The modern world is a place where a person does not stand out and we are heavily judged, ignored, and lost in the mass of people, yet few shine. The reason why they shine is because they have depth.

A man of Interest is a man who is Interesting. Because of the hunger for pleasing self, the desire to be a Materialist Soul people become Shallow, easy to pass by, easy to ignore, and easy to pass over, and many people want people in their lives who have a face arranged that pleases them, or Hollywood movie style looks, or females that look like models, and females want guys who look tough, have a tough reputation, and adores her.

An interesting man cannot be interesting if he has few interests, no hobbies, does not read books, and so on. You see, if you paint you have an interest that is interesting and that means you can hold a good interesting conversation with someone interested in painting.

If you read about the popular fiction you will not have much depth in reading, but if you read about many different hobbies, activities like boating, famous people, biographies, people in different countries, then all that you are learning with each book makes you more interesting to anyone who you talk to.

Now, the females may still flock to the handsome muscly guy, and that’s fine, because that shows you that they are all shallow minded females, they have little or no depth, and missing out should be to you a blessing. People show you who they are by what they like, how they act, and what interests and what doesn’t interest them.

Be aware that popularity is a curse in the sense that you always have to perform for the crowd and give them what they expect to see from you. If you live without caring what the crowd thinks then you are free to do as you please.

The man of depth of good character is not easily led into foolish situations, because he is a thinker. The many books he has read, the lives of others that he has considered, the many brave men he read about and admired, all make him realise that there is far more to life than self satisfaction and greed.

Shallow-Minded-Men make careless foolish choices but see nothing wrong in their choices or what they do, and they let life cast by with lots of TV watching, many beers or wines, women, work or not work and they leave their life barely noticed and having left any memories of any value or notice.

How the man of depth and value was brought up does not affect his adult choices, because the past he has left behind, the errors, the struggles, the sufferings, toxic people, and so on, he is now a man who prides himself on being the best that he can be at any time as he is, putting in his best effort, making his best stand for the lost, weary, sad, less fortunate and weak.

To him life is not about how he found it when born, but how much he makes the world a better place while he lived in it.