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6th-8-2025
The thing about today is that everyone is deeply in to sin, and probably 90% or more people have sex toys, watch porn, have done immoral sex acts, and thus none are innocent, none qualified to judge anyone, as all have failed themselves and God and at some time/s in their lives embraced Satan.
And thats the point. If you are found out, and someone tries to shame you, you can be rested in heart to know that person has sinned as you have or in another way, as all are guilty of sin, all have failed, and none can judge nay nor one.
Some people can talk like they are talking down to you, but they are no better, not pure, not clean, and by judging us they are showing that they don’t understand themselves as they don’t understand the rest of us, thus they know not God nor what they are doing.
So please, embrace yourselves for who you are, the past is gone, the past was hard, the knowledgeable and wise person that is you is here, now, and this is a good time to make the future not what the past was.
You can now make your future what you want it to be.
Watched
Meet Joe Black
Watched it month or so back but only got a third of a ways through the movie and finished it tonight. Joe finally figured out that she loved the original guy.
I remembered a fight I was in, in the past, after watching the video below.
A bigger younger guy went for me, and I got him spun, arm behind his back, walked backwards fast and he went backwards and fell on to his back.
He was furious because of his size and his ego or his logic told him that i would be easy to beat, so what was happening was not reality to him, even though it was happening.
I politely asked him if he would stop the fight if I let him go and he swung his left fist up to my face so I pulled on his arm behind his back as fast upwards as i could and he screamed out loud in pain. He tried bringing his feet up, I stopped him, pulled his arm up hard, he screamed again.
He was having none of this surrender stuff. Trouble is, that by the time that he finally decided to stop his arm, elbow, shoulder etc were really stuffed up along with other parts of his body. I showed no mercy because he wanted to fight and I didn’t, so I merely disabled his arm until he was not able to use it and the pain so bad he was not able to do anything else when he got up.
In that situation I could have done many other things, but I didn’t want to hurt him.
I actually liked the guy, and he was pushed into the attack by a female who filled his head with tough talk about thrashing me. I had no choice but to defend, but I didn’t want to hurt him. So I made sure that the pain that he received was in response to his refusal to give up peacefully.
We never had an issue again after that and years later we became friends, the female troublemaker long gone.
Watching Taken
Thankfully they are finally removing NCEA. That entire NCEA education system was a joke, a failure from its first year.
The howling dog story? It goes like this:
Tim just moved to a new neighborhood recently. He likes his house and the environment, but there is one thing he doesn’t get.
His neighbor has a dog that keeps howling non-stop. Day in, day out.
Initially Tim thinks that the dog is just going through a phase, so he ignores the howls, thinking it will eventually stop howling.
But the dog continues to howl.
One day passes. Nothing changes. Two days pass. Still howling. Three days. Five days. A week. A month. Still howling, with no signs of stopping.
Finally, Tim can’t stand it anymore. One fine day, he walks over to his neighbor’s house to see what is going on.
Sure enough, there is the dog, sitting on the front porch, howling pitifully to whoever is walking by.
On the other hand, his neighbor is sitting on his bench in the front yard, leisurely reading his newspapers and sipping a cup of coffee.
So Tim walks up to his neighbor.
Tim: “Hi, I’m Tim. I live next door.”
Neighbor: “Hi! I’m John.”
Tim: “Is this your dog by any chance? It’s been howling non-stop.”
John: “Oh yes he is. Sorry about the howls, I hope they are not bothering you.”
Tim: “Why does he keep howling?”
John: “Well… that’s cause he’s sitting on a nail.”
Tim: “Sitting on a nail??”
Tim looks at the dog, bewildered.
“Alright… why doesn’t he just get away from the nail?”
“Well, Tim……,” John takes a slow sip of his coffee before replying. “…… That’s because he doesn’t find it painful enough yet.”
Are there nails in your life that are poking you?
Some of us have career nails. Jobs we don’t enjoy. Work that drags us down and sucks our life away.
Some of us have relationship nails. Not being able to find our desired partner. Or being with someone but not sure if he/she is the one. A partner who is domineering/ insensitive/ uncaring/ emotionally unavailable.
“Hedonistic” describes a lifestyle or outlook that prioritizes pleasure and the avoidance of pain. It’s often associated with a focus on sensory gratification and self-indulgence. In philosophy, hedonism is a school of thought that considers pleasure as the ultimate good. Dictionary.com says that a hedonist is someone who lives primarily for pleasure
What keeps us caged?
The neighbours cat are probably not being fed what they think that they should be fed, and other than liking the relaxed lifestyle here they like to come over and eat here as well, such as sitting on the fence to my front door and waiting for me to come out and give them some cat biscuits.
They can spend hours there. The fluffy cat at Cargill School can wait int he cold for hours for me to come visit it. Its not very friendly, has bitten me, but is very demanding and expects food where it usually gets it.
These cats are not controlled by me, nor are they fenced in, in fact they can travel anywhere they like and explore, so why don’t they?
Because of the food they get supplied and its become part of their own comfort zone. I have not trapped them, they have trapped themselves, and even if the weather is harsh, or people come up the drive, the cats stay and sit for hours on the fence waiting for food.
To the cats captivity is what they are used to, they are used to people doing things for them, they are used to obeying and being nice to get the food, and they are happy to do so.
If I went out and chased those cats away they will be back half an hour later, because this repetitive captivity is all that they are used to living, and they will fight to come back and remain trapped, obedient, and slaves to their own weaknesses.
If you took them out to the bush they would immediately want to come back rather than become free.
Reminds me of the dog that was howling day and night, and the neighbour disturbed by the noise visited the
There was a young woman, who was sexually abused by her own mother and they had a lesbian relationships with the mother being the dominant lesbian always doing things for the other while also always pushing her around, the daughter submitted to her mother as if it were a female male relationship, the mother clearly taking the role of the man even though in real life she was married to her husband.
The mother never wanted to lose control of the daughters life, so she made sure that she was always interfering with the daughters relationships that she had with men once she managed to break away sexually from her dominant mother.
The mother and the daughter both subconsciously saw themselves as partners, and this was why the daughter still, as an adult who moved away from home, was still dominantly controlled by the mother. All males that the daughter lived with or had relationships with had to be secretly cleared and approved of by the mother, and also able to be controlled by the mother.
It wasn’t until the daughter was in her thirties that she started to see the patterns, the abuses, the control; that she id not have of her own life, and when she had assumed that she had made persona decisions her mother manipulated the choices in to her submissive daughters mind so that the daughter had no idea here mother was still directing her life.
The daughter finally broke free, but she lost a lot of good honest people before she did.
Humans are social creatures, we like and need company, it helps us, especially when times are hard and we are struggling.
The good healthy wholesome times are with people who are healthy and wholesome, and if a struggler comes within reach that person is grabbed and made healthy and whole again.
See, when we are children we get used to how our house is run by the adults, and then as young adults we keep with that familiar pattern, and then as adults we still continue that pattern of living whether it be good or bad because that pattern of behaviours is all that we have ever known.
We cn change a pattern, for example, if the pretn is always a giver, and as a young adult you are a giver, but one day you help someone and he or she is rude to you after you were kind to that peron you m
If you were abused as a child, sexually, or physically, how you rected to that abuse as a child is how you acted that as a young adult or adult.
This is why I disagree with parents telling their young child to masturbate (a modern very harmful liberal thing), the child is introduced to the orgasm as a child, then is heavily into it as a young adult, and then as an adult or even as in some cases is an orgasm addict having had many many self-brought-on unnatural orgasms since say 9 years old.
Teaching children to masturbate is basically creating sex maniacs, and society today is so invested in selling everything and adding sex appeal to it, like advertisements, TV shows, movies, if sex is involved a nation of sex craved individuals want it. The health system run by the governments don’t care, just as long as you spend money.
If you grew up in a slack lazy house, and everyone slept in, you will do that as a teenager and party late at night, sleep half the day away, because your sleeping habits and lifestyle is lazy, too smooth, irresponsible, cruising, and wasteful.
People can struggle to stay in a job if all their childhood they were slack, stayed home from school, were lazy loose just like their parents were.
If you were The Golden Child, or the one that was pushed aside by a parents for the golden child, you grew up expecting that treatment from the rest of the world and if you didn’t get that it affected your mental health.
Many “pushed-aside” children become nasty, angry, revengeful children as adults, especially towards the golden child, because as a child this one was never even given a fair chance, and the child, as a young adult knows it, and then as an adult feels it and then if the chance arrives will torture the golden child (who is not confident because the parents did everything for the golden child and the golden child struggles to cope as an adult) if the “pushed-aside” can do so and the “pushed-aside” will also dislike other Golden Children if he or she see’s them.
Our parents design our future life patterns, they design also how we will suffer if they are mentally messed up, or are abusers, or cruel/narcissistic etc.
if the parents like their alcohol, yet hate petrol sniffing and drug taking, their children as young adults will probably sniff glue, petrol, do alcohol and drugs because they saw their parents laugh and get stoned on alcohol, so the adult children just see the other abuses as extensions and more varieties of getting stoned. They see nothing with being stoned or drunk because their parents always did it. Its jsut the same thing done a different way.
If the parents freak out over drug abuse, the adult children see the parents as self-righteous hypocrites.
This is why it is so important that you are a strong willed stable capable courageous adult, so that your children will be as well, and they can be relied on, gentle, kind, generous, caring and such, just as their parents helped them to be.
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