Ah waz jest a’lestening ta dis:
It’s cold nights like this that I wish I was working, because it’s warm in the car driving around, and even if I check a business or school I still get to get back to a warm car.
Once I get back home I am too tired to think about the cold and collapse in sleep.
Cold nights at home make it hard to sleep. Brrrrr.
Snuggled up on the couch, Vicks Vaperrub on my moustache & listening to music on my phone in the dark. Hopefully drifting off to sleep and dreaming of the warmer climates, sailing the seas 🙂
Watching the end of Mission: Impossible – Rogue Nation
It is common knowledge that Government hides a lot from the people, as they declare that we, the common folk, don’t need to know this and that, and if they want us to laugh at something they call it a conspiracy theory, they get people to make video’s laughing at the person making such cl;aims, and the masses, just like they are conformers to society which keeps them working themselves to death so the wealthy stay wealthy, the conformers, about 90% of society heavily laugh at, shame, and condemn anyone coming up with a theory of something that was not taught in scence in school.
We are taught in an Established Square, such as Religion in each country and each doctrine teaches an “accepted Established Doctrine” – and anyone who t4eaches out of that certified believed-in square/box is called a heretic.
The Governments of all countries does the same. This is why the masses, even though it kills them, accept chemicals in their food, water, air, because the teaching that the stuff in food, water and the air is safe, is within the square/box that we are taught to believe in. And someone says that Fluoride in the water is poison, and the masses laugh at them – you tell them that most of Europe has banned Fluoride int he drinking water and the public in the likes of New Zealand and the USA all laugh at them.
People are taught, don’t offend, don’t question, accept and shut-up, do as society tells you, believe what society tells you or you will be shamed and laughed at. and a fear is installed in each child to not rock the boat because authorities and even their own conformer parents won’t like it – and so hen we see something spiritual, weird, scary, we just shut up and very quickly forget it.
People are also scared of the Truth so they deliberately laugh at, shame, and refuse to believe in people who try to open their minds up to new theories, ideas and opinions.
Magnum was famous for using the Fourth Wall – this is when he would look at the TV camera and smile or raise his eyebrows as if he were letting the TV watchers know that he knows that we are there and that he is having a private moment with us.
Spirits are like that in a sense. They can share with us if they want to, bu they are in a dimension where most of us on Earth cannot see them, but when we die we lose our physical limitations and are once again Spiritual and can see everyone of Earth who is physical.
Helped with Axle’s handlebars on his bike, they were twisted int he wrong direction.
Hookers War. USA VPN. The end with the girls is dodgy.
Laundry with only distilled white vinegar. 5% acidity is fine but preferably between 10 – 20%. Use between one and 2 cups depending on the load size and dirtiness, and the acidity of the vinegar. – Reddit – 2 Mar 2024.
I have 49% Vinegar – acidic Acid, and it smells like Vinegar. And I had a plastic tub which was badly stained and I washed it out with this Vinegar and it did a perfect job. I am washing my washing with 20% Vinegar to see if it makes any difference.
The Vinegar stinks and is powerful. I just cleaned out the laundry steel tub and it did an amazing job, the thing is that it is a natural cleaner, but is very strong and can makes you dizzy and should either be used very watered down or in a area where there is air, like outside or with a fan sucking the air out.
I tried the 20% diluted stuff on the back doorstep but it does not work that well. But the undiluted stuff should be fine.
When I cycle or work God sometimes has me helping people, in many various ways, like people who have broken down, people who just need help, directions and so on. And this is where I got the idea that God wants us to reach out and help people and that by doing this when the opportunity arises that we are worshiping and honouring God.
These are called Acts of God done by Humans.
Then I remembered the man in the Bible with the barns that were full, and he wanted to hoard the rewards of his work rather than help the poor, hungry and suffering.
This is not a perfect world, neither will it ever be perfect. You and I are not perfect, thus we are in a imperfect world as imperfect beings and surrounding us are many others like us, and thus we all need a helping hand from time to time.
The man with the barn died that night and he lost all his materialistic gain and it was probably given away or sold cheaply to another farmer. God was rewarding him with gain, so that he would reach out and help other people, but instead his success, pride, ego and lusts caused him to desire more and more for himself and he refused to help others.
It always reminds me of all the haters that hated Jesus and caused him much suffering, and then they died, faced God, and also Faced Themselves, as God explains to them how they were put in their positions of life, money, wealth, warmth and so on, “To help Jesus” not to harm, condemn, torture Jesus with suffering, because with their help Jesus would have been able to help others and grow Love int he fields of Selfish Greedy Lustful people.
These people, especially the established religious, were there to help Jesus and they condemned Jesus and harmed him, thus when they saw God they were not there as honourable decent honest people, but as worthless greedy foolish souls.
The King will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink?
When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you?
When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
“Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’
“They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’
“He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’
“Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”
The Word! What is it?
I am very suspicious that since the Bible was written well after Jesus left the scene, that The Word is just another version of the creation of the “Jesus is God” Myth. Thus, when it was found in Established Church writings it was changed from Works to Word, and they they claimed that Jesus was The Word, and in a weird form of logic they claim that this proves that Jesus was or is God.
Since we know that Jesus is not and never was God, but he was a Prophet, then Jesus was telling people the words of God yes, but also Jesus was teaching people that Gods way is the way of action, feeding the poor, helping the suffering, and righting the wrongs of toxic societies and so on.
Thus, it is Good Works that changes the world and Faith.
Many churches/religions/doctrines claim that it is not Works, but by faith alone you please God and so forth, but that is an actual act of Selfishness, not Selfless.
Many religious today claim that they Pray for People and God can do the work, while the people who pray are healthy, wealthy, have warm homes, plenty of food, vehicles and so on, and they themselves could actually be the ones who God is wanting to make the changes to people’s lives.
My Belief is that God makes aware to people what is bad, needs fixing, people need to be fed, clothed and so on, and they are the people who should Do It! God is giving a Command, He is asking for Your Help to change people’s lives from suffering to healing.
If you do the Good Works that the religious claim that you don’t need to do (But the religious do demand that you tithe or make regular donations to the church) then this gives God a very Good Wholesome Image and more people will go to God feeling so grateful for the love of God’s people, and they too will step out, when they are able to,. and help even more people, thus healing is in process while God is still helping as well.
To be a Doer is to follow the teachings of the Prophet of your time and God, and actually physically make a change to the poor condition of people’s lives. God “Hates”, yes hates the people who sit on the fence, because they are of no worth to anyone and all they do is take from evil when they fancy and take from God when they want to, and all the while they ignore the poor and suffering.
God wants the people to get back on track of helping each other, and the Prophet is the one who reaches out and teaches the Lost, how to do this, why we should do this, and that Good Works is needed, along with Love, Empathy and Compassion for all living creatures, even the animals, even the insects.
How We Worship
The Established Religious have made Worship in to an act in church that does no one any good at all and keeps the suffering unfairly suffering.
Love is an Action Word of which we are supposed to be Active as God’s Creatures.
Thus, to Worship and honour God, the Actions we take are of Love for others, actively thinking of who we can help (not charities), Understanding the Poor and Needy, reaching out to those who genuinely need help and comfort, making a difference and being on God’s side in the fight against the evil in the world.
True Worship is Honoring God and God’s Ways and Being a Blessing to other people’s Live, the Unfortunate, the Suffering, the Cold, the Needy, making a difference in people’s lives, so much so that they too will find God through your honourable true loving spiritual hearts.
Not Worshiping is Watching People Suffer while you are not suffering as they are. Its being a Hypocrite, a Fake Follower, then lying to yourself calling yourself a follower of God, that you deserve God;’s Love and Blessings while you do nothing to help others in the real sense of True Worship.
Pride I Suppose
I have always wondered how people who have hot water, good food, nice middle-class house, fireplace, warm beds, and so forth, can look at people who have nothing and look down on them, and not help the people who have less than them.
If we understood that the reason why most are homeless and lost, is that these are the genuine mental issues, because they were brought up in broken homes, suffered with parents who were druggies, alcoholics, sexual abuse, rapes when children, and so on, and that messed up their growing-path leaving them with huge gaps in understanding and Life-Education.
With struggling messed up minds they struggle to make do, they feel hated, disliked, unloved, alone, and they just give up for that reason – and instead of being understood by the middle-class and wealthy, they are left to fend for themselves in a mental-state that is unable to protect or defend itself, because it never got the chance to grow up and become strong mentally and mature.
And those who go to bed each night warm, cosy and secure, they feel that “I deserve this”, its all about them, and what happens to the less fortunate is not business of theirs.
Testing of Your Faith
My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;
Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.
But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.
If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.
For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.
A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.
Let the brother of low degree rejoice in that he is exalted:
But the rich, in that he is made low: because as the flower of the grass he shall pass away.
For the sun is no sooner risen with a burning heat, but it withereth the grass, and the flower thereof falleth, and the grace of the fashion of it perisheth: so also shall the rich man fade away in his ways.
Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.
Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:
But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
Do not err, my beloved brethren.
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.
Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures.
Hearing and Doing the Good Works of Love
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls.
But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.
For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass:
For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was.
But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.
If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man’s religion is vain.
Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.
I woke up thinking about the men who’s wives leave them in later life. You see, the small of my back is in pain, all the way across, it started on the Left and now goes right across.
It reminded me how men get aches and permanent injuries when they play sports when younger and then over their fifties the injuries come back leaving them, like Colin (I think his is an old soccer injury) with a permanent limp, and the males put on weight, which is natural due to them body slowing down in life, but pain is a killer of many things, and my guess is that due to the males increasing pain as they age it causes many men to lose interest in sex.
Over the age of 30 it is well known that men put on weight, and by the time that they are 50 its much harder to keep off weight by exercise – many times more than when they were 30 year sold. This is all nature.
I saw a YouTube clip of a series where a man in his 50’s plus was watching TV, and his wife of the same age told him that she was leaving him because he was a bore, inactive (in her mind) and not who she wants to spend the rest of her life with. At that age when women leave their husbands after like 30 years of marriage they hit the bar scene and so on. In the comments many young males were furious at her, and many said that she never deserved a man like him anyway. I didn’t see a comment in support of her actions.
Thus, when these women are supposed to honour-up and show that after his years of service to her and the children working she make his life comfortable and stand by him.
I remember reading a scathing article about men in probably England of how males there had a life expectancy of about 30 years old, as they would work i the fields to feed the family in all sorts of weather and die due to being basically worn out, sickness and so on. The article went on how the men (who died) basically deserted their honourable wives by leaving them without an income or a man.
There was no honouring the men at all for working themselves to death for their wives and children.
The article went on about how women were forced into marriages with men who they didn’t love because their (basically heartless) husbands had deserted the women by dying.
This Feminist view gives a certain view from a certain angle, but it comes from her upbringing with feminist mothers and feminist society. Thus, leaving him when he gets older and leaving him with only half of the life savings, loss of probably house and furniture, and in a small cold flat he has 100% no chance of another relationship nor does he probably want one (meanwhile all the young females in town all think that he hungers for them of course) – the end result is probably a bitter angry sad old man dying alone, adult children living their own lives, and probably the wife playing the victim gets all their love and support, and he dies an alcoholic.
The above may seem like I made it up, but Nana did that with Pop.
She had a child while he was off to fight in the Second World War, and when the war was over and he came home to a 2 year old child that was not his that he brought up, and his wife very successfully turned the entire family against him for the rest of his life.
In the end the adult children helped the mother out whenever they could and he died a lonely sick alcoholic.
When I talk to my uncles about Pop, they had many bad things to say about him, and generally didn’t respect him, but they all felt very sorry for Nana who was screwing Americans who came to NZ during war time while her husband was away at war. As far as I could tell, Pop was never honoured nor respected for his war effort by his family, she was always honoured for looking after the 2 years old (my mother) until Pop returned from war – her unfaithfulness and carry on was never mentioned.
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The science of weird 🤔😇🙃😂
Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country
Happens on social media, an 18 year old will argue with a 50 year old and the 18 years old is completely wrong about something hat happened before the 18 year old was born, but to the 18 year old the modern thinking is how life has been forever, but to the 50 year old they remember not that long ago that it wasn’t.
But try to explain to the 18 year old and she spits out her pacifier and has a tantrum frustrated as to why the 50 year old does not believe her delusions and fantasies. For instance this new gender stuff, they will claim that it has always been like this because that is all that they have known it to be, but they never felt how much life was so much better without this modern foolishness.
This is why cats are best and humans tend to take second or third place in people’s lives these days.
I have been stunned from the first time I heard of these males competing against females. it is completely lacking common sense, is totally unfair, irrational and for safety reasons very unhealthy and foolish.
As far as boxing is concerned two men can cause brain damage and death while boxing, so a male smashing the head of a female could cause her life long injuries or actual death.
The people who allowed this foolishness need to have their authority taken away from them and they should be put in mental health care for delusional thinking, they need mental help because they are a danger to women and society.You doubt that God would want to destroy this world and start again, this foolishness is why.
Sometime in probably the 1990’s I had this very weird thing happen, it was a dream/vision I am not sure, but it was so very real that I believed 100 percent that it actually happened. Even now I think it happened, but I know from all research I find nothing about it, so it was either an overtaxed mind and an active imagination, a vision or premonition of some sort.
All this Adam and Eve Story articles, movies, and the other stuff about Noah, the great deluge/floods and such made me remember it a few nights back.What is was, was a huge, very very large comet, so close to Earth yet I suppose so far away, that when I looked at the sky to my left it took up all the sky day and night with this very still huge comet and its amazing tail. I remember radio and news reports of the event, it happening, and that it was traveling fast but appeared slow to the human mind/sight due to its distance, closeness and how it was traveling.I read decades ago that a comet traveling that close to Earth would either destroy the planet or at least wipe out the part of the planet that was facing the comet and that it would affect the moon, the tides, day and night and so forth, not to mention mess with the environment and physically affect the planet in a cosmic way and so on.
For years I remembered this event actually happening, and then I researched it, and the closest a comet has come is far away and I could not find any photos of a comet being that close, but in my mind it happened. Maybe in the far distant past it happened, maybe it was a premonition.You see, besides the promises of our very prideful science’s and their experts, a comet due to their incredible speeds can in fact be upon us very quickly. The trouble with humans is that we love to lie to ourselves, and we love our false comfort zones and we pretend that we are invincible even though we watch people die all around us all the time, its a no brainer that we die and could be dead tonight, around 150, 000 people die every day on planet Earth, so why do you not wonder if one of those will be you, its because you have been comfortable with living, life, being alive, and planning for each meal, planning the next day, planning for next week, next year, and thus you know beyond any doubt that you will be here next year, oh and thats exactly what most of those 150, 000 that died today thought 🙂
A Mind Doctor will tell me that all the doomsday theories were running in my mind recently and thats why I came up with the “vision”, but the thing is that i had it in the 1990’s and I did not believe in any of the Bible, God, Satan, and the like back then, I found God in 2003-2004, so its very weird image and all its news reports and so on, were did it come from.They would say, it came from a movie, and there they may be right, but so far I have not found one that matches the scene nor it does not explain that while I believed it so much that it actually really happened. They will say mind tricks, schizophrenia, and so on.But they also cannot explain why people have premonitions and how come they actually do come true.
Alan Stephen Foster. . The Saturday Evening Post — May 28, 1927 issue.
The Saturday Evening Post — May 28, 1927 issue.
To put away childish things means to put away illogical silly thinking.
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For instance the worldly materialistic beliefs, such as if I buy a new car I will be happy – this is the exact thinking of a child wanting happiness with a new present/gift, but instead the adult is doing it. Or the belief that new clothes, makeup, anything expensive will bring happiness and good times (most likely it will just put a family in debt).
Casual sex is childish because it is the opposite to being mature and responsible and has many risks. The party goers believe that parties and hanging out with the party crowd is good times – this is a continuation from children’s parties, birthday parties, and the like, adults and childish thinking.
Because the government makes a profit off our childish ways they promote it, for example alcohol, legalising drug abuse, abortion, prostitution etc.
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The only way to be truly happy is to put away childish thinking, childish beliefs, and become innocent, honest, loving, forgiving like a child. “Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”
Happiness is found in innocence, in honesty, in compassion, empathy, not in things – happiness in the world comes from a peaceful, gentle soul within.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
6 April 2019 at 13:21 .
When we do things for the one we really love we do them because of our love for that person and also because we get a lot of pleasure from seeing the happiness in their life from our efforts. Its so nice to be appreciated without the other person demanding or expecting us to bow down to them.Humble hearts don’t expect, they are pleasantly surprised and humbled that a person would really want to do things for them to help them in their day.
Married or not, simple innocent love is a wonderful thing. Heaven on earth.
Some thoughts I have on love:
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“True love is two people willing to work around each others problems until each ones “ups and downs” become their interesting characters.”
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Having love, being love makes us complete to fulfill our destiny together.
Two are better than one.
Two makes life sharing so much more important and fun.
Sharing life with someone else becomes a spiritual journey surrounded by spiritual comfort and serenity.
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Simply walking the streets arms linked in belonging, or hands held in “this is so a awesome, I am with you” and it’s all about belonging to someone else and feeling good and relaxed just being in their space. It is comforting being with that person.
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Love is not about an intense fling for an afternoon, love is about more than that so much so that love can be worn in ones heart day and night whether they be together or apart, and yet still have that comforting feeling of being content, and that no matter what happens they can deal with it together.Simple touches, secret glances, special smiles, knowing looks and living as if every moment together is some special secret life you both live.Being in love is, we hurt together, we smile as one, together forever.
We share, because we care.
Being in love is “being real, strong and courageous together” it’s holding each other up when one is feeling so down.Spiritual love fills two souls with a meaning to live, feeling wanted, needing someone, having someone need you. This is what makes life complete. It’s what we live for.It doesn’t matter what she looks like, her face, hair, clothes, and other physical attributes don’t matter – its what you see in her eyes that bring her beauty to you – this is where she shines – here is her real beauty, here is her deep inner sensitive love. God made her like this for her future man, her husband. Genesis 2:18.The nicest words you could hear other than “I love you!” are probably “Welcome home, please stay!”
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 9, 2012.
The feeling that is the saddest and hardest feeling that I have ever felt is the physical and spiritual aching heart feeling.
On Mind Manipulation Tactics – Knowledge helps you protect yourself.
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People that try to persuade you are going to try to figure out things about you that will make it easier for them to get you to make the choice that they want.Sneaky people know that you will be more agreeable with them if you are comfortable with them, so they copy your mannerisms, your habits, agree with you, they like what you like, copy your body language, so that you feel subconsciously that you have much in common with them and that you are tuned together as one.
So even if you are not sure or not wanting to upset anyone, watch the person and see if you can pinpoint then doing any mannerisms, actions and body language that you do.Also check for them being over agreeable, because that is a sign that they are trying to make you feel that you are both wanting the same things in life and need the same things so they are trying to give you the feeling that you are both on the same page, yet you are way off, very unmatched and not evenly yoked.If you see this it is a sign that you are being tricked by an expert.If you have doubts, uncomfortable feelings about the relationship that you are in, then heed these warnings, they are God and your instincts trying to save you from future suffering.
Look back in the past when things went wrong and ask yourself, are you seeing patterns from the last relationship being repeated with this person (regardless of excuses as to why).
Its sad how we can feel a loss, a hearth ache, tears and feeling crushed about someone who doesn’t feel the same about our own self maybe they are married, have children, and all through those years I love, lost, never had, wanted, but sad, fore what never started, never happened, never developed, we drive past their house, pretend not to look at it, not to know that inside she is happy, I love, holding onto someone else, someone she wanted.
Are they watching TV, is his arm around the shoulders of the woman I love. Letting go is hard, very hard, but it must be done.I guess me and a billion other people wonder if it was simply our own imagination because the other person went off with someone else, is loving someone els,e has children to someone else, and none of what you wanted ever happened with you, so it must be imagination, but strangely enough that does not stop the sadness and feeling of great personal emotional love loss.We humans are a strange lot.
I got over panic attacks out of desperation.
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Furious that I was being weak, but also stubborn demanding of myself success and getting over what I knew were things that were not worth panicking over, and not wanting to self hate be self disappointed and ashamed of myself because I wasn’t doing what I should do, needed to do, wanted to do – to be my own hero I needed to make the
break through and stand up to the demons that were torturing my confidence and then break though face it and do what is needed, once that is done walls of panic fall down and fears are realised for what they are, nothing that will ever stop me again.
How to Stop a Panic Attack
When Panic Attacks: Try these techniques when you next feel sudden feeling of acute and disabling anxiety.
https://www.psycom.net/when-panic-attacks-how-to-stop
How to stop a panic attack: 3 ways to deal with sudden anxiety
https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/mentalhealth/how-to-stop-a-panic-attack-3-ways-to-deal-with-sudden-anxiety/ar-BB128UZ4?li=BBnba9O
11 Ways to Stop a Panic Attack
https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-stop-a-panic-attack
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I penned this one this morning reading a Marie Curie quote:
“As soon as we understand what we once feared the truth becomes clear and fear disappears”.
Seems to make sense.
My children and I did studies of movie TV etc and we were all big fans of silent movies and especially Buster Keaton.
Buster Keaton – The Art of the Gag
https://youtu.be/UWEjxkkB8Xs
The most confusing thing of my lifetime so far is women
and understanding if one liked me or not.
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Very confusing.
I can get on with a woman, she seems to be very friendly over weeks. I think that she likes me, she gives that impression.
Others say that she does, and then I ask her and she turns into an enemy, is shocked that I asked, never wants to see me ever again, tells everyone what a swine I am.
Wow. Millions of confirmed bachelors and single women, all refusing to fall in love or get into a permanent relationship, and that is why.The only one I was ever sure of was Lynn, she came up to me and practically hod-tied me and I couldn’t get away. It was most pleasant to be wanted and for her to be so forward and demanding about it 🙂 These days you get all sorts of what you think are confirming signs and then they turn on you like you are an evil person wanting to take advantage of them, you cry silently when you are alone, and you hear from others about what a scum bag you were.When that happens being single isn’t so bad.
And all the years alone seem not so bad anymore. Because at least when you were not in a relationship you were not being let on, dumped and treated like a bad person while the other pretends to be the victim.I guess we get confident and we assume too much.
For me personally I think that the compatibility issues is probably the biggest sign that I am not going to get married again, because no women seem to think as I do, want what I want, have the same ideals, same future plans, character etc. Anyone else obviously is not going to make it because they are not of the same beliefs or if they are they have different ideas or think that I am bad for
even considering that they would like me.We just don’t know what God wants, we assume too much, and then we fall on our face and it all turns bad.
Better to probably just leave it. Me and Cyrano de Bergerac, we inspire love in others but are doomed to be single. At least we can feel good about the people we help, inspire and watch bloom as one 🙂
Why did Jesus teach?
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To fill our heads with church doctrines?
No, because Jesus was teaching us to avoid the churches of that time, the established religious systems like the Pharisees.To teach us to repent and go to Heaven and be with God?
yes and no. Jesus was trying to tell us that the Kingdom was here, it always has been here, it is within you when you follow what Christ is teaching.Its not a building, it is Love.
God is Love, God is Spirit, you are made in the image of God.Jesus was teaching us to change our lifestyles now and that would ensure a safe eternity.
Note I used the word “change”, all things become new, new creature in Christ, and to get there to this state of being we have to be tried over a furnace like silver.I was always amazed that in church “new” meant sitting on the fence taking from God and sampling the world.
It is either one way or the other, no fence sitting, no sampling evil and then pretending to be on God’s side, that is not good preparation for eternity.Only change, complete change – this is what Jesus was teaching.
He was also teaching us tot avoid the rotten vines because they had rotten fruit.
Rotten fruit is people suffering and never becoming fresh, new, born again.And then there is the words born Again.If done spiritually doesn’t that mean that we cast away all attachments to sin and follow God to the max?All through the Bible the message is full complete total change and the promised land. The promised land is what we get when we become good decent human beings.
Yet the churches don’t preach this and they don’t have answers to our everyday issues, except those who have accepted the ways of the failing health systems worldwide.Are you looking in the mirror deceiving yourself, telling yourself that you are a Godly child while being the opposite?