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The Stronger Mentally and More Stable you are Mentally the More Happy You will Be.
The stronger and more stable mentally you are the more predictable you are.
One of the Feminist tricks of today is to always keep the man guessing, thus she is not mentally strong, nor is she Stable, rather she wants to present herself as random and unpredictable so that she can get away with things and he will always be guessing what she is up to, rather than happy and content with knowing she is stable, capable and is holding the family together when he cannot, or when he is away.
Being predictable is a wonderful thing to your spouse, as she will always know what to expect from you, and she will always know that you are honest, reliable, and she can bank on your word, your promises and that you will do what you will say what you will do.
Modern-Thinking is that you don’t be predictable because it is claimed that you will be boring if you are predictable. Being Mature and Mentally Stable means that you know the damage that parties, drug abuse, and alcohol abuse can do to your marriage and family life, and this means that weak-minded females cannot have you to misuse and abuse, nor can they can affairs with a strong stable happily married man, thus they dislike people like you, and the best thing for you to do as a male is count it a wonderful blessing when the weak minded of society dislike you and avoid you.
Don’t expect Government to help you, because the weaker your mind is, and the more you fall for your weaknesses the more money the Government can make off you in health care, mental health care, alcohol and other sales, and taxes.
Your predictability, maturity and mental strength is what you would like your children, especially teenagers and young adults to be.
You would then know where they are when they are telling you that they are going somewhere, you know what they like, don’t like, who they are with, and that they will turn down anything harmful for their mental health and physical health, and they will care that they don’t hurt their parents feelings.
Knowing that your mature children and spouse care about their mental and physical health is a blessing, its a security knowing that you don’t have to worry about them in this area.
You want your Life Partner to know that you are predictable as well, and you should be sure to only marry a woman who is this predictable so you can feel the same about her.
Knowing that your Spouse’s word is the absolute truth and can stand strong with test given to it, is a security many marriages in these materialistic times don’t have.
It is wonderful to have such strong stability in a marriage.
The claim that being Mature is boring and that Mature people are not fun, is a claim by people who are casual and uncaring about most things, especially trust, and relationships, and they don’t really care what you think, and when it comes tot he crunch, they will always put themself first – weak minded people do not have strong stable reliable relationships, this is why they end up with addictions, domestic violence and so forth, and many become domineering and Narcissistic.
Please don’t feel that you are missing out when people call you boring.
If you and your Spouse are Mature in lifestyle and thinking you can both rest assured that the finances are as they should be and neither is taking advantage of the other, and a good safe happy future is being prepared for the entire family as you both plan and put your family plans in to action.
When a person or marriage is based on Security, the marriage can stand the test of time, because the two are best friends, healing to each others minds and lives, and a lot of marriage stress is removed when both can completely rely on each other, with full trust, belief, have faith in each other, and know that what the other does or says is secure as any safe could ever be.
If people call you boring, not fun, and so on, that is called peer-pressure from the weak minded of society – celebrate with a smile that you have the common sense and wisdom to be in control of your mind, body and marriage.
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