Watching The Boy in the Striped Pajamas -MicrosoftFilms & TV.
Got the washing on the line.
Another power-cut, about an hour ago.
Was going to put the washing on the clothesline when I went to get something out fo the garage and I accidentally knocked a 10 liter can of paint over, so I had to spent ages cleaning that mess up.
Last night I was woken up by the dogs at the back freaking out, barking continuously, and then I realised that it was a power-cut. and it occurred to me that someone may use the power-cut to break-in to houses, so my guess is that someone walked up the long drive to the Wards, but the dogs saw them or sense that people were enar int he dark, and the dogs went crazy.
On the subject of crippled cats, the cat with the missing back leg has decided that it lives here now. She does not sleep at the front of the house anymore, she only sleeps at the back now. And when I fed the animals she eats with them. She now walks in to the house, and I have picked her up a few times, but it is obvious that she doe snot like being picked up by humans, and that may have something to do with her missing back foot.
The adult cat here is the crippled cat that turned up at my place as a kitten. I assumed that someone closed a door on its leg or something like that. This cat, as a kitten, would sneak into my house and sleep at the end of the couch on my feet, but it would not let me touch it. I thought her face was that of an owl. Anyways she was stealing kittens from somewhere and taking them to my house and I had no idea where they came from.
One of the ways to seduce ‘a good man” is via children, and also the Narcissist man can suck up to the woman by acting as a good man and pretending to adore her children, give them gifts and compliments and that pleases her.
What happens is that when females know when a male is going to be at a place, she turns up with her child/children, and she looks sexy/pleasing, and uses her children to get the good man to lower his protective shields/boundaries and let the mother in, and the mother can play the victim, claim he approached her, and so on later on.
With the Character Assassination still going I try to not let my guard down and I also prefer to avoid females when they get too friendly because I know that God won’t allow anything to happen, and like Rose the female is trying to use me, or will be on the Character Assassinators pay-list to seduce me and then play the victim.
The last few times around the lake females, young females with prams, have over-friendly children. In one case each time I cycled past the young brunette mother the blonde child in the pram would get up and smile and wave to me as if the child knew me, or the mother had told her to be very friendly with me, or so I would stop and chat. And today the young long haired blonde got the child out of the pram to walk slowly and the child looks back when I approach from behind to smile and be extra-friendly. The children look like they are expecting my approach.
Common sense tells me that God won’t let it happen if I wanted to get into a relationship, and that I don’t want anything to happen anyway, and that they are acting just far too suspiciously. Any attempt to seduce me by someone over half my age seems a clear indication that it is an effort from the Character Assassination creators, and they are lacking in convincing a certain female that I am truly an evil person, thus this means that she is once again doubting her parents and her captors. As they say, for the Character Assassination creators anyway, desperate times call for desperate measures.
It also means that the daughter is not doing as she is told, and/or God is doing to her what he is doing to her, not allowing her to settle down with anyone.
One of my 2014 videos about the church sermon that day.
I watched about half of this video (he’s a clever lad that one 😉 ) and I realised that I am still using the box that is under the monitor to hold it up on my new computer, and the piece of wood holing up the second monitor I am still using as well, and the cabinet holding the computer now holds other gear in my computer room. Those same curtains are still up and the chair I am still using today in 2025 as well as the CD holder, all these things I was using back in 2014. and of course I still have Snoopy, Eeyore and Percy, and that TV in the lounge.
A 2017 video of the birds at one of the schools I do security patrols of.
In my Forest & General Security Ltd uniform.
Be Yourself
If you are in a situation where you don’t want to do what others are doing and you would prefer to stay home with your family and children, consider the Grey Rock Method where the person becomes as boring as a grey rock to them. People become uninterested in your seemingly boring character and life, and stop trying to make you do the things you are not comfortable with.
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Good religious people do this already, not the fakers.
People know that they are religious and that they don’t drink alcohol, don’t smoke, don’t do casual sex, don’t do drugs, don’t party, and they don’t bother asking them to do those things.
I absolutely love people knowing this about me, because once you are the “Grey Rock” in your workplace, home, with society, there is no need to try to fit in, they leave you alone and you can pretty much live your life your way feeling great about yourself and your life.
Being the Grey Rock takes away a huge amount of pressure, no more faking happiness, or giving in to other people’s opinions etc, and there is no more peer pressure.
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You just start by turning down their invitations one by one and as time goes by you get used to it, you don’t need to explain why, you don’t need to answer any questions, just smile and say, “No thanks!”, then walk away.
Some may get upset and make out that being with them is for your own good, for your own personal happiness etc, so you could say that you want time for yourself to get closer to God (fake religious people will think you are weird and will still pressure you – depart from them and their ways), your children, to find yourself, taking up a new sport, arts, music, etc.
But don’t try to find fake excuses, make sure that they know that their lifestyle and their ways are not your chosen natural lifestyle and ways – you must be clear on this so they will back off forever and leave you to be your genuine self.
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Once you have turned down all events, and I do mean All Events, for about a month or so the idea builds in their minds that they cannot push you and they give up, that is the general natural thing people do, so just keep saying no in the future and they will get used to it and leave you alone.
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“If they don’t give up pressuring you then rest assured that they have an agenda, motives, something is not right when people just won’t let people live their life their own way.”
So if you have been pushed relentlessly over a period of time to do what is uncomfortable to you then those who pushed you are not friends and they have an agenda that you are not aware of.
Keep an emotional and physical (if possible) distance from them. Be detached from their lives, ways and thinking.
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It is their creating “connections” with you that creates guilt in your mind and you feel obliged to do what they suggest.
It is also them doing things for you, giving you things, helping you at work etc, that gives you feelings of guilt (a Narcissist trick on their behalf) and you feel like giving in just to please them because they did some things for you.
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Even if they did things for you freely (even without being asked) there is no need to repay them, and in the future you may help them out, but not by lowering your values, standards, ways, to do things that you don’t believe in and are not comfortable with.
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Example:
I knew a female years ago who moved into a home as a single mother.
The parents of the home seemed like good wholesome people but as time went by they pressured her into drinking alcohol and being loose in her values etc. In the beginning these people were very nice, supportive, kind, would do anything for her, but as time went by they pulled her carefully going back to the lifestyle she had left.
First a few parties, events, talk and encouragement about “getting out’, mingling with people her own age, enjoying life, all talk to encourage her back to alcohol and the party scene.The babysitting and other things that they did for her was to seduce her into loving them and thinking that they were sacrificing for her and her child, and their friendship from their children was wonderful, but it was already planned before she even moved in, this was all unknown to her.
The young woman wanted to leave them sometimes but she felt trapped (as they intended her to feel) because they were babysitting her child while she was at work and this saved her lots of money. She was trapped, but as we found out later she was deliberately trapped.
Once trapped with all the things that they were doing for her the young mother struggled to see any wrong in them because she didn’t want to lose the “friends with benefits” relationship that she had with them. There were so many advantages to being with them and having them as friends that she struggled to see any wrong in them or what they were trying to do with her life and mind. She kept giving in to their persuasions, over and over again in small ways she was losing her beliefs and she was pulling down the boundaries she promised God that she would hold up forever.
These people used “innocence”, their own children’s innocent friendship, kind actions, acted as caring parents concerned for her future, they had with her meaningful conversations, shared a few secrets, to keep the young mother “tied” to them and to bring her guard down even further, so much so, that the young mother was brainwashing herself to see no wrong in them and was bending to their suggestions, encouragements and moving further and further away from the wholesome good Belief System she had when she moved in with them.
Not everyone’s “kindness” is proof of their real intentions, sometimes they have an agenda that is not obvious for a long time.
In time they got the daughter into sex with them. The whole time the mother and father were being so kind and supportive they were thinking of what fun it would be having sex with the young unsuspecting mother and planning it out whe alone. The night of seduction started out with a night of drinking at home (their original reason to get her back into alcohol in the social scene) with just them and the young mother was so drunk she gave in and finally became their extra bed partner.
And with their support she went back to her past immoral activities, and it wasn’t until a tragic event hit them all that the young woman realised what had happened and that she had strayed from God and her wanting a safer, secure, happy life.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Wednesday, 2 October 2019, 3:27:42 pm