The Spirit within is trying to keep us learning and to be who we were born to be. And society, family and friends can be on at us all the time to conform and be like them.
That conflict can bring mental illness and depression etc because of the inner-conflict tearing us spiritually apart, which also leads to physical illnesses, addictions and searching for something to take the place our real purpose in life.

We all have talents and they become more pronounced and stronger when we come to understand that we need to be who we were born to be and not try to be some creation of a person or to mimic someone who is classified as “prefect” or someone “who has made it”. You don’t need to have the talents of someone else, you have your own, and in their own special way they are just as important as the next persons talents. And they will shine under the guidance of God for all to see because your life will so something special and worthy – you are a piece in God’s great plan, this is what you were created for. Your whole life points to God’s plan for you.

We need to get real with ourselves.
We need a new vision of ourself.
A vision that does not include the pressures of modern society.
A vision that has hope, love, meaning, opportunities and wonder in it.

Accept that you don’t need to compete with anyone to be anything else, and a huge amount of stress will leave your life.

You were born to be different than all other people. And our path in life, your God given path is different than everyone else’s too.
Your path may join with others for periods of time, but the things that you will be asked to do will be yours and yours alone to do.

No one is supposed to have any form of power over another person’s life. Not even politicians, they were voted in to be servants of the people, like preachers etc. The only one who has power over your life should be you and only you. God may guide you if you accept that guidance. You were designed to control your own life and to make choices for your own future.

Please accept your life gratefully and accept your talents and abilities, and also accept that God has a path for you because you were designed for a unique purpose.

Please don’t worry about your worth or what you have to do. Just learn to be you. Keep the faith and it will all come together in due time, when God knows that you are ready.