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The The Mandela Effect.
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The Mandela Effect is a phenomenon where a large number of people share a false memory of a past event or detail, often related to pop culture, history, or even basic facts. It’s named after the false memory that many people believed Nelson Mandela died in the 1980s, when he actually passed away in 2013
The Mandela Effect is also a result of Character Assassination.
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Such as the huge amounts of people who furiously hated Donald Trump, and many distrusted Trump, but when they finally met him they completely changed their minds about Donald Trump.
Examples are many, like those Democrats who changed over to Republicans to be on Trumps side yet prior to this and according to the rumours and lies that they were told they realised that what they assumed to be true, because everyone believed it, was not true at all.
Another victim of this was Joe Rogan who once said that he would never have Donald Trump on his show because he believed the lies on Trump and he supported Obama and the Clinton’s, and today once he saw many of Trumps enemies become his friends, Joe realised that someone was going on, and when he met Donald trump his view changed.
The Character Assassination of Donald Trump, included the court case against Trump, and many many people fell for it.
But most who fell had never met Donald Trump and they were loyal to a main base, the leaders of the Democrats, and that main base were in fact full of haters, and haters are never going to tell you the truth.
Also haters never take on who they hate face to face unless the bases are fully stacked in their own favour so that they cannot lose.
Intelligent people, people who look out of the square/box and actually think about life and situations started to smell a rat, that liars were working from cowardly shadows and making false accusation and telling many unproven lies. If they had won against Trump Harris would have got in and the world would be in a big mess right now.
But also Donald Trump would be in prison for things that he did not do, and he would have lost his life, the liars and haters would have destroyed his life, and forever the world would have hated Donald Trump based only on the Character Assassination and the hateful attacks against him.
There is no worth in wishing that life was different, the past is gone and what remains is simply the memories.
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We all have our cross to bear, this being the struggles and pain in life that we have encountered at times. But we must bear them and we do have the strength to do this. Many have come before us, and many will follow, and they will go through struggles like we have. Create the right attitude towards challenges and they will become weaker in your mind, while you become stronger and more capable to meet challenges head on Ave do something about them. Please don’t fret over what you cannot change.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
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If a person respects you, your character, lifestyle and what you want for your own life then they will accept your, “No!”.
A person that loves us truly and respects us genuinely will accept our, “No!’ and will give us time to think about it, and will not force or pressure us, and if the final answer is still, “No!” then that is fine. Because a mature person knows that we must live our own life according to the rules and choices that we have decided are good for our own heart and soul.
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Sometimes we get an unexplained feeling, instinct, a gut feeling that an idea is not a good one, or we feel that we just don’t want to go with what others are demanding that we do, so we say, “No!’. If others demand a reason why we said, “No!” we cannot explain why because we are following a gut feeling and nothing solid and provable.
This is why they must trust and respect our feelings and live with the, “No!” that we gave them.
Sometimes we just cannot explain why we shouldn’t do something, but the feeling is strong and convincing, and because of that we refuse to do it. That is how we human beings are designed to operate.
There is no shame in following a gut feeling. Gut feelings have saved many a person from a miserable future, stay strong and have faith in yourself even under pressure. Trust Yourself, because you feel the negative feelings that others don’t, follow your truth , not theirs.
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Be true to yourself by standing firm with how you feel about your life and what direction that you want to go in. Remember “This is your life! Live it your way!”
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
The senses that science tries to tell us are all that we have, are the senses that we first use when we meet a person, then along comes our more spiritual senses, gut-feeling, and such, and then when we put them all together we come up with the more “bigger picture” of a person’s character.
Observation comes from many parts of the human, both spiritual and physical, and then it is all put together and that is the character that we finally see.
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But have you ever noticed that other people see us so differently. And that comes from their interaction with us. We may end up in an argument with someone,and that taints their opinion of us, or people may listen to gossip and that will taint their view and may even cause them to hate us etc.
And yet at home to those who really know us know who we really are.
One of the biggest problems with modern teaching is that we are taught in schools to be half-effective in the world, we are not taught to use all our senses. Because of this we are often confused about people, life, and even ourselves, if our emotions are all mixed up etc.
Far too much labeling is done by mental health organizations, far too many drugs handed out, and far too many “new” mental diseases are being “created” because the mental-health system and science has no idea how to fix up the stress that is causing people to malfunction in a very unnatural and uncomfortable world that they have created.
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We tend to see people, hear them, and judge what we first saw of their character. But there is so much more to learn from people, and that takes time, and vision, and being open-minded, and also that all important gut-feeling that we get deep down inside that guides us if we have the courage to face ourselves and trust our own instincts.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Aug 21, 2015 10:39am.
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For Attractive lips, speak words of kindness..Â
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For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run their fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.
People, more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself and the other for helping others.
– ” Sam Levenson.
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Please understand that critics will always be there. Critics will always challenge you. They will always have lots of stuff to say about you, about your past, about what you are going to do, and what you have done, they have a list of your mistakes to rant on about, and they have a list of supposed mistakes that they assume that you will make according to their opinion. Many are seriously fearful and jealous because all they do is complain and they fear you succeeding, and to their misery they have to watch you do what they have no courage to do, and that is to do your own thing and stand out from the mindless thinking of the crowds.
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At least 90% of what they say doesn’t amount to any truth because it is simply harsh opinion and judgments. And if you look back in history all people who made great changes in the world were heavily criticized, but they went ahead and followed their dreams – and as we look back in history we find that the names of the critics have disappeared where they belong, yet the people that ignored the critics are known for their great deeds. Let other people’s success be your guide to what you can do.
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Being criticized is what is guaranteed to happen to you. and the more successful you become, the more people will criticize you.
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Please, for your own peace of mind and happiness, have the courage to stand up and do your own thing. It is your life that we are talking about here, not theirs. See if they have their act in gear. Most critics are far less popular than those they criticize, and rant from a safe cowardly distance. Leave them to their own views, you have dreams, desires and needs, go for it, make your life become something that you will be proud of. Be an achiever of your dreams.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Aug 20, 2015.