Fairytale Thinking is the desire to see things that are unreal
but you see life as you wish to see it, but not as it really is.
Once upon a time
Is how it always goes
But I’ll make it brief
What was started out
With such excitement
Now I gladly end with relief
In what now has become a familiar motif
That nothing is good enough for people like you
Who have to have someone take the fall
And something to sabotage
Determined to lose it all
Critics at their worst
Could never criticize
The way that you do
No, there’s no one else I find
To undermine or dash a hope
Quite like you
And you do it so casually, too
‘Cause nothing is good enough for people like you
Who have to have someone take the fall
And something to sabotage
Determined to lose it all
Ladies and gentlemen
Here’s exhibit A
Didn’t I try again
And did the effort pay?
Wouldn’t a smarter man
Simply walk away?
It doesn’t really help
That you can never say
What you’re looking for
But you’ll know it when you hear it
Know it when you see it
Walk through the door
So you say, so you’ve said
Many times before
But nothing is good enough for people like you
Who have to have someone take the fall
And something to sabotage
Determined to lose it all
Nothing is good enough
Songwriters: Aimee Mann
“Horse sense” – referring to common sense, particularly the ability to make good, practical judgments and decisions without relying on formal education or complex reasoning.
Every defeated “give-up” word you speak, is a path to letting your own life and future be defeated and opening the road to much misery and unhappiness. Please try, for your own sake, to speak to yourself positive words of strength, and acknowledge your successes, good days, good moments, and achievements, but be honest as well about yourself, see the failures and ask yourself how you can improve yourself and your own situation or the situation that didn’t work out.
You are a progressive creature, a creature of constant change, and the path to happiness is happiness, the journey is happiness, and the more you enjoy and like the battle to improve yourself and your journey the more you will be happy.
The Mature way of understanding yourself and life is that you understand that all things are changing all the time, and you must adjust, make the changes that you can make, and get used or adapt to the changes you cannot change – but don’t allow yourself o be in a defeated situation, a place of no promise, a place that is comfortable and never gets better or worse – because your mind and life slowly die in such comfort zones, places where it all seems perfect, thus we give up fighting, give up trying, give up on being anyone or who we wished we could ever be.
Everyone Wants The Perfect Lover!
Women are worst for this as far as I know, but men too. They fall in what they think is love, they mate, the do things together, and the whole time she hungered and fantasies about movies stars, rock stars, has their posters on the wall, and so on. He has woman posters up in the garage etc. Maybe both modem lovers watch porn together.
All that they do with fantasy in the minds is what leads to mucking around, divorce and such. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Everyone wants a partner who will never want sex with someone else, but they encourage themselves to see other people as fruit to turn them on.’
To be faithful one must only desire their partner sexually, thus the moment they marry all other people are off bounds, and they should be very happy and content about that.
This is why I say that if a woman wanted me, and she fancied another man, I would tell her to take the other man even if I loved her, because otherwise she would be with me always wondering if she should have chosen the other guy. I would just move (happily) out of her life forever.
If we want true love we need to be faithful to ourselves, to Love, and to our lover forever.
Be True to Yourself!
When you talk to people, especially people who you trust, don’t fill in the gaps with lies that you want to believe in or hear. People are good at tricking people in these times. And while someone is struggling you lie to you, you can mentally assume that they are good, innocent, trying to help you, because you want to believe that this is a good person when that person is trying to seduce and lie to you.
In other words you are giving them the keys to destroy your life with their good words, faked kindness and manipulator tactics. All the red flags are there, the warnings, the reasons that you should fear whats going on, but your mind wants to fantasize, believe in lies, anything to get you on to a new life, or some sex, or just to feel good.
Make sure that you are not one of those people who uses people and sex with them to feel good, and then dump that person for more encouraging thoughts from someone else when you tire of the last lover.
Look for the warning signs in people who you trust. Don’t let your sex organs tell you that everything is all right just to get your rocks off and then discover that you just made a huge mistake. Many people before sex deeply desire someone, and then even with the sex just ending they realize just how stupid it was what they did, and thats because they let their sex organs guide them and not common sense, logic, or pure thinking.
Make sure, when you make these big decisions that you are actually mentally in charge and mentally capable of making the right choice, otherwise lock yourself up in your room and sort your sex issues out there.
You see, as you learn, regardless of what people around you tell you, your own personal Life Education should give you the information about life, living, love and so on so much that you will make your choices based on that learning and where it tends to bring you as a human being.
What you learn is what you become, those who choose not to learn don’t progress in life, they simply stay put without growth or vision of what their future could be.
Knowledge is learned and wisdom is not free, you must earn it by doing, if you are not doers of the Truth then you live a life of lies.
Read, read a lot, but don’t read what you are told to read because our Life Education is different for us all, and what others, including family read may not be what you need to read for your future which is different from theirs.
Why God can’t help people, is because people don’t let Him or can’t let Him.
The guy on the drugs gets agro with his family, but they are prescribed drugs form an “expert”, so the family trusts the experts.
The man starts to get nasty with his wife, gets bad tempered with his children, and so the wife prays to God for help, I pray to God for help for them, and God leads the guy over and over again to the answer that the problem is the drugs that he is proudly taking. God cannot help people who don’t want to know.
A certain person who I know who defiantly and laughed at my warnings went on ADHD medicine because he said that it made him feel better. I warned him that anger and violence were a side-effect of the medicine he was going to take and he laughed at me like I was a total idiot. Recently (he has been taking the medication about a year or so now) I have noticed how angry he is, and he swears and talks to his wife like she is an idiot, not me because he thinks I will thump him, and he yells and swears at his children. I think that its the medicine. 🙁
I don’t suppose anyone would listen to me now if I brought it up and mentioned that it is a side effect.
The reason why every race in the world had slaves was because when people are enslaved they are taught how to be captured, or how they were captured, how they were forced to become slaves, and the power of the captors had – and many want to copy that same process if they ever become free regardless of race, colour and so on.
When people are seduced sexually as children or young adults its the same process even when they were forced, like anally, they still have been taught that sex is done that way, at least for some, and that there is power and control when doing that to someone, along with the sexual pleasure from the event from the person seducing and even from the victims.
Later on in life, even with no sexual activity, the victim subconsciously wants to participate in the sexual act it had experienced many years before, thus the person can have a particular (abnormal – not natural) sexual desire (even if they don’t recall the sexual event).
If the person was young, introduced to sexual pleasure seductively and positively then that person wants to do the same to young people as an adult, and that is why so many are pedophile-sleepers – they got heir entire life with no interest in sex or that type of sex, and then one day it all comes rushing back with desire and pleasure and they are then doing the same thing (uncontrollably) with their own children.
Being Born Again flushes this out of the brain so that the victim can start all over again, clean, a new Soul.
When you were groomed the choices that you made, once groomed, are the choices of the one who groomed you coming out of your own mouth or acted out by you, the choices you make once someone has groomed you are not your choices.
We all like to think that what we do is our own idea.
But the whole idea of grooming is to convince a person that what they normally wouldn’t do, is something to choose to do.
Look at a product advertised on TV night after night, hour after hour, about being green, healthy, safe, good for you, good for your children, and then we read that there are doubts abut that product, but the positive bombardment (Love bombing) from those advertisements has the consumer buying that product next time they are near the shop that sells that product – now, this person likes to think that he or she is a smart person, a logical buyer, well informed buyer, and that when he or she buys something it really was their own choice – and that is what the big companies want the public to think, that the faulty/toxic/unhealthy product that he or she bought for the whole family was their own choices to buy it.
We mentally-blindly see advertising as showing is what is available, when in reality it is brainwashing and grooming all rolled up in pretty, flashy, colors, pretty people, advertising – legal lying to the masses.
The idea was never yours, the idea was theirs.
Saying Goodbye Is Sometimes Not Easy
Sometimes during our lives we have to move ahead and say goodbye to those people that have shared time with us. People who have been our friends for many years. Goodbye is never easy when we have to say it to these people, but sometimes in our journey through life we need to move ahead, and sometimes people do actually hold us back. When this happens its time to be honest with yourself and ask yourself if you really and truly want to move ahead and try new things, maybe even change your lifestyle.
If the answer is yes then its time to congratulate yourself for your insight and take the only step possible that will make you feel better – it’s time to move on. Remember the good times with your friends, remember the fun, but always keep in mind that no matter where you go you will always be able to acquire new friends who will be on the level that you have risen to.
Memories are like photos in a photo album, they are to be treasured for the happiness that they gave you. I have many fond memories of many people that I have known over the years and I take great pride in the large amount of people that I have known and it has always given me great pleasure for the special moments that we have had. Even though I have moved on and don’t see many of those people anymore for various reasons (like distance) they will always have a special place in my heart.
I have found that wherever I go I always manage to meet nice people, people who are kind and generous, people who want to help me and ask no return. One of our goals in life should be to attract these sorts of people – good people attract good people. Keep this in mind while you go through life and your life will be the better for it.
James Martin Sandbrook.
Thursday, 27 May 2004, 7:02:04 pm.
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Watching Logan’s Run. 1976.
Saw John Wick for the first time. One of my sisters raved about it years ago, but it seemed just like a violent video game, one death after the other.
All people on earth who are not following Gods ways are obviously misguided.
They are ignorant of the advantages of a Holy lifestyle, and the advantages of being in Gods care. But misguided they are and one of our goals as Christians is to find ways to get these people to understand in a true loving and kind manner the ways of God. Our goal as Gods messengers is not to persecute those that don’t know Gods ways. Our goal should be to correct them by giving them knowledge. This more than likely is not their fault.
Many Christians today are those who are uneducated and have led bad lifestyles, while it is good that they have changed their ways and become Christians, it is not good that they are trying to educate people while they themselves are not educated. Many of these people have the willpower to succeed and pursue the Christian lifestyle which is again a good thing, but their lack of education, either Christian education or the general education of the World, leads them to be misguided and misguiding those they attempt to lead.
This only leads to many Christians that have been guided by those lacking education to be misguided and so on it goes. Many, many Christians I fear are created this way. This also would explain the many churches who have congregations that mimic the Preacher and not Jesus.
A good Christian church needs to learn of ways to educate their congregation. These congregations should learn of the ways of the educational world and learn of the ways of Christianity. This would ensure that the followers of Jesus Christ have good common sense thinking ability and a good solid knowledge of what God is trying to so with the human race. Once the world realizes that God has only their best interest at heart then the world will be a much better place. These educated Christians would have a good debating ability coupled with patience and love.
A preacher needs to keep up with world events. Because he is a preacher and a man of God he should be humble and strong enough to view worldly activities without giving in to temptation. A preacher cannot preach with the knowledge of the world if he does not know the activities of the world to some degree.
To be a worthy Christian we need to love the world as a whole. We need to love the world because it was gifted to us by God.
The words of the mouth are not just air they actually have the power to harm, physically and mentally.
A child will always want your love and care if you offer them something. Love is the most powerful thing that you can offer a child.
Who are you angry with the most. Yourself? Parent/s?
What do you fear the most? Why? Have you always had this fear? What caused this fear?
James Martin Sandbrook.
Thursday, 3 June 2004, 1:29:00 am