Winston Churchill, whose name conjures up Victory, was constantly fighting a battle within himself: he had recurring fits of depression, which he nicknamed Black Dog. Throughout his life he had to choose between saying, “Down, boy” or being defeated by this attacking creature. He cultivated that certain kind of moral courage that would not give

You’re going to lose people in your life, that is a fact. Be wise enough to let go of those who cannot help you and who hold you back from progress, and who you cannot help because they will not listen. It cannot be expressed in words the happiness, encouragement and inspiration that can be

The human being was designed for companionship. And it is in good companionship and love that we are healed of our problems. Those that love and care for us will stand by us and we will feel that we are not alone. ° It is not a nice feeling to feel that one has people

When you have a good heart: People learn to love from you. People love to be with you. God works through you. You change the world. You make the best lover. You make the best parent. You brighten people’s days. You bring good to replace bad. You are wonderful, living blessing. You make the nicest

  Spiritual growth of the heart is not always smooth. There are bumps here and there. The friction and bumps teach us much though and that is helpful. “The School of Life” is truly educational. We have different feelings, thoughts and desires during these seasons. We can be wrong about life and a person or

This means that while we choose to believe in lies our future will always be uncertain because of the deceivers and liars. But if we get out of denial, face the truth for what it really is, then the Truth will set us Free! Our future is based on our choices in many ways. –

Years ago a friend would come to my place and he would gossip, real bad too. When he left I felt like I had wasted time talking to him, I felt drained and tired after he left. It got to the stage where I stopped people gossiping, changed the subject until the gossip stopped (often

Playing The Victim: A very successful version of narcissism is playing the victim. The rewards are protection and lot of sympathy, and this can run for years. Many tools are used that are misleading and fool innocent people into thinking that a person needs help and is desperate. The victim status is a way of

Fear takes the future from us. Fears are daytime nightmares that cause indecision & worry, they stop our daydreams from coming true. 9 times out of 10 the fear never comes true. Live day by day, don’t fear tomorrow, live love and enjoy today. We can change the fearful image to positive image by repainting

Worry if fed is an evil that takes over the soul and takes over a perfectly good day and turns it into a shaking mess. Hours and hours thinking of something that means nothing because it hasn’t even happened – yet we feed it with panic, and we worry about it instead of just doing

All Creatures Great And Small: Siegfried talks to James Herriot about Herriot getting married to Helen. James Herriot can only see all the obstacles ahead of him. He says that he is not earning enough, he says that he has no house and furniture, so he is afraid of asking her to marry him and

We talk about being victims of this and that, but few people, including the experts realise that those, we, all of us, but especially females, are victims of society so we grow up feeling victimized but having no clear idea who victimized us or how we were victimized, and that may be why so many

When you are a child, living in a toxic home, you try to soothe yourself, tell yourself that your parents weird behaviour is normal, natural and what goes on in other people’s families. You are trying to normalise insanity and bad behaviour. In time, as time goes by, you join in with the toxic behaviour

Why people sometimes don’t understand others. If a woman is a practiced-feminist then she is so used to submitting to feminism and the cause that she knows nothing else. So ice, that never becomes water never knows what water is or that it can be happier, warmer and useful, instead of just cold and chilly,

Be yourself. . . no matter what other people think. God made you the way you are for a reasons. Besides, and original is always worth more than a copy! – Author Unknown.  

A time for courage. ▫️ There comes times in our lives when we are scared or worried about doing something that is required of us. Although the unknown is a factor we must realise that nothing was ever gained by staying in ones comfort zone. No inventions would have been made with people staying at

When you are in the most craziest situation and it just feels helpless there has only one real way to get out of it. Complaining, getting angry, getting frustrated and such produces no positive results. All they do is cause more angers and frustrations and especially they slow down any positive progress from our current

Do Not Give Up… When you fall on your knees Know there is a God There are other people To LIFT you back on your feet Stand… Rise… Awaken and TRUST again!

  Running from a weakness or addiction is simply hiding from the truth. Not willing to cope with the fact that we have a serious problem we look left and right and everywhere else to lay the blame. The truth is in ourself and our willingness to be better. Oh sure change means work, it

“Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced.” – James Arthur Baldwin. * This quote from James Baldwin speaks very powerfully to coaches, parents and athletes. Are you listening? If you have a fear, a problem, weakness or shortcoming, personally or professionally, you will never be

We are all Spirits born into a Physical Body. From birth that body (your vehicle on Earth) talked about, and in many cases, especially with females, that vehicle is admired, praised, and as time goes by all this praise is collected in the Human Soul as “evidence” that the body of a person is very

If a Person is Submissive to an Abuser or Narcissist suspect The Stockholm Syndrome and that the person may be in Survival Mode permanently.   Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological response sometimes seen in an abducted Soul, in which the Victim-Soul is loyalty to the abuser, regardless of the danger (or at least risk/abuse) in

A lot of people these days will have sex with someone, especially the first time, due to wanting to get it over with, scratch an itch, and well, it feels right on the day, and then being upset about it afterwards who she slept with. Sensitive guys also have such regrets. On the day, with

  Communication solves many problems. Sometimes people don’t understand the other, and sometimes they have the impression that communication happened when it didn’t. – James Martin Sandbrook.

Everyone comes with emotional baggage – I firmly believe that true love is the healer for all life’s troubles in a troubled heart and weary soul. The male and female are to love one another and hear each other out. They feel the pains of the other and offer answers, suggestions, prayers and comforting encouragements.

Marriage has to be the greatest gift of all because of its depth of goodness. A man, a woman, children – a continuation that breeds yet other families. The masculine part, the feminine part, an equal blending of each to build and guide the children up until they too will reach out and have families