Can a grown mature man be a victim of a young female?
Most certainly yes!
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How can this happen?
Take an emotionally and mentally insecure young female, say in her late teens or early 20’s, who is vain, yet meek and unconfident, and she spends years lying to people about this man, but she thinks that the lies are true because “she was told” that the man was after her (she had no proof).
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So for years in her panicky, insecure, anxious, yet vainly hopeful way, she spreads rumors, false accusations, false stories, and gossip about this man.
He can’t go near her to straighten it out because she will freak out and cause him even more grief. So he just hopes and prays that one day the girl will get some maturity and finally wake up to what a fool others have made her.
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And year after year he misses out on opportunity after opportunity in the small town because gossip and lies travel fast and stick like glue to other insecure vain little heads, and of course they spread the same stories.
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The original girl is like Chicken Little, very easily influenced, panicky, easily seduced by close family and friends, she suffers from insecurities and extreme gullibility, and she is very eager to get her story out (her claim to fame that some makes her feel that she is so important that he would waste his valuable time stalking her) to the world.
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In this action she gets lots of attention as the poor victim of a stalker, lots of sympathy as the poor suffering girl, lots of help etc. So when the opportunity comes up she has become bodily used to physical reactions when the man is near and that of course has people running to her aid because they all want to help the pathetic victim.
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She is a complete hopeless case who seriously needs mental health care to help her get over “her obsession of him” which is what her real problem is.
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What can be learned from this is that not all females that cry for help are the victims. Many females have put innocent males behind bars just by their say so that they are being stalked or were attacked.
Please, when you get told a story by a young female, have a good look at her mental health condition, because in her insecure mind she may be condemning an innocent man.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Saturday, 12 March 2016, 1:59:42 PM.