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One Riot, One Ranger | Season 1 Ep 1 | Walker, Texas Ranger
Tom Selleck has that issue where you don’t recognize people out of uniform or away from their home etc. He was a big fan of a baseball team and in an episode of Magnum PI two of his famous heroes from the team were on it, but Tom Selleck did not recognise them because they were out of uniform.
This catches me out embarrassingly in town from time to time, and someone will get offended or upset because I cannot recognise them in the supermarket or in the town streets or in a car.
It happens in varying degree’s to different people. Only last week while checking the old State Insurance building on my security rounds a man said, “Oh James, what are you up to?” and he was going to the BNZ ATM, and I had no idea who he was, and still don’t. I was polite and on my way due to embarrassment. Happens to me a lot.
Another example is those walking around the lake, I can recognise them at the lake, but if I see them downtown or while driving I have no idea who they are, and they get upset.
Some of my sisters friends would fancy me, but when they were at High School in uniform I had no idea who they were, and they would ask me how I was, flick their hair, and so on, and I wouldn’t know who they were, and then they would complain to my sister and I would get a telling off for being a snob, or when they came around to the house they would glare at me for ignoring them or tell me off.
It is a condition called prosopagnosia also known as face blindness.
When you give your time and help to people it can be a weird experience, because they “read” what you wrote and interpret it according to their own mental condition and Belief Systems.
Some would read everything I wrote, and then criticize what I wrote, and day after day they would read what I wrote.
These are the people who I guess God sends to a person for help and advice but they refuse to see beyond, ego, pride, family views and toxic upbringings and so on. Many were beyond my help or God’s help, but they probably turned a lot of people off what i wrote, and yet still these people would always follow what I wrote each and every day.
Many homosexuals, lesbians, would have been sent to a godly person by God to help them but they had a belief System that denies God, and see’s what they do sexually for sexual satisfaction as normal, clean, decent and good.
If a person who wants to party, drink alcohol, get felt up by some man who she just met, and so on, is sent to a godly person he or she is very unlikely to see God in the help that he or she gets, and instead see’s with suspicion and mental-blindness, many persecuting the godly person.
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What I can’t understand is why they read what I write, and then they accuse me of interfering in their own business and lives, as if I were trying to lead them astray from their bad choices and lifestyle because I am a mean bully who wants to hurt them by making them into a good decent person and they will be forced to walk away from toxic family and their ‘friends”.
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My personal view is that if someone wants casual easy sex, parties, drugs, alcohol and so on then stop reading what I write, if you see me ignore me, and just go do what it is that you are accusing me of trying to stop you from doing, just go do it.
If you don’t come to my Blog then you won’t be offended. if you are offended and still come to read my blog then the issue is between you and God and has nothing at all to do with me.
Of course the reason could be, that without God’s help you are on the road to hell, and you are offended that me or the likes of God won’t let you go to hell. Duh?
I saw a video clip from a movie where a guy helps a woman find something. he retraces her steps Colombo style and finds the missing item. She is very scared and suspicious. In the comments one guy said that he was a nice man for doing it,. others said such nice things, but one guy said that she was scared because he told her what she did without asking her what she did, thus to her he must be stalking her and maybe int he movie he was, I have not seen it or even know the name of it.
The thing I would do, and I have done this, is ask the person what they did, and then together we retrace their steps and I teach them how to do it for themselves for the next time it happens.
But, if you have discernment you can retrace a person’s steps by sensing and “feeling” what he or she did to get tot he situation that they are currently in. This is why so many people on Facebook said that it was like I was living in their house across the other side of the world, when in reality I have never left New Zealand.
People would also ask me, “How did you know about my affair?” or “How did you know what I was going through?” and I would have no idea what they were talking about or what was going on in their lives, and in some cases I had no idea who the person was ho had messaged me.
My eldest daughter one day was furious and rang me up, hung up the phone, messaged me in an accusing nasty way, because she said that I had exposed her to the world and shamed her on Facebook. I had no idea what she was talking about.
The example I used in the Facebook post was about an event that happened to someone else about 10 years before she was born, I was just repeating what happened and how it was dealt with. After explaining this to her, she explained that the same thing had happened to her and all her friends knew about it, and they, like her, all thought I was using her experience as an example to show how foolish she was.
People forget that we all live side by side and we all do foolish, good, amazing, and stupid things all the time, and many are repeated that other people do. The reason why self-help and motivational books exist is because the writer can mention one experience and thousands or millions of people have done it, and the writer explains how it happened and what to do about it and so on, giving advice and showing people how to survive it and come out of it a winner.
I try to mention from time to time that I am never writing about you, or me, or any certain definite person, I write about an experience or something foolish that people do, or about incidences, how to stop bad habits, how to have personal faith, love, empathy, find true love, find inner-peace and so on, not about any certain person.
I may know what is happening in your life, but I don’t know you or that it is happening to you, all I know is that all the time I get ideas abut what to write and I write it.
Often I write something or do a audio or video, you can check them, and I start off on one subject and end up in another direction, and my guess is that God wants someone to know something, and I have my idea what to say, and then God turns it around to help that person and I, simple me, has no idea about any of what God is doing or what you are doing.
But people in materialistic times are stupid, egotistical, prideful and suspicious, and so when someone with discernment helps them they assume the worse and you know the old saying, “If people don’t understand something they kill it!“
People are often very misunderstood until they are dead.
After I am dead, and the way I am living this won’t be too far away, all the false accusers and people who were helped by me but were suspicious will see me in a different light, and all will be well. But that will happen after I die.
Be a helper, a person who reaches out and helps others to the best of their ability, and you may not make a difference to the world, or you may, but the least we can do is make a difference to someone else in need as we have been in need in the past.
The reason that females were chaperoned in the past was to teach them what to look out for that was bad, to be taught what seduction was and to avoid it because it only led to their body becoming weak for sex and seduction and in the end nothing good came from that, and how to avoid unwanted pregnancies with the wrong man, to avoid alcohol, drugs, bad people, loose people, and to avoid especially people who had weak characters.
People with weak characters drink alcohol, do drugs, go to parties, see, the “weakness” in this sense is about people who partake int he activities that seduce the mind, body and soul and lay the person out for satanic seductions, satanic living and a life of hell, disease and pain.
Today, God chaperones You. It works this way. You, due to your past teachings, go do something stupid and foolish, God steps in and strops it, then over and over for many years God does this, and all the while God hopes that you recognise that what you are going trough is teaching you lessons.
You are even supposed to recognise that family and friends poisoned your mind and made you the fool that God has to educate, change and make strong and mature.
You are not supposed to (for your own sake) go back to the vomit and filth and stupidity that God is never-endingly trying to teach you to avoid. The hell you go through stops when you stop following the world, crowd, family, friends, and actually be brave enough to Think For Yourself and live your life accordingly, with inner-strength, courage, faith in God, faith in yourself, and follow God with true love and faith and commitment, because you know that God is leading you to your God Chosen Destiny!
“Off with his head!” demanded the Queen of Hearts.
A dysfunctional society, selfish parents, parents that both work, does not give the child the teachings to be able to control or even know what their emotions are.
If the child is mature then both parents spent a lot of time with each child helping that child grow and become more in-tune with his or her emotions, what they are, what they can be used for and how to control them in a calm mature manner, and this helps with courage, anger, and confidence.
Being in control of yourself is frowned upon these days because it often means a non drinker, someone who does not abuse drugs, someone who can say a healthy no and mean it completely, a person who is honourable, decent, kind, has good moral standards, a power in themselves, and therefore not a conformer, and not easily weakened or easily led, and society prefers weak-minded conformers who are easily led.
For instance, when the Covid vaccines were offered by a company that had been convicted in court for dishonesty, the conformers all flocked to get heir vaccinations without any investigation into what was going on,. they were told to do it and they did it – and that is how you know who would have backed Hitler up or a new dictator, they simply without thinking or investigation do as they were told to do.
The thing to remember, as i found out myself, is that there will be people who judge you harshly – but as long as you understand that in order for them to be like that it is because they are immature, dysfunctional and incomplete, they act nasty as a damaged-child.
but the more mature and understanding people will judge you according to the bad things that they have done, and they will see similarities, they will see how foolish, stupid they have been, and they will recognise that cruel person who you were they were as well but in a different way to different people, thus with empathy they understand you, because in their own way they walked the same path as you, did the same shameful things but in their own way with other people, and they hurt others just a you did as well.
People who truly understand you without judgments, or without trying to correct you, without trying to make you understand why you did, but just understand because they too have been where you have been in life, why they are the real people who will help you heal, because they feel as you did, they suffered as you did, and they are big-enough-in-maturity to know that they are no better than you are.
For me it is that the world is dysfunctional, immoral, indecent, corrupt, and toxic, very unnatural, and thus all our young are growing up in this and becoming incomplete, immature, foolish, and one day, like you, they discover the rat or bad person who they once were, and in tears and shock they change, but they do change for the better.
The people to fear are these who try to make you fit-in to society, because they don’t feel empathy and suffering like you do, they enjoy the dysfunction and toxidity all around them, they thrive in it and feel that they are stronger for surviving in it, but they are (unaware to even themselves) toxic, corrupt, diseased with their own pride and ego’s and cannot think of where society is wrong, for they are toxic cowardly Narcissist conformers, and many will be seen as pillars of society because they are completely conformed with apathetic views and lacking true morality or ethics.
When a person has been subjected for years through isolation, abuse, gaslighting, he or she has no real connection with courage anymore, thus they cannot desire or feel something that they have not felt for many years, if at all. The feelings and courage are there within them but since he or she has not felt the exhilaration of excitement, joy, accomplishment, fast and furious action, he or she is unable to recall such feelings (but they may never have felt such worthy feelings) and having no idea of the excitement and full feelings of wonderful achievements and excitement they have no idea what it is all really about.
People who lack confidence, live in fear, are caught in isolation and so on are unable to feel or know the feelings of being truly competitive, or of winning a fight, or even winning an argument, because when they do start to win the Narcissist gaslights the victim into guilt and submission.
A person cannot desire something that this person does not even know exists. And anyone keeping that person in captivity does not want that person who they are controlling to feel the desires for achievement, or to feel truly free, or to feel the exhilaration of fighting their fears head on and winning.
Some people talk about courage, but when it comes to getting hurt or putting their life on the line they run and hide.
In fighting for your life, you, your body, mind, soul, all you have learned and everything around you is your weapon.
A Confidence Trickster is a person that can create an entire situation to make that situation look real when it is not. Like in a Faulty towers episode a man gives basil a heavy suitcase without opening it, thus giving Basil the belief that the suitcase has gold bars or something of the like in it, thus giving the impression that he is wealthy, and so they give this trickster lots of attention and care expecting to get something back in return for their efforts, but in reality the trickster has nothing to give.
If a Narcissist told his female victim that he is a courageous man, yet he does very little to actually be brave, he just acts it out, and she totally believes it.
All the cowards that I have ever known all talk big talk, they all act it out, and I know of a case where a guy went into a boxing match where he knew the victim was going to be there and he paid off the opponent and “won” the faked fight. The gullible insecure females desperately wanted him to be her hero. So to keep her isolated and captive int he home he moved in with her and lied about a regular in the neighborhood claiming that he was a bad person and that she should be scared of him.
The trickst3er knew that the so-called bad person would not cause any problems because he was a good person, so the female was terrified of nothings, but stayed in captivity, stayed ‘owned”, used and abused, and her imaginary bars kept her inside.
Some people will go to great lengths to fool people, and they will gather many Flying Monkeys to back them up to make the trickster look good, just to hook in one female to marry and abuse for the rest of her life.
Déjà vu
Often when God is taking us through an Old Experience where We Failed, it will look like we have been in that situation before. Not all people get it, and many just do the same thing over and over again, going through their own kinda hell and not figuring out that they are reliving something to see how they react and behave, and have they actually learned something since the last time that he or she did it.
For Example:
Say you worked in a store, went to parties or had your own parties, met the many who you assumed was the Great Guy (or Gal), and to you it was all going to be sweet and amazing. God heard conversations you had not heard, God knew this persons evil thoughts about you, and God stepped in and stopped the situations.You leave that job, go do other things, but don’t end up in a serious relationship.
Then a few years later, hey, you get the same kind of job, maybe even at the same place. You are now entering your own Twilight Zone. As before you are seduced into having them stay over, you work, are you drinking alcohol again? Did you puff on marijuana? Did you let someone that you barely know have a feel, kiss, saucy dance and so forth?
Whatever you did this recent time, in the past you did nearly exactly the same thing, and once again God had to step in and show you what you were doing wrong, but did you get it?
Look at the situation that you are in right now!
Is anything that is happening now happened in the past, do you get that ‘feeling” that you have been doing this, experiencing this, in this situation before? If so, God is watching to see if you are going to fall for all the seduction, lies, so called good times, and go blindly with that feel-good-feeling that leads to bad things.
Once you recognise such a situation, heed God’s warnings, look out for red flags, know that if you have done this before then you should act differently now, so as to no repeat the situation again.
Did you repeat the past?
Makes you wonder what else is down there that is very old, and we have not yet found.
You are supposed to become so mature that when the lies are right in your face you recognise the lies.
- For instance, if they say that an event happened (a lie) and you see that event with someone else on TV or in a movie or even in a book
•• and you assume that that is what happened to you,
••• well, first your life is not Hollywood or TV, and second when they tell you the lies that bring you fear the idea is to take as well known fearful situation and then make you think that it is happening to you,
•••• so you become scared,
••••• terrified, frightened, because you assume that you (you are living the same situation) are the frightened victim in the TV program,
•••••• or movie or book, and so on – but the reality is that nothing of the sort is happening to you,
the fears are designed to make you fear getting the other side of the story, the truth.
If you have Anxiety now, when you are with a partner you will always doubt your partner, you will always second-guess people, yourself, life, and you will ask foolish questions, over-question, argue over things that don’t matter, and in the end, a short while, you will unintentionally tear that relationships apart.
But, you are anxious, needy, and will be desperate for sex and popularity all over again, so you will look for that healer, a person who will make it all right (as the Anxiety fairy tells you in your head) and then do the entire same thing all over again, destroying each relationship, gathering harmful mental baggage along the way, until the weight is too heavy and your anxiety consumes you and all that you were, and as an addicted person on mental health care, low income, you will still be haunted by all your anxieties.