I suggest to a person when he or she is going to marry to make sure that they have the right person.
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One reason I ask this is that while they wear the ring attaching them to someone and they are having sex with the person that he or she married, he or she will also (possibly often) see the person who he or she rejected, they will hear about that person in general conversation, and will possibly come across that person at events and the like.
I ask them, “Can you deal with that?”
Then I ask, “Are you really marrying the person you love, or are you just doing “the popular thing by pleasing family, friends and the crowd?”
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Some of the most amazing marriages came from a male and female who turned against everyone’s opinions and views and followed their hearts.
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So if you are thinking of marriage, please consider how you would feel the day after your marriage and then seeing the person you rejected walking down the street. If the thought means absolutely nothing to you then it seems that you have made the right choice.
Always make the choice of marriage according to the spiritual love of your own heart, or you will regret your choice forever. People who say that it has nothing to do with feelings have no idea what they are talking about. If you see the person who you really love walk by while you are married and “you feel completely miserable” then you have clearly made a bad choice and your feelings are devastated.
Remember, God is spirit, God is love, God is obviously spiritual love. God’s connection with you is in your spiritual heart, so if you love someone from deep within your heart, then that is obviously who God wants you to marry (regardless of that person’s status in life).
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Friday, 8 July 2016, 11:16:18 AM.