Because of our own insecurities, materialistic upbringing, and confusions, people can judge a person harshly who has done no wrong except survive a hard upbringing to struggle in the world, because they don’t fit in and are not contributing to society in the accepted way.
Lacking good coping skills, no decent mother or father examples, lacking in confidence and some of the basic skills of life can make it appear that this person is stupid, a fool and also an easy target for abuse.
Just because a person did not get a strong foundation to grow on when young does not mean that this person is unworthy and cannot change for the better. It just means that this person needs to get the guidance that he or she didn’t get in childhood now as an adult.
What a person can appear like does not mean that the person is like that deep inside, or will always be like that. There is a wonderful person within us all. A good society will bring out the wonderful soul hidden within the struggling adult by understanding toxic families and recognizing a struggling soul who needs a help to get confidence and courage, and also to gain the coping skills and experience that they never got as a child.
A materialistic toxic society will harshly judge the lost struggling soul because the lost soul is not coping well, struggles to fit in, and a harsh society can cause the innocent struggling soul to struggle more, to fail more, to wish that they had never been born. Materialistic people also can see the struggle soul as an easy target to destroy, make fun of, or to use as a target for their own selfish desires.
If we try to see the value in everyone around us fob the rich to the poor, those who are advantaged with money education, time, can reach out to those in need and improve society by their genuine efforts to help people who they see need guidance and a strong foundation built under them.
All the best from James Martin Sandbrook.
Monday, 20 August 2018, 5:34:50 PM.