Of the abuse was rape or seductive, it still has a destructive effect on the growing mind of the child, so much so that it causing the child to struggle to cope as an adult.
The mother may say that “we have this loving lesbian relationship with no violence involved”, but by introducing the young daughter to sex, the orgasm (that she was to first share with the man she married as an adult), and by the intrusive disruption of the natural child’s growth causes years of adult mental issue’s.
Sex abuse is sex abuse, whether it was sexual seduction or rape, the damage remains and the disruption of the child’s normal natural growth broken.
As is the mother giving her daughter adult issues, the making the daughter into the mother’s lesbian lover is making the daughter take on sexual activities will before she was capable of doing them, causing all kinds of problems, mother daughter relationship issues, moral struggle in the daughters mind, all causing the child to have a future she struggles to cope in.
Her mother will tell her that she is normal and what they did /do is natural and normal, but the results are a breakdown of the daughters Life Learning, in other words the mother has committed a grievous crime against her own daughter.
It is easy for one partner to see themselves as the one who is healing the other, but if he or she looks deeper then will realise that both came into the rel with baggage from their childhood.
For instance one may be narcissistic or domineering, thinking that they are the one who is in the more knowledgeable position, but being domineering and/or domineering is a sign of childhood abuse
They cant heal someone of they are broken themselves.
All the best from James Martin Sandbrook.
Friday, 16 October 2020, 9:51:25 PM.