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Why Does God Allow You To Have Enemies
Enemies are a pain, but are always going to be in your life, because you cannot make everyone happy. Some people are just opposing what you value or live for, they cannot help themselves seeing life differently to you and thus they want to compete with you and so on.
Enemies help us see life in another way, but they also help us learn to control ourselves, to keep ourselves in-check, when we would prefer to punch someone on the nose we learn to stand back, control our emotions and find other less violent ways to deal with that person.
Having a Spiritual Nature of Evil and Good means that we can be enemies of other people, but also enemies of our own selves. As we know, as long as humans exist Evil will exist, and we can also assume that as long as humans exist we will have enemies somewhere, and some enemies we won’t even know that they are our enemies.
How you react to adversity and enemies is a good sign of how effective the parenting you got was. If your parents were wholesome good decent and stable people you would be that as well, because of the solid strong worthy foundation of life your parents put beneath you to deal with life.
If your parents were weak-minded or weak in character it will shine out on the children, because they will grow up with weak paretns being their examples of adults, and thus they too will be mentally weak unless they do something about it.
Another point to consider is in the past when you had a strong view on someone or something and you made enemies, and now your views of that person or of that something has changed, you can see that your enemy was yourself, and also that you can see how other people can do as you did, thus they can be your enemy over something, but they too can be wrong, but just as stubborn as you were and you were unreachable, they are now unreachable.
They say that Parenting (being a parent) gives you good strong character because of that amazing wonderful but sometimes a struggle experience, and having enemies is the same.
How to you act when people wrongfully accuse you of something, or how you react to violence against yourself, or how you react when you are badly treated and so on…
If you react violently or badly this is a proof (like an exam) of you character, good or bad, immature or mature, stable or unstable, and so on.
How you react to your enemies is a sign of what your stability is.
Another point is asking yourself about how you reacted to someone who is a proven enemy.
God may helps us when we cannot deal with our enemies, and help us deal with our enemies when we are being outgunned, but God will let our enemies take us on to show us how we have matured, become stronger, and can handle the situation ahead of us.
The point of being Born Again is to be able to stand up on your own, even without God’s help, and you can never know how much you have grown in courage and personal strength until you are faced with impossible and hard situation, and attacks from your enemies.
The trials of life are many, with or without God, you will have struggles, and being with God you can realise your true strong potential, and what you believe in, what your values, morals, and views are, and then grow to stand strong and refuse to back down even when the odds are far more than you ever expected.
Also when you discover that a person or group of people are enemies you are expected by God to recognise other enemies in your life from the experiences that you had in the past with enemies, thus you learn from your mistakes, and you learn with experiences, and you learn each time you uncover a new enemy in your life who was pretending to be a friend.
Also, you realise what a friend is after bad experiences with enemies, and you realise just how important the honest decent loving people in your life really are.
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