Modern Feminism – Helping People Grow

Another point about Feminism I try to explain to people is that we get what we give out. If you put your child into child care at a young age or any age, you are teaching the child that you don’t care, that you have better things to do than love and care for your child, and you teach the child that you think of yourself more than of the child.

Feminists will argue that this is a lie, but the proof is very obvious. It is just that the social system created to create jobs for women, get them into the workforce paying taxes and making the wealthy richer, is not allowing the system to actually find real answers to the Teenage-Problem.

The result of this neglect of the child’s mental growth, is a teenager that is selfish, narcissistic, or clingy, or insecure and so on, but not a strong willed well adjusted decent loving person.

You show the child you don’t care, and subconsciously the child-teenager reacts the same way towards you-what the parent/s put into the child the parent is now getting back when the child has become a teenager, young adult.

The teenager, unprepared for life, neglected when he or she needed mothers loving Soul to help, guide, and Fathers protection (he can’t protect a child he allows to be put in a strangers care), shows that he or she does not really care for you because you showed them that you really never cared for the child.

And when the parent/s have serious teen issues with their children, lack of respect for the parents and so on. They show the baby/child they they don’t care when the child/baby needed them the most, this is what they get back, what they deserve as a part-time parent, but sadly the child will struggle his or her entire life.

The mentality and mental condition of the young today that is toxic, is not the young’s fault, it is the parents creation, who were not there for their own children.

You say to your teen. “Why are you like this, why don’t you listen?” and the teen will not know why, he or she will just feel deep inside, a resentment, that the parent/s are not really there for he or she, the proof is in the past, in their memories, but as a teen they don’t know or remember why, they just feel detached, and desensitized to the paretns dilemma, issues, trauma.

The Satanic plan is to divide and conquer, meaning what better way to create an army of angry, ungrateful teenagers who will cause themselves and their parents untold havoc and suffering for a decade or so, in some cases for life, than to get the parents to be very selfish and separate the infant from the parents as a baby/child and terrify the heck out of the little one and put that child/baby in Survival Mode and life struggles, anxieties, fears and coping issues.

Think of it this way. As a child, if you bring the child up right, you show the child how to be brave, to be courageous, to be confidant, to love, to care, to be compassionate and to have life skills – we humans are made to form our Psyche on the teachings of the early years. These skills, thinking, emotions, reactions, and so on, are with that child for life.

Putting the child in to child care, trains the child’s mind to become fearful, to struggle to cope, to have anxieties, tears, to be clingy, and feel always neglected as a child/baby, to want love, protection, comfort, loving arms to hold the baby/child, but does not get them. This struggle and survival mode, messed up emotions, thinking, reactions, and so on, are with that child for life.

The irrational fears, anxieties, insecurities become the child’s psyche, immature and irrational.

This is the shame of modern parenting.

Subconsciously the teenager knows that when mother is in tears crying, claiming to love the teenager he or she subconsciously (but can only feel not explain) that the mother has already showed that she does not really care – she is only stressed because her teen is an embarrassment, and she cannot control the child/teen anymore, its not love, because you see, when she put the child into childcare she also tore the loving parent-child connection between them.

The child’s love for the parents disappears and the parents love for the child is severed, cut, gone, the child become a duty, a liability, someone to laugh or growl, to take to school, but the loving parent child connection gone from them both, killed in the first week/month of childcare.

The mother is genuinely not able to get-it, or understand the damage she has done to her own children’s psyche, life long damage, and a period of time of terror for that child that the parent cannot now undo.

After decades of toxic dysfunctional immature leaders and social changes for the worse, all children are brought up to fully accept the social ways of modern society, the rules, the way life is played, and they are best to conform to get along with everyone, get a job, pay taxes, die.

Thus, they are not at fault anymore for how they came our as adults. But, like the criminal who raped or abused someone, he or she has the ability to change fully, completely, and become new, wholesome, honest and true – but if they don’t, they deserve prison or whatever punishments, or reap the rewards here or in the afterlife for what they have done.

What this means is that things need to change, and they need to change right now, and if they don’t there will be dire rewards for those who don’t want to change.

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Feminism deserves a page here due to it always arising when a Prophet is created.

Feminism is not Woman’s Rights. Women and Men and Children, all have rights.
You may note that exactly like the campaigns for drinking and driving, texting and driving, curing cancer and so on, they seem like great ideas, raise money, lots of money, and yet all of these things get worse. Feminism has been around for a very long time and it has not worked out for women.

Instead mostly political people make what looks like great woman’s rights stands and they get many votes, a ton of money, and they walk off rich and nothing changes for the common or the average women. This is because most of the women in political power are not really there for suffering women, they are there for themselves, and yes they would be more than pleased to have your money and votes, just like most other political people.

Feminism as it is in 2025 is not natural, nor is Communism, Chauvinism, and so on.
Every male should know some history about this creation by some people over a hundred years ago, I read in a book that feminism has appeared throughout history and was here when Jesus walked the Earth.

Males need to know that females were not always as they are today, nor were males as they are today. As with any plant or animal, when the environment is hanged the survival instincts change.

In Africa there were many lion attacks on villagers and people wondered shy. It was discovered that it was because humans had destroyed much of the lions hunting grounds and as food became scarce they changed from hunting animals to hunting humans.

Males and females today have changed their thinking, habits, ways of life, and desires, based on the changes made in society over the last 150 years.

Many women could complain that men ruled the world, and that women disliked being used, and mistreated, and in the home slaves to their children and husbands. I mention this because women have actually said this to me. Their claim was that a woman who didn’t have a job and stayed at home with her children was a slave who missed the opportunities that her husband and men had.

What I want to explain here is that women were not always like this, and that males have a mental blueprint (plan) in their genes that they are born with, and this has an explanation of who and what a woman is and her role in the home.

There is a song I like that was made in the 1960’s abut a woman who treated a man bad and he was warning the new boyfriend of hers to be careful. A modern male reviewed the song and claimed that the singers and song writers were being unfair to the woman and “dissing” her (speak disrespectfully to or criticize), he was unable to see her as the guilty person but rather he sympathised with her and saw the males as trashing her unfairly.
The song makes it clear that she was unfaithful and using the man in the song, but this modern male was unable to see or understand this.

The reason why is that back in the 1960’s Feminism was not so big in general culture, but in 2025 we have a couple of decades of children being taught by Feminist mothers and Feminist teachers etc, and the males of today see women differently than they thought of them in the past.

The reason that I m writing about Feminism is because of this.

A decade back on Facebook I was debating with a young female and she argued, “It ahs always been like this”, and what she was debating about (I forgot what it was) was only a few decades old, but because she was less than two decades old she as a young adult thought what she had experienced was how life has always been.

Thus, males of today brought up in Feminism will think that Feminism is completely natural and normal, when in fact the truth is the opposite. All I am trying to do here is to make males aware that what they have been taught was not always as it has been, nor has it always been acceptable, and in the past it was done away with because of how misleading and damaging (as chauvinism is) to wholesome family life and good societies.

A feminist parent, teacher and even historian will tell you that I am wrong, because they have a Feminist agenda. But when I was a child it was there, but no where near as damaging as it is today nor as apathetic as it is today. I read about a Feminist author who wrote about Feminism and woman’s rights in the 1950’s who was horrified at the Feminism beliefs of the 1970’s, it had changed so much and lost its way from its original cause, and today it is much worse.

My warning is that if a male wants a marriage that will last, true honest love, and so on, he cannot find that in a woman who puts herself and her cause first before him and the children.

If you doubt this please do some research on the history of families in all cultures, the woman’s role, the males roles, parenting of the past, equally yoked love, if you have been immersed in Feminism the past should be an eye-opener for you.

In a true loving family no one is a slave, both parents approve of their gender roles, and both play a part that is wholesome, healthy, loving and good.

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
‎Thursday, ‎11 ‎September ‎2025, ‏‎5:18:18 pm.

The result of this neglect of the child’s mental growth, is a teenager that is selfish, narcissistic, or clingy, or insecure and so on, but not a strong willed well adjusted decent loving person.

The mentality and mental condition of the young today that is toxic, is not the young’s fault, it is the parents creation, who were not there for their own children.

This is the shame of modern parenting.

What this means is that things need to change, and they need to change right now, and if they don’t there will be dire rewards for those who don’t want to change.