How Fear is used to Destroy one’s enemies.
If a manipulator goes to a town, lies to the people, creates a following, then he or she will become popular.
But manipulator discovers that people are coming to the town, city, country or island that will tell the truth about the manipulator, the manipulator will go to meet the new people, run back to the village and claim that the newcomers attacked the manipulator and threatened to kill everyone of the island, and thus the people combined as one go out and kill the people with guns who were going to save the townspeople from the manipulator.
Fear becomes fanatic when mixed with irrational scared emotions. Thus, peaceful people will become killers or Flying Monkeys to destroy or harm what they irrationally fear.
As the saying goes, “If people fear something, they kill it!”
The Logic argument is based on Logical Thinking, but since people have changed the meaning of word, like Gay used to mean Happy, and it now means Homosexuals female and male. Morals, decency, all have a positive bend to them now, people are now proud to be immoral and call it a good thing, and indecency is accepted as normal and your young adult daughter can now become any of many sorts of publicly naked female or sex her body as a sex toy as a career choice.
This is what worried me about AI, because they will input in all this “now acceptable” word meanings as something different from the original meanings, and thus the accepted legal statements could be 100% different from the original meanings and that would also be called a logical conclusion that a immoral thing is moral, and that a indecent thing is now decent, and if you disagree you are not using common sense, and you are not being logical, thus you must be crazy or weird.
All this ranting is about the New Logical is not actually Logical, but the entire Government, legal system, education systems and so on, can completely support the New Logical (irrational illogical) thinking and condemn those who don’t support it as being racist, and crazy etc.
Did some weasel research.
Now the thing is that you don’t need to agree with what that influencer is saying or the guy, but its interesting to see how she or he comes up with their conclusions, and how manipulation works.
Its interesting how he says that we think that the ancients were wise, when if you really look at modern society, to make now seem superior they tend to paint the people of the past as unwise and us today as wise – like, the woman claiming that carrots are not food.
another point about foods I discovered years ago is that fruit and such would only have a few fruit on it due to the growth around the tree, higher tree’s blocking sunlight, insects and birds and animals loving the young juicy fruit and so on, and the fruit could be far smaller than what we see today. My impression was that people learned how to weed around plants, put in plants that were the enemies of certain insects and such and the fruit bloomed, the tree’s got sunlight because they were planted in open fields or the tree’s around them cut down. so, by simply showing some love and caring for the fruit tree’s, vegetation and such they bloomed and people ate well.
Hello Again!
Deeper
My Glorious Live – I got this CD its in a metal container.
The world’s shaking with the love of God
Great and glorious, let the whole earth sing
[Pre-Chorus]
And all You ever do is change the old for new
People we believe that
[Chorus]
God is bigger than the air I breathe
The world we’ll leave
God will save the day and all will say
My glorious!
[Verse 2]
Clouds are breaking, heaven’s come to earth
Hearts awakening let the church bells ring
[Pre-Chorus]
And all You ever do is change the old for new
People we believe that
[Chorus]
God is bigger than the air I breathe
The world we’ll leave
God will save the day and all will say
My glorious!
My Glorious.
Anna will get the new car from Brett on Wednesday, PSL is going to be fixed at Mark Jones, and hopefully I will be back to driving LCN90 again. We shall see. I may end up with PSL all the time now, the one with no stereo and everything in it is in Japanese, it even talks in Japanese. But it has a hearty motor that just keeps on going – PSL was the car I drove last weekend.
Tried playing my guitar this morning but it makes my shoulder ache.
I was told to never put the planks close together to allow a gap for wind to go through thus the fence would not be pushed over in a storm – most new fences today the planks are placed right up next to each other leaving no gap – and we were taught to not let the plank touch the ground/grass/concrete because it would cause the bottom to rot, but most these days are hard up on the ground, even grass.
In this video you see why young guys need to go to the gym, its due to not using things like a screwdriver or hammer and nails, they now use electric screwdrivers and nail guns etc, the electronics does the muscle work.
Life Education
It was said that we only use a small part of our brain, and that also some people exceed far beyond the normal academically and also other people in other ways, say more spiritually.
I would suggest, that since the small voice within has been said to be The Holy Spirit or our own Spirit, and that this Holy Spirit is close to God while we, ourselves, as human beings are not that close to God – thus, if we listen to that small voice within, follow our instincts, trust God and so forth we then become much closer to our own Holy Spirit thus closer to God. The closer we become to God in Spirit the more we understand God and our path with God, our God-Given-Destiny.
If you push the child academically then that child will excel in that area.
If you push the child in sports that child will do well in sports or especially one form of sports, say netball or rugby.
If the child is in nature, has stable parenting, is allowed to express himself or herself naturally and is taken seriously even as a child, respected and encouraged, then that child too will excel, but also will become closer to nature, to people through interaction and fair treatments from parents and siblings, closer to animals and thus closer to God, their instincts and that small instructive wise voice within.
Oh I know the pain…
Left is Lea Séydoux and right is Halley Mills.
They look alike in many photos and movies.
She looks like Audrey Hepburn.
In severe cases of Stockholm Syndrome in relationships…
…the victim may have difficulty leaving the abuser and may actually feel the abusive situation is their fault. In law enforcement situations, the victim may actually feel the arrest of their partner for physical abuse or battering is their fault. Some women will allow their children to be removed by child protective agencies rather than give up the relationship with their abuser. As they take the perspective of the abuser, the children are at fault – they complained about the situation, they brought the attention of authorities to the home, and they put the adult relationship at risk. Sadly, the children have now become a danger to the victim’s safety. For those with Stockholm Syndrome, allowing the children to be removed from the home decreases their victim stress while providing an emotionally and physically safer environment for the children.
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Perceived Inability to Escape
As a hostage in a bank robbery, threatened by criminals with guns, it’s easy to understand the perceived inability to escape. In romantic relationships, the belief that one can’t escape is also very common. Many abusive/controlling relationships feel like till-death-do-us-part relationships – locked together by mutual financial issues/assets, mutual intimate knowledge, or legal situations. Here are some common situations:
· Controlling partners have increased the financial obligations/debt in the relationship to the point that neither partner can financially survive on their own. Controllers who sense their partner may be leaving will often purchase a new automobile, later claiming they can’t pay alimony or child support due to their large car payments.
· The legal ending of a relationship, especially a martial relationship, often creates significant problems. A Controller who has an income that is “under the table” or maintained through legally questionable situations runs the risk of those sources of income being investigated or made public by the divorce/separation. The Controller then becomes more agitated about the possible public exposure of their business arrangements than the loss of the relationship.
· The Controller often uses extreme threats including threatening to take the children out of state, threatening to quit their job/business rather than pay alimony/support, threatening public exposure of the victim’s personal issues, or assuring the victim they will never have a peaceful life due to nonstop harassment. In severe cases, the Controller may threaten an action that will undercut the victim’s support such as “I’ll see that you lose your job” or “I’ll have your automobile burned”.
· Controllers often keep the victim locked into the relationship with severe guilt – threatening suicide if the victim leaves. The victim hears “I’ll kill myself in front of the children”, “I’ll set myself on fire in the front yard”, or “Our children won’t have a father/mother if you leave me!”
· In relationships with an abuser or controller, the victim has also experienced a loss of self-esteem, self-confidence, and psychological energy. The victim may feel “burned out” and too depressed to leave. Additionally, abusers and controllers often create a type of dependency by controlling the finances, placing automobiles/homes in their name, and eliminating any assets or resources the victim may use to leave. In clinical practice I’ve heard “I’d leave but I can’t even get money out of the savings account! I don’t know the PIN number.”
· In teens and young adults, victims may be attracted to a controlling individual when they feel inexperienced, insecure, and overwhelmed by a change in their life situation. When parents are going through a divorce, a teen may attach to a controlling individual, feeling the controller may stabilize their life. Freshmen in college may be attracted to controlling individuals who promise to help them survive living away from home on a college campus.
– Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D. Clinical Psychologist.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month – Stockholm syndrome: Origin of a diagnosis and its relationship to domestic abuse.
Standing by a hurtful person could seem contradictory. The typical human instinct when facing a threat is running away and hiding. For some women in abusive relationships, this protective nature seems to fall by the wayside. Stockholm syndrome is one illness putting the mental and physical health of the target in danger.
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Stockholm syndrome is a condition characterized by a sense of sympathy and other positive feelings by a victim toward their captor. One particularly infamous case, as reported by the BBC, is Patricia “Patty” Hearst, an American newspaper heiress kidnapped by the Symbionese Liberation Army (SLA) in 1974. Over a short period of time, the SLA managed to convince her to commit a crime in the organization’s interest.
Frank Ochberg, a psychiatrist, was intrigued by this phenomenon and defined the conditions of Stockholm syndrome.
“First … people believe they are going to die. Then they experience a type of infantilization – where, like a child, they are unable to eat, speak or go to the toilet without permission. Small acts of kindness – such as being given food – prompts a ‘primitive gratitude for the gift of life’,” Ochberg said.
In response, the victim can experience a primal positive feeling toward the captor and deny the negative aspects of the perpetrator’s character. This can create a bond, Ochberg said.
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Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D., extended this occurrence to domestic abuse victims. Carver found in his studies many patients shocked to remember the things they tolerated or did during times of duress, such as considering suicide while depressed or embracing an abuser despite physical and emotional violence.
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Carver defined four specific situations in Stockholm syndrome domestic abuse cases. These include:
- The presence of a perceived occasional kindness from the abuser.
- The deletion of all perspectives besides the criminal.
- Difficulty for the victim to escape.
- A threat to the victim’s physical or mental safety.
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Carver provided several strategies for families wanting to help a loved one in an abusive situation without losing him or her and inflaming the wrath of the abuser. Maintaining regular contact with the victim without holding on too tightly can provide refuge while not seeming judgmental or suffocating. If the criminal is separating the target from most family and friends, those still around can pass on messages of love and support through the “grapevine.”
In the hopeful scenario, when the victim contemplates escaping the abuser, Carver recommended against loved ones “blasting the door down” and dragging him or her away. Instead, test the waters of the escape and let the victim lead the way. Sometimes these plans can take months or years to fulfill.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month – Laws protecting domestic abuse victims
Written by Nicholas Ruiz
The thinking of 1d, 2d, 3d, and I thought 4d, 5d, and then it occurred to em that we humans look at 1d, 2d, 3d as places, or physical visual views of things, when in reality I put forward the notion that the dimensions are within us, as we are of what the universe is, thus all that is, was, can be, and here in the now is, in fact, of many dimensions and since we have limited physical vision, are currently very materialistic as a people on the entire planet, and as “feelers” (souls that tough, feel, look, see, and such, materialistic souls) our limited physical vision is all that we see and believe is there.
Spiritual Dimensions of at least one is belong the physical eyes view, and if science and such are only of what the physical eyes see, what we tough, smell and so on, then they are in fact the blind teaching the blind.
You are allowed to have no opinion on something.
Sometimes people want me to get in to n argument and I say that I don’t think of that or have not formed an opinion of that yet, or just don’t want to argue, so I just say, “I don’t have an opinion of that” or as I said tot he guy at the lake today who said that the only way to worship God is in the church building, I said, “Well, we differ on that belief, have a nice day.” and I cycled off 🙂
And remember, some people argue with you to prove that they are great to themselves, and to see you lose, they get a big buzz seeing you lose, but if you don;’t take part int he argument then you can’t lose, and you won;’t fight, and yu will be happy.
Modern science wants you to think that what we think is truth and reality, what we can see, touch, feel and such is reality and all the science that there is, but as shown below there are limitations to our vision, and a dogs nose is something like 5000 times stronger than the human nose, so the dog is able to reach more that we can in smell, but what about our sight, what are we not admitting that we cannot see, but still exists, is there, all around us, everywhere.
Why gender ideology does not work. The answer is simple.
A male Spirit is put in to a male body and a female Spirit is put in to a female body.
All those who have been convinced that they are homosexual, lesbian, another gender, even a parrot, cannot be those things because the Spirit within them is Male or female according to their male or female body.
There is no such thing as being born lesbian or born homosexual, or you being born a male in a female body.
There is only black and white, no grey areas, thus a male body holds a mans Spirit and the female body holds a female spirit.
Anyone who tries to tell you that you are homosexual, a lesbian, another gender is not mentally stable or rational, the logic is extremely obvious, but their immaturity, pride and delusion keeps them blinded from the obvious. People who support this sort of thinking and beliefs of people being n the wrong body and so forth should never be allowed to teach, guide, and help the young, because all that they will do is poison innocent minds and damage innocent children’s lives.
Dr. John Money sounds like that fool that did lobotomy and made people mentally in to vegetables or even killed his patients, and the entire scientific and psychiatric world backed him and the others that supported and did this questionable procedure on people, up as a legitimate way to help people, and Dr Money, was in it for the money and fame, but also was apathetic due to his inability to see a female as a woman and a male as a man – his was cold science, cold mental health procedures, cold beliefs completely lacking any proof of existence.
Like Neil deGrasse Tyson, they have a degree or two, some education ion a sector/area and then assume that they can support and invent science or facts or cures based completely on the workings of their illogical irrational immature minds.
Innate
- : existing in, belonging to, or determined by factors present in an individual from birth : native, inborn. innate behavior.
- : belonging to the essential nature of something : inherent.
– Merriam-Webster.
I remember as a child, a boy reading a war book of some sort, and it told of a man, the writer, in a trench in one of the world wars with his childhood friend next to him, and a bomb dropped close by completely decapitating his longtime good friends head off. And the real horror of that was, he was trapped, could not leave his dug-out position because of enemy fire, so he was holed down in a place where the only person he cared about other than his own family and who he has shared his mos intimate fears, worries and beliefs to, was headless right next to him.
War is very very cruel, and other than having to stop nutters like Hitler no one really wins, because they have to live with memories, anxieties and fears for decades after the war/s that they were in. A large amount of the mental health sector grew from the wars, and today w are still paying for those two world wars.
“ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked, “How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.
Here’s the answer:
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found, unless there is violence, and abuse of any sort, or the other person becomes the monster you never wanted as a partner for the rest of your life.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this)
Learning to love the person God found for you, is learning about that person, and as long as this is mentally and physically healthy you can really discover that love is a challenge at times yes, but also regardless of the hard times like being low on cash, health issues, and other people’s interference’s, your life together is one revelation after the other as you both share your thoughts, memories, lives, and as you make and create memories together the more memories that you both share with each other help you both become one Soul as you come to share each others pasts, each others lives, feelings, up and downs, and this causes you both to deeply understand each other so much so that you both become each others healer, comforter, supporter, defender, and compassionate carer.
Love is a mystery, a spiritual forming of two people in every sense, because the blood of the universe is love and that love energy flows in everything (except evil), and it also flows within you pulling you to the one who best is you in that other person, and this what it means, that the relationship “was meant to be.
There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a decision to-be-or-not-to-be, that is the question, and you are the one who answers that question by what t is that you decide to do and who to love.”
You reserve the right to take God’s gift or walk away, free will.Abuse
Not only is the abuser the guilty one in many cases, especially in these modern times. Not all parents are strong willed.
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Example:
At a welfare office a few years back a family, with small children, went in for money. The children had bruises all over them, a black eye on one, and it was obvious that the father was the violent one.
In great concern for the children and the mother, the staff got the mother separated from the abuser and offered her help.
She refused help, and refused to say anything bad about her husband. She said that the children were accident prone.
After the family left, the staff were more furious at the mother than the father because of her wanting to protect the bully and her devoted love for him. With her support he was free to be abusive.
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In one book I read there was a mother who was holding her teenage daughter down while the father had sex with her from behind. The daughter asked her mother why does he have to do this. And the mother said something like, “You know how your father likes sex and I don’t.” The mother was a supporter of the sex abuse and took part in it so that she didn’t have to have sex with her husband.
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When a woman marries a man and she finds out as time goes by that he is an emotional narcissist and/or physically violent, and she stays with him, she condemns all their children to the fate of being victimized by a bully like she is.
Young, unable to understand what is happening and watching their own mother submit weakly to their fathers demands and narcissist abuse they will grow up either as abusers, or will be prepared to be victims for other narcissist abusers.
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Violent Example
There was a very tragic true story where this young mother was walking through the park with her two young daughters and a man appeared and grabbed the mother and demanded that she kneel on the ground with her children, he demanded that she let the children kneel at her side. He then told them all to close their eyes.
He had a hammer hidden behind his back and bashed on of the children on the back of the head until she was dead. The mother heard this and didn’t move. Then the other daughters was killed the same way. And still the other did nothing.
Maybe the mother was trying to tell herself that this wasn’t happening, or she was so timid and frightened of life that she just allowed people to scare her and give up without a scream or fight
Then he took the hammer and bashed the mothers head in.
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We Were Not Made To Be Submissive and To Be Bullied Around By Other people!
Every church, school, and home should be a place where children are brought up to be strong willed courageous adults so that they will not allow other people to bully them, and they will nor be narcissist enablers, and they will not allow people to bully their own children.
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Our modern society today is clearly unstable and is turning our millions of people who have serious coping issues, mental weaknesses, and are very easily seduced and pushed around.
God’s Will is that each and every one of us is strong willed, capable and able to fight the evil in the world and to show our love without shame.
It should be that it is society’s will that we set about finding ways to increase courage, responsibility, and all that is needed to create good characters in people and strong moral beliefs.
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Remember: If you and you child/children are in an abusive home then you are setting your children up for a toxic narcissist of abuse, shame, lack of self worth and misery.
If you don’t want to get out for yourself, then please get out for the children’s sake. Please give them a decent start in life.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
16 November 2017.
Know people by what they do, not what you want to believe of them.
If a mother has an abortion then she is apathetic, especially if it doe not affect her emotionally and especially if she recommends abortion to other females. It is not cold to say this. The logic is simple, the most innocent and unprotected human being is the baby in the womb trough all the babies stages of life in the womb. To want the most innocent mother-dependent human life dead is an extreme act of apathy, totally and completely cold and as the Pharaoh in the Bible, a hardened heart, a heart of cold stone.
The proof is the fact that this person wants the baby dead whatever excuse or reason that they give. Its not the excuses, reasoning, words or tears, it sthe fact that they did it willingly and the fact that proves that they are cold, apathetic and know not God and love, is that they defend their evil ways, this is what proves that they don’t care for you or anyone else, its what they do, defend, fight for that shows who they really are
During our lives we may have an abortion, be an abortionist taking a babies life while it is in the womb, and during this period of our life we will be apathetic, cold-hearted, unworthy of God’s love and protection, but God is of grace, and if we turn to God with complete honesty, love, faith and especially hope (because we sorely want to repent and change completely, we want to know what love is, to feel within empathy, to receive empathy, love, compassion and companionship that s gentle wholesome and true, then God will protect us trough his gracefulness and care, and we can become Born Again if we continue on, and stay on, the narrow path until we reach the end, the entrance of The Kingdom of God here on Earth.
The Kingdom of God on Earth is where the greatest most courageous meek, common, humble folk are who will love you with their hearts and souls and have compassion for you, forgive your past and welcome you with open arms.In the right company, the company of Knights and Dames, people who are not afraid, people who dare, people who stand up for what is right and tear down what is wrong, in this company you will change, bloom, become more energy and stronger than you ever thought that you could be, and then you will see, that the risks you need to take now were the risks you were born to take, to make, to become who you were born to be, a fortress of strength, burning with courage, and a leader.
The gradual push seduction in to sin is like a woman, young easy going, she falls for a guy and ove and over again he offers her sexual talk, nudges, touches her from time to time knowing that she wants more touching as she likes to be touched, he compliments her, he deliberatelt sets her on a simmering path of sexual lust or which he knows she will give in and he will take her, use and abuse her, but she on this path with a fierce fire burning below her that he lit, she can’t stop herself from giving him all that he demands.
All sin is like this. First we hear of it (sex, drugs, alcohol, etc), then we meet people who are sinful and that makes us wonder, become curious, interested, then the seduction kicks in and then she or he meets a seducer of whatever sin it is, like a pimp, dealer and so on or simply a loose male or female, and then the attraction comes along with the pleasure of compliments or shame of not having the courage to try drugs and so forth, and after the initial taste the person gives up and leads a life of this.
The idea, is to know that you already know what the sin is, and that is is closely and then remove it, before you give in, but it would be far greater if you hated the sin (not sex, but immoral, indecent, ungodly sex)