In these modern times we make many mistakes, and the main reason is that we live in societies that are not natural, not normal, not good for us mentally, physically and spiritually.

Consider living in a medieval village, the pressures on us are far less than our current society, and the mother and the father are at the child’s side all day as the child grow up. The child gets constant correction in a loving caring way as the child grows up.

Mistakes in the past, in more natural times were seen as steps to change for the better, so each mistake the child makes the parents remembers making him or herself, and that mistake when overcome becomes a celebrated accomplishment that the child made for the better of the child’s personal Life growth.

In today’s society the parents are there, not there, single parents, both working, and other scenarios, or they may have addictions, be workaholics, party all the time, be TV addicts, violent, child abusers, and so on, and the children today do not grow up side by side with their own parents, they from a very small age given to other people to bring them up, so that constant appreciation, attention, encouragement, help, understanding, empathy, and unconditional love is not there anymore in this modern day and age.

Like we were, our children are brought up from a young age and are taught to be achievers, to seek a future for themselves, to do what’s best only for themselves, thus they form an opinion of apathy (not because of schooling, but because of lack of parenting) that is based on their own personal future.
When it comes to starting a family the parents goal for both of them is to work, to be away from the home and children because this is what is expected o them by their modern gender, and society – this is the complete opposite of family life in the past in more natural societies.

The mistakes we make today are far more than if we were grown mentally buy our own parents, and even if we were sent away for training and to learn a trade our parents input into our lives would be far more often, with much more parental encouraging input, empathy and help than today.

Within each and all of us is a blueprint/plan for our life Living, thus we instinctively know a lot and we can easily fall in to our part in life. But in a society that is so Unnatural, we lose contact with our gender, life, and we love that very important connection with our natural mental state of being. As a human being of our own gender, so we make many many mistakes because our Internal Input is in direct non-stop competition with Modern Thinking and Social Expectations of what we should be, what people expect us to be, and how to act and behave.

Far worse, today we are shamed, laughed at cruelly, when we make mistakes, and mistakes are not celebrated they are reasons for modern peers to shame us, put us down, hurt our feelings, and so on, and we naturally become scared of making mistakes and making what we think is making a fool of ourselves.

The Natural Way of Life is what God Created for us to live – this is not church life, but a life where family is really family, close, loving, empathetic, compassionate, and the parents sacrifice with much pleasure for their children and see the growing up and being with their children as a wonderful experience of which they are so very happy to share and its a joyful experience for them all.

God’s way is a way of making far less mistakes, natural, loving living, and parents who teach and understand each mistake their children make, and are there to encourage and support them.

In the past a woman who was in her seventies said that homeschooling was not for her. In fact in the not so distant past many or most families, and in some societies all the families homeschooled because schools and teachers of academic education didn’t exist. Today, this being so close to our children, sacrificing to help the grow up strong, capable and stable, seems something we can’t do, and that is because from birth this modern toxic materialistic society teaches us to live in the opposite way to our Natural Living that we should live.

By not following the Life Plan we were supposed to live, we, our children, society, all suffer, because we grow up to be plastic, fakes, non-spiritual, apathetic, materialistic thinking, taught to chase the dollar and ignore it when our hearts are calling us to be normal, loving and caring.

We humans today live unnaturally thus mistakes are far more common, and we tend to frown on our own mistakes, self punish, dislike ourselves for natural progressive mistakes because e today don’t recognise the blessing that mistakes are and how they are needed in our lives to become the people who we wish to be, and being like this we suffer mentally.