Helping People grow!

We find it easier to be disciplined if we can understand why we can do some things and why we can’t do other things.

First off though we shouldn’t be pressured into any thing. any form of pressure from someone else that makes you feel forced or pressured is a way to make you do what that other person or group knows that you don’t want to do. They don’t pressure you unless they want you to be like them or to control your life, and that can be a bad thing, because “mob thinking, and “crowd thinking”, also “Herd Behavior” have a dark sinister essence attached to them for a very real reason.

If we think for ourself when we are alone we can come up with what we want and don’t want to do.
The problem is that people pressure us to do what “they” expect us to do, and how they want us to behave and they also have an opinion of who you should be with and what your future should be.

I knew of a man who didn’t want his children to become druggies or alcoholics so he took them to one of the slums in the city and they found a building with drunks and druggies hanging out.
They were homeless, poor, in rags and hungry. As he and his son and daughter walked around looking at these people the father explained what alcohol does to the liver, and how it hurts families, changes the way that the drinker behaves, turns people violent, makes them hurt others even the ones who they love most and so on. He then explained what drug addiction was and how the intake is small at first but can grow and with the addiction can become very nasty behaviour with some people even killing their own mother and father for drug money.

He went on to explain that a man who genuinely loves his woman does not take her to an environment that the people are drinking alcohol, or taking drugs, or behaving irrationally or immaturely, not because they are snobs, but because the man knows that his woman is not safe in such an environment, and a person who genuinely cares for each other does not wish to risk the health, body of soul in such reckless environments.

You see, none of this is about you being a snob, boring, no fun and so on. It is about simply common sense.
Being wreckless, especially with careless people, can have you crippled for life in an accident. Imagine all the people around the world this weekend who will be violated, raped, beaten, killed, crippled and so on at some party, function, who would have not been hurt if they had just stayed home.

The governments who want you to spend so that they can have tax dollars will only tell, if prodded, how many people were hurt from drug, alcohol, and so on parties or events on their country, what they don’t tell you is how many in one weekend, worldwide get harmed, raped, maimed and so on because if you know that information you would stop and hesitate and wise people would stay home.

For me I Just Don’t.

All the best from
James Martin Sandbrook.