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3rd-7-2025
Watched Iron Man 3
One of the tactics people will use to get information out of you is to ask a question, but that may get you suspicious, so the sneaky people instead don’t ask, “How are you today?”
Instead they say, “I had a great day.” then they wait, and usually you will chirp in with, “I had a miserable day. And then without being prompted you will go on about what you did today.
They don’t ask a direct question, they suggest a subject, and people normally react to subjects by talking about them, with no clue that they were made to tell information that they actually didn’t want to say.
But people, once committed (especially when sad, angry or wanting sympathy) will go on and on about what they think, feel, want or are sad or disappointed about.
The person seducing and fooling the victim will just sit back and listen.
Narcissists love this because it is a way to get information from the victim when the victims guard is up and the fences up, gate closed to the victims mind, probably expecting a question or certain questions, so the Narcissist talks about something, then leaves pointed-gaps of silence for the victim to fill in.
Once the ice is broken the victim just goes on and on.
I would suggest that if you are in a situation where you find that you are rambling on, talking and talking, stop talking, think, “How did this talking start?”
And even if you don’t think that the person or people who you are talking to set you up, just stop talking anyway. You see, weak minded people talk and talk, they are out of control and immature, in your life say less, and make it a point to stop talking a lot. Even if you are alone all day, keep to yourself, and be very mindful of the conversations that you have after you have been alone or day.
Don’t be so pathetic and desperate to basically neg people to talk to you.
My half blind male cat is walking around howling for females. Maybe in the bush the male howls and the many females come running. Trouble is, is that all the females are “fixed” and are not interested in sex.
All he is doing is what is natural to do to keep cats around, the females cannot react because people took away her right to sex, kittens, motherhood, and humans feel that by doing what they did makes her a fat happy home cat.
There was a cat at one of the clients businesses that we always interacted with. She was scrawny, fun, jumped on the car, climbed inside, chased the car, and I would take her to schools and she would walk around with me.
A person at the business caught her in a trap while she was pregnant, got her fixed, killed the kittens int he process (the kittens she had before that they killed as well making the mother cat very depressed, sad and looked for her missing kittens for weeks).
Society tells us that this is what you do to female cats to make her happy. Millions or billions of people believe this, they even believe that killing the newborn kittens does not affect the mother (apathy).
The female at in question is about 100% different than she used to be. She does not greet anyone at the house she lives in. She does not jump on the car. She is slow, fat, sleeps all day, looks unhappy, and to me is obviously unhappy.
She was far better off scrawny, living out int he cold, having kitten out in the cold, and away from humans – in fact as far as I know only the security staff were able to get close to her.
Getting her fixed made humans happy and destroyed the cats life.
Not seen all of this, but its interesting.
To sell something to you, I or someone else, needs to make you think that you want it. The idea is to make a person who loves to walk want to get in to debt buying a car that he or she cannot actually afford, and thus we must talk them into getting into debt with the bank and so on, buying car insurance, and so on.
The problem for the Prophets is that all the people, even the Prophet when younger, all were used to being fleeced, sucked in, tempted, and falling for basically anything, especially falling for peer pressures and wanting to fit in.
The Prophet has to teach people to discard their learning up to that point in his or her life and accept a new healthy, lifestyle that would benefit them deeply, give them self respect and so on – ion a society where materialism tells them that the dollar gives them respect, titles give them respect, education gives them respect, and so on.
So, the Prophet offers them what God offers them, and its all without getting into debt, or using money – but years of not trusting people, laughing at religions, the Prophet really has his job cut out for him, he really has to find the emotions, the needs, and especially the desires to want a better more spiritual fulfilling life.
To the average Joe Blogs and Mrs Jane Blogs, sex, money, being entertained, drug abuse, alcohol, parties and such are meeting their needs, and they feel that their days are full, and they seek to impress and they cannot impress materialistic carnal weak-minded people with being a do-goody-goody.
People have been trained to try to fit in, and they feel strange and weird if they are different.
The Prophet discovers that he can be a part of society (like I am) but not off society, not taking part int he weaknesses in society. So he tries to use his own life as an example of how to live and be, while also not being what others are.
But the J, J Blogs have to remove their bad habits and addictions, and wasteful harmful desires, and they see that as a payment for this new life and they don’t like to depart from the old ways – until something bad happiness to them.
When something bad happens people realise that they are not in control of their own lives. This scares them, and from this fright and scary discovery they tend to seek God, and then partially distance themselves from the world and then become hypocrites.
The Prophet needs to teach people with them understanding to the Prophet there is no gain. The gain is for the people, they grow in contentment, self discoveries, self love, understanding of themselves, understanding of their pasts, of those who mistreated them, and the discovery that the carnal weak-minded person who they became as adults was actually done by family and other sin their lives, they were groomed and formed unnaturally, thus they end up as adults that they were never meant to be.
All this discovery and new understanding of people of the past, gives them a new perspective of their own person of who they are now, and how they were formed, and that they can really be someone else, someone who they wanted to be as a child, someone strong, courageous, a deep thinker, good talker, content and very happily in love.
people say, “What is the meaning of Life?”
The meaning is to become who you really are and then do as you should for the greater good of others,s top fighting God, stop fighting our destiny, for the real you is out there, but its not here in this fake materialistic thinking that makes the masses o weak-minded and easily owned and controlled.
In order to find true happiness we need to be who we should be, and we need to want this, desire it deeply, even argue for it, argue and fight for the life you want, and refuse to be subdued by others or society.
One of my favourite cartoons.
On this strange journey God has put me on helping people I longed to be important, in the sense where I helped change people’s lives, but not fame, nor accolades and so on, I hate that stuff.
If I died at this very moment I would be very happy, and very pleased to leave this all behind.
There were moments I enjoyed, very few with women, it has never really been that nice of a life, nor what I wanted or expected as a child.
Its going to be very nice to leave it all and all of you behind 🙂
Years ago I had a strange experience, or dream, where I was floating and many many Spirits were hugging me and it was an amazing experience, nothing like this on Earth, nothing so gentle, tender, honest, and complete is this form of loving and I realized that this was where God is, where everyone loves one another unconditionally.
When women accuse me of wanting sex with them, or males try to better me and be nasty, I remember that feeling of complete unconditional love, and I think of all the foolish who cling to life here on Earth, who desire its pitiful incomplete satisfactions, these people who hold on to their weaknesses and addictions as if they are prizes to honor and adore, and they live weak lives of slavery to the system, the wealthy and to themselves, and I know that there is a far better place that I go to when this all ends.
These foolish weak people, they think that I want what they have, they also think that I have the pathetic cravings and weaknesses that they have.
Unlike them, what weaknesses I have I hate, what cravings I may have I hate, what is beyond this life I long for, want, and think is special, but the foolish who love everything on Earth that makes them miserable that they adore, they wouldn’t understand, they don’t even know what drives them, nor do they know their own minds, or the natural-ways, peace, love and understanding.
My goal is to make you see what is really happening to you, recognise your weaknesses and strengths, know what is satanic, what is good, and to actually experience true decent moral love, compassion, empathy, and to have a genuine care for other people, especially those who are less fortunate than you are.
Should you accept such a journey, you will come to love yourself, be satisfied with your life, love other people, forgive, teach and learn at the same time, reach out to the less fortunate and show them the very same way I have helped you come to find, and you and them, you can live in complete peace, harmony, and honesty will be in existence, along with all of your grateful satisfied hearts and souls.
Many years ago (This guy wrote…), I was touring the Mercer Museum in Doylestown, Pennsylvania – an ancient medieval castle-looking place filled to bursting with tools and other objects from America’s productive past.
The gentleman leading the tour – who himself looked to be an object of America’s past – had the delightful habit of telling us much more than we expected to discover about the tools he was explaining to us. At some point in the tour, he picked up the simplest of round mallets – just a stick stuck in a bit of a small log – and said, “Here is how the joiners and builders of long ago avoided carpal tunnel syndrome.”
I was extremely familiar with round mallets and knew them to be what engineers refer to as an “elegant solution” to the problem they are designed to solve.
The wooden mallet does minimal damage to your chisels on impact, and the damage you do to the mallet is spread over such a broad surface that the mallet itself seems indestructible.
The light weight insures that your muscles don’t tire and gives you superb control over how deep the chisel cuts. And because you can use the entire circumference of the wooden cylinder as a striking surface, you don’t have to worry about the orientation of the mallet when you strike.
But I was completely unaware of any medical advantage to the design. According to our guide, joiners, carpenters, sculptors, and other craftsmen who use chisels to shape wood and stone, found that a round mallet could be used to forestall the development of carpal tunnel, tendonitis, tennis elbow, nerve compression, and numbness in limbs that might otherwise develop these maladies from tightly gripping a mallet all day.
Simply relax your grip on the upstroke, just enough that the mallet begins to spin, and grip it again on the downstroke just before you make contact with the chisel.
This small movement momentarily relaxes the muscles and tendons, forestalling the physical damage that a tight grip and repetitive motion might otherwise do. And the round striking surface insures the mallet will always be properly positioned for a strike no matter how far it may roll when you relax your grip.
“But what about the other hand?” someone asked (probably me), “The hand gripping the chisel?”
That hand is not exposed to the same degree of danger, the guide told us.
When you’re working, you’re constantly changing chisels and changing the angle at which the chisel addresses the wood or stone. So you’re not likely to grip them as tightly.
“Cool,” I thought. In fact, the entire museum was cool, full of tools with captivating stories like this.
If you love tools or just like learning new stuff, check out the Mercer Museum in Doylestown:
I saw a movie short where the young woman was in bed, and her boyfriend was visiting her (she may have been in hospital) and she said that she didn’t love him anymore.
She admitted that she slept with guy and had sex for hours and loved it. She told him to go away.
He told her that he already knew and he forgave her.
She asked how he knew, and he told her that the guy who she slept with told him.
She was very upset that he had told her boyfriend, because she thought that the sex was loving, emotional and special, she was most upset.
Her boyfriend told her that the guy she slept around with intended to tell the boyfriend all along, because she wanted to destroy them both.
These are the situations I cannot do.
I am a fool, an idiot in many ways, incomplete, stumble and make mistakes.
But to me, she slept with the guy (even if the guy tricked her and intended for she to split with me) and she did it deliberately, intending to break us off.
I can forgive her for her weaknesses, stupidity, her foolish behaviour, but not her knowledge that before she slept with him she would break my heart and hurt me really bad.
There is much I can forgive her, even help her, but share a bed with her again, never.
Sure she got sucked in, but she enjoyed it, wanted it, and wanted to walk away from me and hurt me, she put sex with another man above all the horror, tears, sadness and pain that I would feel when I found out, the devastation that she had probably felt before when someone slept around on her in the past – she knew all of this, and still went ahead and slept with him.
Above all, there was no repentance from her, just the realization that she was sucked in. If the boyfriend took her back she would merely do it all again sometime int he future. Why be stupid enough to let it happen again. I have met too many couple’s where one sleeps around, promises to never do it again and a few years later is at it again.
Now having wrote that, to me God would want them back together, because my guess is that how God heals relationships. How God intends her to repent is what I don’t know.
But for me if I had the choice of living, going to the promise land but having to take her back s well, I would prefer to die and not go to the promised land and God’s wonderful future, especially with her.
All the women I have loved, have slept with other men, became abusive when caught out, all played the victim, all made false claims.
With women, I know that I am missing out, but I don’t care that I am missing out.
All I have ever found with women today is that when they see you at the cliff slipping, they move on,. They think that they are so important that even if they fall in love with you, their selfish-logic takes over and they rationalize why you are not good enough, and carelessly and coldly they walk on, and they let you slip, fall, and on your way down they tell everyone around that you were to blame for the things that went wrong in her life and she blames you for what others did to her.
In the movie short he was desperately trying to get her to understand that she was fooled and he was desperately trying to get her back.
I would have wanted her to discover that she was fooled, but I would not have wanted her back.
When someone sleeps with someone else, she or he is showing you that they are committed to you to a point, but sex with you is not that important, so they do it with others. They show that they do not love you, what they are is in a relationship that to he or she is practical, suits them, their ego, pride, public image, but sexually nope, they want others.
Sex, is the very gross mixing of private parts fluids and such, in the most disgusting part of the human body, and they want to mix theirs with someone else’s foul parts, and then come home and do it with you again.
Add to that the shame of knowing that everyone else knows that she or he is banging the town, and everyone is laughing at you.
Add to that diseases carried by sex acts, or kissing your wife and half an hour earlier she did oral or other foul things with her mouth to someone else.
The reason why the sexual parts are with the toilet parts of your body is so that it would have to be a very special person you would mix those parts with and no one else.
It would be something too gross to share with someone else, if you had love, decency, morals, and integrity.
When you add sexual desire with Immaturity and Narcissism, you get a mentally sick, yet very socially acceptable person in a Materialistic World, people who just bang each other off without any moral, decency, or romantic thinking, just like masturbation, just using someone else to “get them off”.
The world today is jam packed with people like this. They say they care because those are the accepted words to say. They do all the right things because they know you like it, and they make the promises that they know you like to hear, especially about them being faithful and loving you.
But they mean very little of it, and when it is time to walk away, they do it with crocodile tears (crocodiles shed tears when they eat you), they play the victim, blame shift, and if the are a women everyone see’s them as the victim and he the bully.
God never intended it to be this way, but commercialism and materialism along with capitalism did.
The more people that are broken hearted, the more people will seek mental health, therapists, take pharmaceutical drugs, party, get wasted on alcohol, etc.
Your bad health, misery and suffering are very profitable and keeps people in work.
I have met cats and women like this 🙂
Not seen this movie. people in the comments going on about how she is caught, but is trying to make out that she is not or trying to minimize the guilt etc.
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