Why Scared Insecure People are Unhappy and Anxious
Scared people don’t act due to fears, thus they become very anxious regretful, and they worry and overthink a lot.
It is their lack of courage that stops them from doing what they need to do to heal their pasts.
If the scared person does not act, then the scared person is always lacking in self respect, and he or she feels unworthy, because this person has something that he or she knows must be done, but they don’t do it.
So, this person feels self disgust, foolish, a coward, and feeling like this makes a person self-hate, wish that they were someone else, dislikes themself and so on.
If we act when we need to act, we feel complete, not fragmented as people who don’t act.
Doing what we need to do, especially for others helps those others and at the same time makes us feel very strong, capable, and we have self love and self respect for ourself, we know that we can count on ourselves and that others can count on us if needed, should an important situation arise.
People who dislike themselves crave for a way to feel better, worthy, useful, needed, so they turn to the likes of sex, and they have much sex, or masturbation, but can never be satisfied, because what they are hiding from is what will heal them, teach them to love themselves, find inner-peace.
The act of sex or pleasuring someone else, or themselves, makes them feel worthy, and that sex is something that they can live for, especially if they get conquests and sleep around, the more sex partner them more he or she feels complete, worthy and needed, and all the while the real inner-peace is what this person is running from, something that he or she will never escape from, because the issue is within them for something that they fear doing.
The masturbation addict cannot be satisfied, and the masturbation addict who is a virgin, has sex, and then becomes a sex addict, because the cause of why he or she was a masturbation addict is still there, so the addiction and cravings just got from masturbation to full on sex, that will be of many partners, because the addict cannot be satisfied with one person, so she must have many, and she is never at peace, because even many are not enough.
The reason why people worry and are so anxious, addicted to alcohol, parties, drugs and lots of masturbation and sex, is because of their fears that are real or imagined.
People who are confident don’t have these addictions, because they are not hiding from anything, they face life with courage, they do their best, and if they need to step up and take their shot they do without hesitation, because they know that what must be done, must be done.
They also know that if they take the cowards way out they will never find inner-peace, will be full of regrets, self hate, self dislike, lack self respect, and they don’t want to live like that, and so they force themselves to do what is needed because they could not live with themselves should they not do what they should do.
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