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18th-6-2025
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Watching Mr & Mrs Smith Unrated – I always had a interest in Spy movies, and I guess that why I like the Mission Impossible TV and Movies, and of course Get Smart, but not so much James Bond, as most James Bonds, at least the sleazy Sean Connery were not to my liking.
I love the electronics, gadgets, and so on, plus there is nothing like heroics with a desire to right the wrongs of the world.
Mr & Mrs Smith is funny because they don’t know who each other really is and its overdone, violent u, but also funny and no too much in bad taste.
Today’s young would have no idea what the word Bad Taste means since to them bad taste is what is bad taste to God or those of the past.
Brian’s confidence was so destroyed by his father that even as the greatest US musical genius of the 1960s, a huge success, he struggled deeply with self doubts, and while the Beach Boys were away in Japan he released Caroline No as a single by him as he was thinking of a solo career, he backed down – because no matter how good he was, he was taught as a child that he would never ever be good enough and that is why Therapist Landy found it so easy to manipulate and control Brian’s mind as get access to Brian’s life and fortune.
In this video you can see Brian lacking confidence looking to his brother Carl for confidence and support while singing. See, even if the world loved what Brian was doing,. Brian had been taught by his parents not to love himself.
tI was cycling around the lake and I saw a child’s woolen hat/cap on the footpath, so i picked it up and carried on until I found a woman with a pram and I asked her if it was her child’s cap and she was very happy and thankful to get it back, she said that they needed it.
The idea of Love, between a male and female was that if born into a stable mature family, they would each in their own homes grow confident about their choices, about the other gender, about the future, and about everlasting love.
When they finally met, they would realise instantly that “This is the one” with no insecure issues, nor issues of Feminism or Chauvinism, just a strong want, need and desire to complete the union of Love that would last their lifetime, while creating their own family.
Insecure, toxic homes, have no idea how to “prepare” the child mind to become a secure, mature, confident young adult – thus today the young are lost mentally, run by emotions that they are unable to control, facing many fears because they were never taught how to face life, challenges or to stand up for themselves or to stand up for others.
The reason why most of us fail to recognize love when it is right before us, is that we are as young adults incomplete (still a child inside), struggling to understand life, our mind, body and soul, and all that is out there – this is all the work that our own parents did not put in to us because they were working, partying, or being abusive to us in some way.
Then as adults they blame us for being failures, and their pride, ego’s, foolishness refuses to believe tht it is them that failed all of us.
You were never to blame for what you became as a young adult, but you are responsible for your stubborn prideful adult refusal to fix yourself and change.
Rise Above the Ordinary
The problem when You have a Weakness, is that You See Your Weakness in me, even if it does not exist – and I do believe a hundred years of women using vibrators and other “toys” that they are fascinated by sex and they see just about every other persons motive as somehow sexually motivated – and also an accusation of Sex (Predator, Stalking and so on…) is the perfect way to successfully Play The Victim, Destroy her Enemies and get everyone’s sympathy and compassion.
I pulled down most of my window tint for the computer room. In Summer the temperature dropped dramatically with the tint on, but in the Wintertime this is an undesirable.
I am getting an eye patch to use when the floaters get too bad. It worked well before, so I bought a real eye-patch which I can wear around the home from time to time, it would be a good rest for the eye.
It is really weird walking around and using only one eye, but by the end of the first day i was used to it.
When you are dealing with anyone who won’t take Personal Responsibility for their own actions or for their group, company, and so on, then you are not going to be able to get through to that person’s mind about what he or she did wrong.
Very cold last night. I woke up 3 times, and the last time lit the fire just enough to get the chill out of the lounge and eventually fell back to sleep. Cor blimey o’reily,
The worst type of situation when you are fighting for your rights is against a person who assumes that he or she is really doing a wonderful thing, even for you, yet they are not.
The big issue with a Narcissist is that they manipulate people, set up a situation that is good for them but not for you, and years of lying has them thinking that they are really a good decent soul and that they are helping you, when the actual truth is the complete opposite.
You try to reason with this person and he or she refuse to hear anything wrong with the situation that he or she has created. I had a boss who cut my wages by cutting my work hours, treats me like second-rate worker, and then tells me that I have to take more cuts “for the company”, while he, other workers, are all eating better than I was, living better, going on trips, buying vehicles and I cannot afford one, and that boss assumed that I would just do as he said.
When I refused to his face he lost the plot and told me that it was required of me, and I told him that I had researched it and he was lying the law backs me up not him, he got really angry then because he was now caught out trying to trick me while he was better off, yet I was an important part of the company (without me he could not go on trips etc), and then when he still pushed I just stared at him and said a solid-refusal-No!
But, you could see in his face, that he really thought that ripping me off for his gain was doing me a favour.
You have to realise that it takes all sorts of people in the world, and some people really are pushy, demanding, and they will lie to you for their cause, and all the time that they lie to you, they actually somehow in their twisted thinking, really do believe that this is good for you, because by gosh its damn good for them.
So, every now and then, you “Must”, tell them a big solid No! or that person whoever they are in your life will just keep bleeding you dry, and when you have so little to live for, they will clai9m that it was all your fault, and not the blind-devotion and blind-loyalty they have groomed you to have for them.
When life comes to these people and these situations, no one else is going to come save you. The only person to protect you is you, and thus this is why you must tell them No! and refuse to do as they say. Its for your own personal mental courageous growth and self respect – each time you give in to a tyrant you lose confidence and self respect for yourself.
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