The Red Pill and its Meaning.
- used to refer to a process by which a person’s perspective is dramatically transformed, introducing them to a new and typically disturbing understanding of the true nature of a particular situation.”I had no real idea what horrors these animals suffered before getting to my plate. Then I took the red pill, and now I can never go back”
verb
verb: red-pill; 3rd person present: red-pills; past tense: red-pilled; past participle: red-pilling; gerund or present participle: red-pilling; verb: redpill; 3rd person present: redpills; past tense: redpilled; past participle: redpilling; gerund or present participle: redpilling
- cause (someone) to have their perspective dramatically transformed, especially by introducing them to a new and typically disturbing understanding of the true nature of a particular situation.”they are talking about conspiracy theories and claim they have been red-pilled”
Origin
1990s: with reference to a scene in the 1999 film The Matrix, in which the protagonist is offered the choice between taking a blue pill that will restore his ordinary experience of reality and a red pill that will reveal its true nature.
Oxford Languages.
Did you see he video or read about the woman’s event where a child, girl, saw a mouse or some such thing like an insect and it caused a stampede and people got hurt because all the women at the event panicked and all ran for the Exit doors. The guy who was showing the videos said it really happened and there were some men there but they were trying to calm the women and help people who had fallen etc. This kind of madness didn’t happen when I was growing up.
Survival Mode is the same as being in a frightening survival situation. In that mentality of fear, one needs to survive and this is a natural instinct, we just do it without thinking. But in a mode like that, the adult will make the decisions because the adult is mature.
But if the adult was immature the adult would make immature irrational decisions.
Note on the movies of disasters how some people totally lose the plot and if everyone listens to them they will die or get hurt, but the mature person will make good decisions. In Mental Survival Mode (real or imagined) a person will still behave and act as if he or she was in a real disaster. So when you see a movie of Survival or Disaster, ask yourself (because we know that we all want to be the mature rational hero) who would you really be in the movie?
Would you be the person who panics, makes the foolish choices, cries, yells, gets upset when others are calm?
See, people may say that you are mentally stable, worthy, great, pat you on the back, and in reality they are just trying to calm you and make you feel better, because they know that the medication for mental health, anxiety and such are not working, but by calming you it makes their life easier. They say the words that you want to hear, then they walk away rolling their eyes and sigh, because you have calmed down. But in no way are you stable or cured, you have become so used to being in survival mode you have no idea how to be capable, to cope, and be mature.
When Mary had finally discovered what she had done to Jesus it was an awakening, a revelation, and she had finally come from a Satanic Lifestyle under the guidance of family, and now was humble. But first she had to realise the person who she was first, before she could change from that person and become a new better person, a Proverbs 31 woman of God.
Never Interrupt Your Enemy When He is Making a Mistake | Let them talk.
I would imagine, especially due to having severe anxiety, that I was at my most vulnerable since childhood, from 2004-20011.
I saw a I was watching a Brené Brown YouTube video and she said that she didn’t leave the house for 3 days and when she did it was to have lunch with a friend, and I then at that moment realised that I had not “had lunch” with someone in town for about a decade. Its the little things that get to you that other people take for granted.
If someone confronted me and I got angry they would say, that I was losing the plot over something small, but is actually angry over years and years of missing out on what they, the rest of society take for granted.
You see, when people present you to the world as evil, other people don’t want to be with you or seen with you, so you don’t get invited to restaurants with people and if you asked someone to a restaurant that person would not want to go with you because he or she would be seen with you, even if he or she knows that you are innocent due to the gossip they will feel shame to be at the table with someone who was accused, even if falsely accused, because people would see that person as bad as a Character Assassination has the public seeing you.
People who have been severely Character Assassinated walk alone, stay alone, avoid people, not because they are guilty but because they are innocent but people avoid them, and over a decade or so it becomes normal life for the victim, and natural for all “friends” of the victim to be nice, but never close.
So, the basic social functions of social life in the community that people enjoy the falsely accused don’t have anymore. Thus when they are upset they may explode with the unjustness of it all, but those observing just assume that it is proof of the victims bad ways and that the gossip told of that person must all be true.
The person who was Character Assassinated simply stops caring what people think, or what friends they lose, or that they live, they just tend to get on and hope it is over someday soon.
Rogan seems to think that people who, start fights who can’t fight, are delusional, but it seems that seeing fighters on TV, going to fights, going to the gym, looking in the mirror and seeing muscles and noting that the good fighters have those types of muscles, that they basically see an image of the fighter stamped on themselves, thus they feel tough.
Its like that guy who was packed with large muscles upset that i told him to get off the school grounds but his muscles told him how big and tough he is thus I should be scared and he should rule, but I wasn’t scared and it confused him.
Seeing is believing. They see what the fighters have physically on themselves. The fighters strut, so the common guy struts, the fighters are in your face, arrogant, and to an immature mind (that is not formed with maturity and common sense) the guy thinks that he has all the attributes of a fighter, and when the opportunity comes up he is all tough for the fight, and gets a solid hiding.
What we see our subconscious mind thinks is really happening. Thus the eyes see the moves of he fighter, thus we see our own moves. It looks to the person that he or she is actually really tough and able to fight. They don’t lose because they are losers, they lose because they can’t fight but they imagine that they can fight.
Being genuinely tough means being mentally strong before the fight, being mature, and being capable, or at least if the going gets tough getting back up and fighting as best as one can all the while knowing that he or she is not the best, but will try to do his or her very best.
Being Mature is Being Realistic about Ourselves, our Situations, and mostly that we may lose, but with what we do have we will do our very best not to lose. Immaturity is not Seeing Realistically but Imagining that something is real, especially about ourselves.
The young of these times think that they are tough and worthy because their parents showed them fight nights and the gym, but not taught them to be mature. This why why so many who train to fight lose.
Maturity is also seeing a fight situation coming up and avoiding it even if you know that you will win. The reason why is that a mature person knows that fighting is for the foolish, people whoa re Immature and who think that winning a fight makes them some sort of champ, but all it really does is set them up for future fights of which some they will lose.
You see, instead of using violence to educate/teach/warn your child, talking to the child and helping the child understand what he or she was doing, how bad or dangerous it was and so forth, helps them learn and keep respect for you, the parent.
Maturity also helps us understand that we can take the easy way out and hit someone, but it would be better if we found another way to solve issues and conflicts where the other person learned something without their ego, pride and face getting hurt. We live in times where the masses are academically educated but re also immature, irrational and foolish. They need help in such a way that they grow in maturity, and grow in common sense and Empathy.
If people have compassion, empathy, and try to understand others then he or she will seek more efficient ways to achieve goals, solve problems and help others mature, rather than foolish fighting which does more harm than any good. As with war, there are no real winners when violence is used.
Reality is being Realistic. But when God comes in to the situation Reality and Science, Physics and all that you know become Unrealistic, because God can change everything for you. I was always amazed at church where people would tell me over and over again how God did this and that for them, but when it came to trusting that God would make a new situation right for them many of them doubted that God would do it – even after say a decade of showing these people that He can will and does do things for them that are considered miracles.
Male Chauvinism
Male Chauvinism is about Male Pride, Male Ego, feelings of Grandeur, that are unrealistic, and an unhealthy desire for sex with multiple women to boost his ego.
Males lost their pride when women gained Feminism which got them a way out of their responsibilities as a female/mother/wife.
Men like to feel tough, wanted, needed, rugged even, but especially men were made to get their real true worth in being a husband that his wife desires, and a father of which to his children he is a wonderful man and their hero.
If the female is off denying the man his self worth, he seeks it elsewhere just as the woman has done. She lost her role in the family and gained Feminism. He lost her and gained a bigger ego, and a need and desire to be seen as cool, tough, special, to stand out.
One of the things that is only really being spoken abut this last decade is how crushed a man feels when he finds out that his wife slept around with other men.
I knew a man, very much into his ego and looking cool and tough. He slept around on his wife and she was a good faithful wife. When she found out he was sleeping with other women, she went to a local drinking place, got as drunk as she could, grabbed a man while walking out the door, and let him have sex with her.
The next day she revealed to her husband that she knew he was sleeping with other women, and that she had slept with a man tight before and everyone town knew it.
He was totally devastated, his ego was find with him sleeping with other women, but his heart was devastated that she did it to him. His ego and sexual pride wanted to feel “one of the boys” while also supposedly being fully committed to his wife and children.
She told him that as long as he did it she would. As far as i know he never slept with another woman again.
Our social connections especially with love is very off-kilter, we are pretending to be this and that and are the opposite, foolish, lost and struggling to cope. Many males have discovered that talk is their tough, and they do a lot of tough talk, workouts in the gym, yet in real life are actually scared.
The fault of all this is generations of males who’s father lived in the house with them, but shared very little about being a man to their sons, basically because their own fathers did the same.
With school and their mates bringing them up, males flounder and are perfect targets for the Feminist young woman who spends much time in front of the mirror and really has no desire to stay with one man her whole life, so she takes a man and plays around, and the male has no idea because his ego owns him.
Ever since the women of the world decided to choose between being wives and selfish, males have had no idea how to keep his wife or even his daughters in-check, and that is because the man of today is no longer the king of his castle.
TV and Movies are showing women to be equal to men, better than men, and this constant image of the new modern feminist women is imprinted on all modern women’s minds, and builds their ego’s.
I met a guy many years ago, a couple of decades back. He was an islander, his wife was as well. They lived in Waimate Crescent and she one day up and left, her “friends” told her too, that she had more rights than being a mother and wife. She ran off to her mothers to live.
He told me that he got home from work, saw she was gone, and he went to her mothers, grabbed her, put her in the car and took her home. And they continued to live as man and wife.
Modern society, which is very feminist, protects women without respect to the family, responsibilities and so forth. My ex left me with 4 children on welfare, bought herself a $16,000 car, and everyone respected her, said she was a good working woman, and her wanting to be free, single and leaving 3 daughters and a son behind with no desire to see them for a few years, and she was very much respected and liked for her choices.
What I am getting at here, is that in the past a male was heavily shunned for leaving hs wife and children, as far as I know today he still is, but women are not held the same way, they can desert their responsibilities, be selfish, and are fully protected my males in all authority or women in authority.
Amber Heard showed the world that men and women where domestic events occur re not treated equally, and if Depp had not got tapes of her bragging and obvious nastiness he would have lost that court case, and she would have won and been seen as a hero and innocent.
Heard played the victim well, and in modern society women play the victim they destroy the man, and everyone believes her, prior to the Depp-Heard case even those in authority.
Young males today are brought up by feminist mothers who subconsciously or deliberately train their daughters to be feminists. Males are “taught” to be submissive to women, to give them the extra benefit of a doubt, to put them first while she is actually putting herself first anyway. The young male today, surrounded by unfair feminism has no idea how to deal with this invasion of the male entity, and he succumbs to her desires, wants, demands and lets her off all the time, because he is in battles with someone who society gives an unfair advantage simply due to her being a woman.
Her gender gives her a society-approved unfair advantage, and because of this a male cannot really be a man anymore, thus he turns to his ego, false pride, talking about how tough and great he is, he buys vehicles, takes up macho hobbies, like Al Bundy, and pretends he is king of his castle while in reality his wife is. Women don’t care if men lie to themselves, because she still remains the boss.
Because society won’t address this, Feminism continues to rile, destroy the family unit, apathy reigns, and society is a mess. What people don’t understand is that the woman was the heart of the family, the soul, the control, the maturity, the essence of all things good wonderful and decent – take her out of the family, make her selfish, make her think mostly of herself while even lying to her own self and telling herself that she is a good person, honourable, honest and worthy. The reality is that the authorities of society have been formed to help her grow in selfishness because it destroys the family thus makes men far more lost, confused and easily controlled by those in high places. The wealthy who own society do not want women back in the home, because that would mean that the next generation would learn to love, have ethics, have values, be empathetic, would sympathize with the animals, poor, needy, and she as a wife and humble mother would change the world for the better, and that would take the reigns of control off the rulers of society, the governments and such.
The male cannot function in full capacity as honourable decent loving fathers, men, husbands, and protect whats his until his woman is back at his side.
Whatever you choose to do, go for it with all your heart and soul.
However, if you find that you can’t go for it, then you shouldn’t.
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Sometimes we choose to keep others happy, but we think we choose for our own sake. Please only choose what it is that you really want to do.
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Sometimes we choose because we are under the influence of alcohol and/or drugs, friends, the party crowd, and the next day wake up regretting the choice that we made the night before.
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Sometimes we don’t care about what happens to ourselves, so we make uncaring, random, foolish choices, and the negative results just reinforce our bad opinions of ourselves and keeps our self esteem low.
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Whatever the case, please don’t set yourself up for failure. Life is a challenge without the added struggles of drug and alcohol abuse, low confidence, people pleasing etc.
“Choose for you” because you are important.
Your mind is important, so only input positive helpful information.
Your body is important, so please input it with good healthy food and drink.
Your spiritual heart is important so please respect yourself and don’t give your heart and body away unless you do it for genuine love.
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If your heart is “not into” what you are about to do, or are doing, then stop doing it and please don’t do it again.
We lose self respect for ourselves when we give away ourself freely, and when we do things to keep other people happy and don’t supply our own needs.
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Please look after yourself. People want you in the best condition of mind, heart, soul and body. “You need ‘you’ to be in the best condition that you can be for your own future.
We should only do things, and be a part of things that we really want to be a part of. Please don’t be pressured into a false life, you will be miserable if you do.
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Stay within the strong boundaries that are a reflection of the beliefs that you hold so dear in your heart, and then live will be much better.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Friday, 11 March 2016, 5:37:34 pm.
We may find that we are with a crowd that we feel a part of, maybe even someone they all like, even popular. But the big question is, is this where we belong? Look at the people in the big cities, they fit in, yet they are tremendously stressed out in the concrete jungle trying to live the opposite for what they were born, they fit in, but is that where they should be!
Look at the people in eager excitement coming together as one at parties, celebration, and events. Alcohol is abused, drugs abused, sex is abused as they abuse each other. Is this really an environment that is good, healthy and where they fit in.
You or I may be in a group of friend, or work mates, but we can still be completely ourselves without them making us like them. We still retain our original character without them changing us. And still stick to our values, our beliefs and our lifestyle and no matter what they do or say to try to convince us that we should be like them we know who we are and we stay our own character with our strong personal beliefs and lifestyle.
We need to be wary too, that people we know will use special occasions to seduce us into bringing down the walls, the barriers that we use to protect us, the barriers that make us different from them and protect us from being as foolish as them. Nothing, nothing at all, should weaken our strong commitments to ourselves, our values, beliefs, and a good lifestyle. So always be wary of those (family, friends, work mates etc) who talk about “the good times that we will have” if w follow them on a special occasion.
A guilt trip that is often successfully used, is to make you feel guilty because you are stopping them from having fun. For instance if you decide not to partake in a party or event on your birthday or some anniversary etc, “you are letting the crowd down” etc. They will say something like, “But we went to all this trouble, w spent all this money, just for you, and now you won’t go, you are letting us all down and ruining everyone’s night” This is making you feel so guilty that you will lower down your protective barriers so that you don’t have that horrible uncomfortable feeling of guilt. But the reality is that there is really no reason whatsoever to feel any guilt at all.
Know this, that when you lower your values and protective barriers, you have just opened up the way for you to be harmed in some way or taken advantage of, or you will be coerced into doing something with the crowd that you will be ashamed of for the rest of your life – life long regrets, possibly depressions etc. It is just not worth it.
Just because people take you under their wing, get on with you, made you feel momentarily happy, and bring you into their beliefs and groups, does not mean that you fit in with them. It simply means that they see someone who they want to make like them, because they have completely conformed and are the true weak ones. They don’t think for themselves. If you really want what is best for your future then you need to always, on all occasions, do what you feel comfortable with – if it doesn’t feel comfortable or right, then for your own sake and for your futures sake, “Don’t Do It!”
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Friday, 24 November 2017, 2:15:30 pm.
