A psyop, or psychological operation, is a planned effort to convey selected information to target audiences to influence their motives, objective reasoning, and ultimately their behavior. In a military context, these operations are known as Military Information Support Operations (MISO) and are used by the Army to support missions, build partner capacity, and even assist civil authorities with information dissemination.
When you find out that they have been lying to you, and you continue to let them guide and help you with their lies, then you are a fool that deserves every bad thing that you have coming to you.
Your obvious is not necessary another person’s obvious.
I wish someone had taught me this when I was a teenager. I remember so many occasions trying to explain to someone that something they were doing was going to ruin their health or kill them and they could not see the common sense in what I was saying. Some laughed as if I was a nut case.
Your life journey took you on path that formed your Belief System.
Any other person was taken on a different path that formed that person’s Belief System, even those in your own home.
When a person joins a religion then that person and others share the basic beliefs of that religion, but still can differ in so many areas.
Understanding people, how we think, how our Belief Systems are formed, will save you a lot of grief and struggle in your life. Trying to explain to a teenager who was bought up in a gang home and who is getting drunk and stoned often that this is not good for them will 99% of the time be the same as talking to a brick wall. We need to understand that the person is not thick, stupid or dim. But that the person has been taken when young and eager to please his or her parents, formed and moulded into someone that sees no wrong in what he or she is doing later on in life, “Because this lifestyle is all that this person has ever really known and all that they believed in, even with its hardships and abuse which toughened them up.” This person would have been taught to avoid authorities, the Police, and encouraged into illegal activities, violence, theft, being violated possibly and accepting it etc. This teaching finally became this person’s truth and Belief System, and that is how they live.
Narcissist are very hard to convince that they have a problem, because they are convinced that the problem is with everyone else. Narcissism is an illness that completely takes over the mind and controls the person, all that he or she does, and harms all the good people who they know. Your obvious diagnoses of the narcissist will fall on deaf ears because to the narcissist it is impossible what you suggest. or claim.
I have been trying to talk to violent people who rant, rave, yell and even threatening, and when I try to explain to them that they are doing all these things (while they are doing them) they completely refuse to see that they are ranting, yelling, being threatening etc. This is a really scary situation because if this person is completely blind to their violent speech and actions then they could explode at any time and do some real damage to someone. This is a lot like road rage. And eventually it will end with a bad situation like jail unless this person wakes up and sees the light.
Politics. Both sides gathering up people for their own cause and believing that their Left or Right political party is the truth to life. Trying to get people from either side to agree on something for the good of the nation seems impossible. Imagine what a wonderful world we would have if they did agree.
So when you approach someone about something that to you is plainly obvious to your mind please don’t be surprised, offended at their view. Change, I have found, takes a very long time with some people. It is very hard to get a person to see wrong in themselves when pride is very important to them.
The human mind is amazing, but it can be formed by people and life to became something very lost and confused. This is why many people become religious after a disaster, because it is only a distaste that wakes them out of the illusion that they have been living. Humbled, frightened possibly, awakened and confused this person will rush off to a religion in the hope of finding out more about God, life and their purpose in life now that they have discovered that materialism serves no real purpose except for the wealthy.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 13 April 2017, 10:39:28 am.
I think this means don’t let them guess your next move by making out you are going to do one thing and then you do something different.
Some animals when they decide that they love you thats it. The owners may not like you, but they can get really upset when the animals likes you 🙂 But you would have to be a cold person to not acknowledge the animals love and show the animal thanks and attention. It does not matter what the owners want, but it should matter what the animals like. And cats can adopt you at anytime, happens to me all the time.
The Clay Pot
When a clay pot is dropped and it is chipped or cracked or even broken the blame for this is not put on the potter. When we were made for whatever reason the Potter made us as we are. To accept that is mature and will do us much good in our future journeys.
As life progresses for this clay it may become chipped, and get some scratches, and be roughed up. The thing here to remember is that the chips, scratches, and such are not the clay. They become a part of the outer visual clay, but they are not part of the main foundation or main structure of the clay.
We humans can have our lives roughed up, and we can have our character chipped and scratches, even cracked. The thing for us to remember is that the small chips and events in our life are Not Our Life in total, just a small part of our life.
It is important that the human being accepts what it is and how it was made. We need to accept that life was designed to be lived in a certain good way and that our physical appearance is good, and that our body is good, even if old, broken down etc.
We need to accept our body functions. We need to be satisfied with what we were given for this life. What we are is good if we go back to the basics of living and remove all the baggage and garbage that society is pushing on us to become better people. We are a miracle.
We all have a worthy purpose, but we will never know that purpose unless we are willing to believe that we are worthy in the first place.
We have a perfect world. The ground takes the human and animals wastes and what rots, and uses it to feel the beautiful growth of plants etc. It is an amazing system created to work, and to work efficiently.
It was given to us already working perfectly. There was nothing wrong with the planet or the human being. But as time has gone by the human being feels that it has progressed and wants more and more. Humans want the planet to be improved, their lives improved, and their body improved.
There is no need for improvements because all that we had was already perfect. The world is so perfect it can run perfectly without the human being.
The woman, is a creature of beauty and of great use to others, and a wonder to one man’s eyes. She doesn’t need improving and all additions to her more to make her look cheap and unworthy. The woman is a work of art. If her character is worthy and responsible, kind and loving then her life will bless many people and this will bring her much respect and love form all around. God gave her a worthy place in life.
It is often in the search for a better world due to us feeling dissatisfied with what was already perfect for us, that we have come to great stress, and worries.
If we learned to relax and enjoy what we already have then we have no need to keep trying to improve what is already a perfect system that we live in. We are also of nature, so it is obvious that nature is a part of us, and we are a part of nature. we are one.
Please don’t let others, TV and magazines etc try to tell you that you need all this improving, you are fine as you are. Be strong and courageous and stand firm on your own if need be, just be you.
If you can learn to accept who you are, and you are wise enough to remove emotional baggage you will do very well. Remember always that you are a part of a system that works perfectly, and that means that you can work in that system perfectly. Life gets better when we accept our part in the world and know that we were all born for something important and worthy. Please be at peace with your own live, body and mind.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
11th of April 2014.
https://sites.google.com/site/undefinition/diy
There is a belief that the more comfortable people get the more that they sin or do wrong, because “the Devil will give idle hands something to do”.
Because of the intense desire for our young to be successful they are all taught in school, food and board provided, parties at night and in the evenings, lots of drugs, booze, casual sex, lots of free time.
In the historical past the teenagers had to help around the farm, homestead, land, to help the parents and since there were no shops to help grow food for the family to eat, build building, create safe places, put up fences, build or add to the home and so on – in some places school was there but it had little importance, far less importance than school has today.
It was said that the large uprising of Feminism came in the early 1970s because women found that all the automatic items in the home such as dishwashers, washing machines, the new ovens, fridges and such gave what were once busy women a lot of free time, and the early 1970s were famous for women sleeping around on their husbands while he was at work. Women, bored, formed a much stronger more powerful woman’s liberation movement than there has ever been in modern times. Idle minds and idle hands found something they felt was meaningful to do.
Note the interviews of teenagers on YouTube and their large lack of common sense, or logic, or just general knowledge. The idle comfort zone life that they live where everything is provided by parents and state can cause loose-minds, immaturity.
If we realized that spare-time not well spent causes us to do foolish things of which we feel self-hate and guilt for. But with a moral code we will refuse to partake in such things even if we have spare time. In fact we will know the temptations of spare time and instead go do stuff, good clean helpful stuff, thus we crate no careless guilt for doing careless foolish things.
Changes with Time
In the past the people just lived day by day, and knew that it was going to get dark soon, or that their tummies said “time for eats” and they ate. They stressed far less without measuring “time” or measuring the days, weeks and years. Their eating matched their physical work rate, so they were seldom overweight. They didn’t eat food for stress. Everyone in the house and community had a part to play in keeping everyone safe, fed, and all felt needed, loved, wanted, and a part of everyone’s lives. There was no need for a mental health system, antidepressant drugs etc, because no one felt depressed or unable to cope. Everyone felt that he or she was an important part of the society that he or she lived in.
Many people today claim that “time” was invented for the authorities to be in control of us. “Time” has been so brainwashed into our lives from birth that people cannot comprehend living without it. Yet, time does not exist.
All people in the society gained courage, strength (despite their own personal problems and weaknesses), confidence and life experience from their elders. All life was a continued positive growth progress from childhood to adulthood. The elders were greatly respected, the mothers honoured for their abilities, love and compassion for their families, sacrifice, effort and support. The father’s were respected for the risks that they took, the love, respect, compassion, support and effort in the community (as were the elderly, wives and mothers). Both parents were an example of parenting, both were an example of love to one another. The good of their marriage and the entire family was most important to them and family time was of great importance. They loved each other first, and dealt with life second, and brought up their children to be examples of themselves and they gained a deep satisfaction and pleasure as each child grew and became an important part of the society. No one was unimportant and no one was put above any others, all were equal and respected for his or her talents that they brought into the community.
The people knew the land, the roots, the food sources all around them. They survived the storms of life, they didn’t have “time” or a measure of weeks, months, years. They used their senses, gut feelings, and past history of their people and their own lives to know when to plant the crops, what was the best time to do things. They passed down many true stories to help guide the young, to give the young a fierce determination to survive, to look after one another, to look after and to protect those smaller and in need. The young listened eagerly and grew into fine adults from years of guidance, story telling around the campfire, and from acting out the stories that had been told, and making up new scenarios and adventures all based on the common-core thinking of honesty, being honorable, looking after the needy and making a positive difference for all.
The elders knew what pulled apart a community and destroyed the people, so they did all that they could to teach the young to avoid these things. This is where the saying that the eldest were wise came from. The elders did not raise themselves above the people, they instead walked on equal ground with all and listened and learned and advised when they were asked for help and for ideas etc.
All in the tribe, community, township etc, knew that all taught the young. The elders, the parents, all felt that it was a great honour to help the young grow into strong able confident courageous adults. They passed down all that they knew and they loved doing this. Each child was a blessing, a miracle and treated as such. Each child bloomed and became a individual in his or her own right and was respected for that.
Today we cut food down to roughly 3 times a day. But in the past they ate snacks, not big feeds, all day long, and often while they worked. Food was energy not pleasure, although it was nice when it tasted good.
Sugar was only eaten from natural sources. People enjoyed the flavor of what they ate and didn’t season it. And they ate a lot of raw foods. Soup was a medicine and food source, and the clever women knew exactly what to cook to keep their children and husbands fit, healthy, and how to cure them. Today most of this amazing skill is gone.
There is a pot in the South Pacific that never gets cleaned. The fire below is kept burning and food is added and people eat it. They love the taste, the food is very good for them. The common oven etc had brought laziness and skills added being lost with time.
There was no room for sports stars or actors stars etc, because the wisdom of the people taught them to share, love and to respect all, so to raise one person above others meant that many would be lowered and in any form of math that is drastically wrong.
So they refused to allow egos and vanity to come into the lifestyle of the people because of the damage it would do to the confidence of others, and would cause tense frustration and egos to grow as they went up against one another to be the best.
The people were there for each other day by day, and they lived unhurried fun lives based on care, sharing, and helping each other. Money was not needed, just the skills and abilities of each other which was given to others as a way to help each other out. For instance someone who made shoes did it to help others, and was given many things to help them, and the shoemaker got his clothes from someone who made clothes etc. No money needed, no greed, no hoarding of wealth, no jealousies etc.
No one stole or did wrong in such a community because of the deep intense fear of being shunned or made an outcast from the community. So good behaviour was encouraged and bad behaviour brought shame and disrespect, although forgiveness much admired and used with the full repentance of the person who did wrong.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 14 September 2017, 2:13:36 pm
When my ex-wife left back in 2004 I was very unconfident, suffering chronic depression, suicidal thoughts, and had agoraphobia. I had absolutely no belief in life, in people or in myself. A good person saw this and said to me, “James, You are more important than you think. You are capable of so much, and you are worth so much. Even if you don’t believe in yourself right now go ahead and make the changes that you would make if you believed in yourself. Just do it, just try. In time you will get your life back together and you will see that what I said is true.”
So I did. I remember feeling completely hopeless and yet doing things that were good, positive, encouraging, and helpful for others. It did me great good to help others, and in time I discovered that good things we do cause good results, and those good results change lives, bring hope, make people happy, and most importantly for me back then, it made me happy to help others.
We can come to points in our life where we can feel completely and totally defeated. Life holds no more meaning for us in such troubled times, and the battle seems a hopeless one that we will not win. The reality is that this is all just gloom. We can make it, and we can do really well in life once the cloud of dim grey disappears and the light of hope starts to shine again.
Today I am a lot quieter more mature person, but that has nothing to do with age, it has to do with learning about life all over again from a new angle and gaining a new perspective of life from the Creator and not from the spiritually blind on earth. If we taught our daughters and sons what I know now then a whole new positive generation of people would be blessed and life on earth would become once again based on good values, good morals and decent living, and we would all enjoy the blessed fruits of our labours and the love, trust and faith of those who love us, and we would be much closer to God.
All that I write is to try to show people that life can be different for them, all they need to do is to try, to become born again to a new life of hope, love and compassion for one another.
Cause and Effect or Cause and Outcome.
Many people today follow a desire to be a character that is not natural to that person, and they take a path to reach that goal which consists of years of changing their emotions, feelings, beliefs, and even changing their past ion their minds to give them confidence to believe that they had a better past than they actually did.
Its like the governments changing a countries history to give the impression to the modern students that they had no dark past, but basically all countries have dark pasts, and many people do as well. Some of us were horrible children and some of us were the victims of abuse from adults and other children.
The only way to learn from the past and not repeat it is to know what our real past was, who people really were and how people really treated us.
I have known of young adult females being nice to uncles and aunts who sexually abused the adult-child when she was young, but through careful mental pressure from the parents (who don’t want the uncle locked up) the daughters memories and mind have been rewired to see herself as the fault and the uncle like the rest of the family, just a nice caring uncle.
Facing the past is telling ourselves how things really happened, and the past also explains why we are as we are today.
For me personally I was an adult in 2004 who seriously suffered from anxiety and mental issues, along with suicidal thinking. I self-hated and self-blamed heavily, and saw myself as the only reason why I had failed in everything that I had tried as an adult.
What I discovered on day was many many reasons why my life was messed up that had nothing to do with me. My mother was abusive, my father not thee for me and abusive himself. Bot drunk heavily, both abused drugs, both insecure and unstable mentally, but has casual sex with other people.
Any children that came from two such parents are going to have many mental and confident issues, and my sisters and I did. The difference mostly of my sisters and me was that is n many ways they just conformed, became drinkers, saw nothing wrong in drug abuse. Mother was a feminist, my sisters saw life along those lines. I tended to see the opposite to my parents, refused to be like my mother or father, but with no strong male and mental structure I was unable to deal with life and was not able to cope as a human being, therefore with each mistake I blamed myself.
I knew that I did not want to be like my parents, I just had no foundation or structure of how to do this.
The Foundation and Structure.
The first ten years of your life are your Foundation that should support you through life. The Structure is the walls of your Mind and Soul, they are your memories, experiences, what you have learned.
If you have no education or experience in carpentry and you are forced to become a carpenter one day, you will have no pre-existing knowledge of any of the tools, of how they work, or of where they are used and what each tool does.
Thus you are entering the field of carpentry mentally-blind, completely without education in that work, without any knowledge of that work and no wisdom at all. You will fail from the start. You will make numerous mistakes, and your growth in confidence is in a mental war with the failures, of which the failures are constantly telling you that you are stupid and a fool.
People who see your work see your failures, and they too think that you are a fool, and many laugh at you, some are cruel, some sympathetic, but they won’t like to buy off you.
When parents abuse us and/or don’t prepare us for life, we fail, and fail and fail, and this haunts the Soul causing lack of confidence and plenty of self doubt. Each day is a struggle for say me, but it never was a struggle for my neighbour, thus he must be clever and I must be a fool, the evidence of me being unworthy, stupid and a fool is in front of me every day.
Lacking in confidence I marry a woman who is not good enough for me, but as I am desperate and fear any good decent woman would be able to see my faults, insecurities, self dislike and such, I take what I can. She makes my life hell, I bow my head an accept it.
Children must be prepared for life by stable and capable parents. Selfish parents are no stable, so if working a job is more important for the parents, have two cars, big house and holidays, you may have had material gain in your life, but for sure your confidence and other areas of your life suffered as a child. Your Life Education is incomplete.
See Your Past and Your Current Life as It Is!
To make family peace, to keep the neighbours happy, to keep the relatives happy, and so on, when we are children we are constantly told to do s we are told, to obey adults, to conform, to shut-up, to fit-in, to make the family look good, to make our parents look good, to lie for family, to lie for our parents, to put family first even if they are not worthy, nor good, or messed up our own childhood with abuses.
Years and years of being bullied as a child to protect the family name and parents has us as adults doing the same but not feeling good abut it and often suffering mental issues because of guilt, shame, and the long-term lifelong effects of untreated abuses by family, especially our own parents.
Always being told to forgive family, forgive brothers and sisters, to forgive parents, to forgive aunties and uncles, we get a very bad grey-area idea of what is blame and white and where abuser and adulthood connect, thus we get in to the bad habit of letting everyone off, we excuse everyone;’s bad treatment of us as “trust life”, and we let the abuses we receive from others as adults be forgiven constantly.
We are told, “Family got your back!” and yet family messed up your mind, past and because of them you know struggle? “Blood is thicker than water!” what the heck does that mean anyway, blood, water, eh???
Your parents have pride, very foolish egos and pride, and trough their own stupidities, narcissism, and so on, thus they made plenty of mistakes through weaknesses and in some way abused you (whether they knew it or now), and now as adults they want you to stay untreated mentally, to struggle your lifetime, just to keep the family pride and name intact, and to make the public see your family/parents as blameless, pillars of society, good honest folk and good parents.
They want that sacrifice from you. And if you obey, keep your must shut, you cannot heal, nor grow, not become strong and mature, that is the sacrifice the unworthy parents are demanding of their struggling adult children.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Tuesday, 12 August 2025, 8:48:00 am.