A Society based on Commercialism demands that you are self serving, selfish, put yourself first, and buy as much as you can during your life for yourself. You are taught that you can do anything that you are special, that you are the most important person in the world to you.

What society does is put a lot of selfish arguments and answers in your Soul to defeat feelings of Guilt, or Charitable thoughts. The goal is for you to put yourself on a pedestal and no one else, not even your own children.

By the time you are a young adult you feel very good about yourself, you tend to think that what job you get or who you marry will get you a lot of money, and money buys happiness, and happiness is things, not people.

This makes it easier to sit by and watch people around you suffer. If they are next door suffering, dying, well, your mind will tell you in cold logic that this is their problem and not yours.

Once in a while you can do something special for others, and that is all you need to get rid of any guilty feelings.

But another ploy is activities. Instead of living in nice communities, you can live a selfish life that you pretend is loving, and you just keep busy, for yourself of course, like a career, or doing something that takes up time, and while your mind is stoned, drunk, socializing, working, you don’t feel guilty, there is no time to feel guilty, so you don’t.

Try to imagine a life brought up in a loving home. You are taught by words, love, observing parents, and interacting with your siblings that caring is wonderful, rewarding, and when you grow up this is how you will react in the world, with empathy, compassion and love. This is because your life has filled in all the arguments, mental conversations, and opinions that you have all heavily in favour of being a good decent humble soul

But, brought up in a society that puts commercialism, industry, the dollar ahead of Love, then your mind defends, argues in favour of all that is selfish and greedy, but you as an adult have no idea that the ways that you think was groomed in to your mind over a very long time. And because of this, to you, your way of thinking and living is what a good decent life is.

And because of the arguments, past experiences, past opinions of other materialistic selfish people, are so well ingrained within your Soul, when you deal with people as an adult you do it coldly, selfishly, you feather your own nest, and as far as you know what you are doing is common sense, logical, what wise people do, and that, to your selfish mind makes it all right. Your friends think like this, everyone one acts this way, so obvioulsy to the selfsih groomed mind being selfish is obviously being a good decent soul who deserves a good life for yourself.

Your Commercial grooming was to defend, accept, partake, and agree to a Social Commercial Apathetic Life, and as an adult people like this assume that they love, care, are kind, nice, good people, while they think it, they are not that way at all, just enough kindness and goodness to get by.

But when they see people struggling, suffering, even dying, they turn away because the argument in favour of turning away and leaving people to their suffering was put in your head sometime when you were young.

All the fears of being good are with such people. Like the fear of doing a good kind deed and people seeing you, or feeling ashamed helping someone desperately in need, you are taught to be comfortable with walking away, just like women become comfortable of putting a defenceless child in childcare, or having an abortion, or a boss poisoning some land for some gain of money, we humans become selfish and then it becomes the character that we live by, defend, protect and want.

It takes a very long time, decades to fully install in a persons Soul all the arguments, habits beliefs, and so on, to make that person walk away when he or she is needed by others.

God puts us here to help people, to love them, to make a loving difference with no desire for personal gain.

To become Born Again, all that selfish defence of a Commercial Life of buying and feathering one’s own nest is cleansed out of your Soul and then one day you feel more strong about just going and doing a good thing and not caring about what you get.

But the thing that gets me, and that often shocks me that others don’t feel, is that every time you do something wonderful, loving and caring, you can, like I do, get a very nice feeling that is spiritual that is worth far more than money or anything materialistic, and it brings us a nice feeling of self respect, and others respect us for doing the right thing, the feeling of mission accomplished and making someone’s life better cannot be explained, but it can be very deeply felt.

The rewards for being a good Soul is not money or anything that money can buy. few people in these materialistic ungodly times can understand this though.