim when the victim does not bow down in pathetic submission, but the victim rises up in triumph. The narcissist tends to hate the victim deeply simply because the narcissist didn’t get his or her way. The victim is completely innocent, but is still deeply hated and still possibly a target for the release of revenge from the narcissist.
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Please understand that, if you hate someone, then that is wrong, so there must be a reason (influence from other people, events, fears, your insecurities etc) that are the reason for your hate.
Find out what is wrong and you free your heart from hate, and fill your soul with an eager want to understand people, and especially your enemies.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Sunday, 5 June 2016, 8:35:51 AM.