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25th-6-2025

About Egos and Pride. Years ago I knew a man and he was very mean to me, he liked to see me struggle and suffer, and he didn’t like me at all. A long time passed, and he now has alzheimer’s, his past memory is clear in some areas but empty in others.

As far as I am concerned he has little memory of me, and he has no idea that he disliked me so much. Today we get on fine, but I have changed little, I am still the person I was only now a better version of who I once was and more confident person than I was when I worked with him and he was higher rank than I.

What has changed is his ego. He struggles now, yes, but because he has no ego anymore of pride, he has no anger, he is in fact a different more happy friendly person now.
This is why we get on now.

I didn’t like him in the past because he treated me so bad, and today he doesn’t so I know like him and we get on fine. I tend to treat people by how they are “currently” treating me.

What God is trying to tell us all is that if we remove our pride, ego’s, arrogance and such, all satanic troublesome character negatives, we tend to see other people with those things, with our ego, anger, mistrusts, pride, and because of that we all don’t like each other.

Remove the negatives and we all start to love, understand and see where we are much the same as each other, and that if we were all friends the world would be a much nicer place, as it is with me and my friend.

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Timeline -2003. USA VPN.

This is the gas oxy welding that i used to do.

I am looking for online welding courses to bring me up to date on mod3rn welding techniques.
I used to weld with a Comet 3 Acetylene and Oxygen welding set. This type of welding is not even listed in welding options these days. Gas welding, was excellent because you could weld without a rod, just melt the steel til it flowed, and then both sides run together fused as one, the perfect weld. Also you could cut very thick steel plates with the cutting torch, cut and weld underwater like for ship building and repairs, it was a very useful setup, except that you have to get the bottles filled up from time to time. Brazing as well.

So now I am learning the new and modern types of welding, just to keep the mind active and busy. The lawnmower welds have held up wonderfully with no issues at all. I have most of the safety equipment.

US welding courses are typically$1490 USD and NZ are well over $100 dollars, sometimes up to $3000. In NZ education has been found to be a huge money maker, so they charge astronomical charges to learn that over seas companies charge very little for. Its a big scam for sure.

Although Ara NZ has courses as low as under $500.

See how they use hammers, most of their work would be physical not like today’s carpenters who use the likes of nail guns. They, the Amish,. have been known to foot the bill for people in trouble and build them homes by hand, with no cost to the people getting the homes and they people getting the homes are the general public, not Amish.

The look on his face 🙁

The job of the Prophet in Materialistic cold times is to know the value of things and then share them to people so that they can know the value of Love, Life, Spirituality and God.

As a child he would know the value of love, but see fake love all around him, but still he clung to dreams and feelings deep within him about love and good clean decent life, being a man, wholesome family life, being a courageous worthy father and husband, and so forth.

He did not “know” these things on a personal basis, he only knew of them.
Its like being in a cold house but knowing that out there is warmth, but he is not experiencing that warmth, he just knows that it is there, and he may long for it, desire it, want it, but its not yet what God wants him to have because his journey of suffering as a Prophet is not over yet.

So, growing up, knowing that love exists, he gets into relationships with women, and all of them are apathetic, materialistic, submissive to family, thus incapable of giving him what he knows is out there, but obviously not his.

God gave Jesus, Mary, as he gave all the other Prophets a wife, and in each case the woman was unable to return the love even though she had a strong connection and desire for him, she was apathetic when they met, eager for the relationship at the start, but she would merely have used him, tired of him, and moved on, thus God’s plans thwarted. So God uses the Prophet to help her learn, e3xperience, grow, and the more emotional pain and suffering she experiences, the more she realizes that he is experiencing.

Its all about both of them growing in maturity, realizing that unseen emotions and feelings exist – spiritual deep feelings that the rest of the world is fast losing, and he and she become stronger, more capable, and contain within them spiritually far more depth than other people.

What the prophet knew at birth she had no clue about all her life right up to when she meets the Prophet, and from then on, through the harsh removal of her selfish vain, materialistic, immoral habits and beliefs, she becomes the woman God intended her to be, and this is what she agreed to do for God, and for the Prophet before she was born.

She knew about the suffering (that she would experience), the hell, the learning, the sacrifices, the struggles, and how she would constantly betray him for years on end, until one day she is supposed to wake up – she knew of all of this before she was born.

Didn’t happen with Salome, did happen with Mary.
What John did was wait in suffering for Salome to figure it out, what she had promised God that she would do before she was born, John knew the risks, he knew that she would turn on him, but his faith in her, love for her, hope in her, was repaid in his death, and then she paid for her failure – but she knew all of this before she was born as well, as did Mary.

Thus, the plan and growth does not always work/happen, but when it does, it changes everything.

Satan hates these two more than anyone alive, mainly because most people alive support Satan unknowingly through their satanic living and personal weaknesses, but Jesus and Mary, they, protected by God, would tear Satan’s plans to pieces, change the future, bring people back to Loving, God and wholesome happiness.

School weapon incidents rise 80%, principals seek more support.

Principals are seeking more support after a major spike in students bringing weapons to schools.

Figures released under the Official Information Act show 526 students were stood down, suspended or excluded for using or having a weapon at school last year.

That’s about 80% more than in 2018 – when it was reported about 300 students were disciplined.

Most (375) of the 2024 cases resulted in students being stood down, while 111 children were suspended and 40 excluded.

Almost a third (158) of the students were from Auckland, with Hamilton next-highest at 60.

Trump lashes Israel, Iran for violating truce

A fragile ceasefire in the Iran-Israel war appears to be holding after 12 days of strikes that saw Israel and the United States pummel the Islamic republic’s nuclear facilities.

After US President Donald Trump, who first declared the ceasefire yesterday, angrily berated both sides for violating it, Iran announced it would respect the truce if Israel did, while Israel said it had refrained from further strikes.

The two countries had been “fighting so long and so hard that they don’t know what the f*** they’re doing, do you understand that?” the President told reporters at the White House.

Iran violated the ceasefire, “but Israel violated it too”, Trump said. “So I’m not happy with them. I’m not happy with Iran either. But I’m really unhappy if Israel is going out this morning.

“I’ve got to get Israel to calm down. Israel, as soon as we made the deal, they came out and dropped a load of bombs the likes of which I’ve never seen before.”

Israel, in announcing it had agreed to Trump’s plan, said it had achieved all its military objectives.

Iran initially stopped short of officially accepting the proposal, but President Masoud Pezeshkian later said that if “the Zionist regime does not violate the ceasefire, Iran will not violate it either”.

Israel’s focus would shift back to its fight against Palestinian militant group Hamas in Gaza in the wake of the ceasefire, the country’s military chief said.

To keep Taiwan safe all the countries in the world who are weary of China, like England, the USA and such, should all have some investments in Taiwan, and also make strong connections with Taiwan, getting the message across that if there is an attack it is on them all, and not just Taiwan.

These are adorable, but I did a search and tried to find something out about some of the singers and found nothing on the Internet. makes one wonder if they are AI,. but they must be real just not popular I suppose.

Ohhh, look at all these cuties 🙂
The cats you silly sods, the cats 😉

11:35am)
Just woke up a half hour ago, had to feed the animals who were mighty hungry, and then sit down for a coffee.
What happened, as it sometimes does, I get a call from one of our Security clients, mainly a school, on my private phone and I have to answer question or contact the workers that are working while I am off work, mainly Colin, and then give him directions about whats going on.
This morning at about 4am there was a alarm going off in a school admin. After that I was unable to sleep due to the cold. Its getting rather chilly.

In reality no war is legal nor should it be, but if one smacks their child on the hand after the child does something dangerous, maybe that’s what Trump did. I don’t believe in doing nothing, and if I remember correctly Trump has been trying to talk to leaders like with Russian and Ukraine and they don’t want to listen.

I can’t understand why Labour and the Greens want so much to help criminals, give out and try to legalize marijuana and such, but I suppose that maybe what one supports is what they actually are, like Obama giving billions of dollars to Iran.
Maybe if Labour and the Greens are not happy with Trump they take it out on him or be silent. But you can guarantee one thing, if Obama the liberal supported Iran and helped them, so will the NZ Labour Party, they may just not admit so much, but their actions show what they support and who they really are.

Because the goal is money and pleasing stockholders and the top brass of companies, they invent an evil, then they get caught after infecting billions of people, they get a small smack on the hand for their evil ways, then they get to be allowed to make a similar chemical that does the same harm to the world and they claim that it cannot be judged the same as the other evil chemical due to it being scientifically/chemically changed thus they claim the new chemical cannot be proven bad for animals and humans or the environment until it has basically (by human trial of decades) been proven as bad.

It is coverup, after coverup. Back in the 1940’s the cigarette companies knew that they were causing diseases and death, cancers and wot not, but they didn’t tell the health system nor the public, and they got away with this for many decades, the death toll is huge, and they are still legal all this time later.

This example should be enough for the public to panic, but being so submissive, weak minded, and conforming, the public believe that science is the new god. Over the COVID Vaccines people said to me, “Trust the Science!” like I was a complete idiot for trusting God and not the scientists.

To me if teachers can be pedophiles, priests child abusers, cops lawbreakers, and politicians Narcissist, and business active in white collar crime, then all people of all occupations can be criminal and apathetic and don’t care.
Thus, I don’t trust politicians, the health system, pharmaceutical companies, and scientists, because the love of money can corrupt them, and they will sell out their own children’s safe and healthy future to make some dollars today, they simply are so apathetic they just don’t care.

I trust God even if I get angry at God, even if I don’t understand God or what God is doing, and even if I am about to die – because God is doing whatever God is doing for the greater good and with love for us all.

The Scientists, politicians and such of today, are doing whatever evils that they are doing only for themselves. This is why the way that humans are behaving must be stopped and stopped soon, because the people are so mentally weak, submissive, and captive, that they allow and protect all that is killing them right now and what is destroying their own children futures, and the future of all plant and animal life on planet Earth.

Think of Asbestos and other scientifically safe options of their time that have now been proved to be very toxic and are basically banned.

Every single time one of these so called scientific marvels is mass produced people don’t ask what is is or has it been tested, nope, like with the COVID vaccine they simply just take it and chant, “Trust the science” then bury their loved ones who died because their parents were gullible and basically incapable of thinking for themselves or for their own children or the children of the future.

This is why you must never do evil for a price. You must always refuse to be bought out for any reason, and you should always stand up for what is right, and never give in, even when you breathe your last breath you should stand up for what is right, because what you are fighting for is bigger than you, it means the safety and health of all the children and people of the future.

We should be thinking, Prevention Before Cure.

This should be watched through to the end.

The lesson we should take from this is that it is very easy for a company to create dangerous chemicals that can be in products, food and water, and it takes a very very long time for them to be made accountable and limit or stop the process of poisoning the planet, people, plant life and animals.

The Trump administration tends to be Business focused, thus Trump will see little value in the scientists whoa re actually researching poison chemical products because they stop Trumps billionaire fronds from making huge amounts of money, thus they will pressure Trump to get rid of such scientific research, and he probably will, and the world will be worse off for this.

But the real horror stories is that even if the Greens were in power alone, they would still be slaves to big business that pay mega-taxes, thus to harm big business for any political party means less money to play with, becoming very unpopular in the business community creating fears, worries and killing off votes at the next election and so on – don’t fall for what the politicians promises, they are all, every political party, is a slave to business and the dollar.
On the priorities list humans are far down the line after taxes, profit margins, big business, and such, then somewhere down the sit is human health, plant health, animal health and so on.

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