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It is logical to assume that if we are weak we are not strong.
If we were weight lifting then there are weaknesses that can destroy our goals.
If we were a soldier, the same can be said, that there are weakness that cause us to fail at our goals.
If we are married then temptations (weaknesses) that can tear our entire family apart if we are not to careful.
In every person there is the capability to be evil or good. We choose. In is not what we say about ourselves or even what we think of ourselves, it is what we do that shows who we really are. A good example of this is a criminal who in involved in a crime that morning, is arrested at 12 noon, and he or she see’s themselves as innocent completely. Many people who do wrong find ways to justify in their minds that they are innocent and that what they did needed to be done for some reason.
But it is not how that person see’s himself or herself, it is what that person did that made them guilty.
The Lessons of Life that we should have been taught by our parents leads us to an understanding of what will be good for our future and what will not be good for our health, body, soul, future and so on. Once a person gets a good understanding of Life, of Good and bad, of Harmful, of Weaknesses, then he or she will obviously walk away from what the crowd is doing that is mentally drowning them and ruining their lives, present and future.
A society based on Commercialism and Materialism wants people who will follow the way that they have been taught to live, thus we are often not taught to avoid weakness, because people profit on the masses being weak-minded.
Because of this our parents job as parents should have been to make us aware of what could be damaging to our life as children, as teenagers, and then as adults.
We should have been shown a clear path to strong mental will, coping skills, control of our emotions, and teach us courage. Hopefully by watching our parents be strong examples of inner-strength and courage.
Watching and seeing people around you doing foolish things, and being told by older people that a particular foolish act is a fun things to do, and then seeing the truth for what it really is and walking away, is Strong Mental Strength.
Wanting to be strong in character, having courage, being Righteous, are all things that we should want to be and strive to be.
A person who has Strong Mental Strength is mature, Stable, in Control, and even when things go bad he or she will see it for what it was and then move on, often quietly, calmly and being emotionally sound he or she will not over-think what happened, but will instead learn from it, accept it, and then try to void that situation in the future or see it as a challenge and try to overcome it.”
The best friends we should have are those who are mentally strong, because when you need them at your side and they see you as strong and worthy they will always be there for you, and they can be relied on, you know that he or she only tells the truth, and when you are at your lowest and struggling as we can do from time to time, they will understand and be there.
A comfortable feeling in life is having people around you who you can have faith in, and they have faith in you, and they and you are of equal good honest character.
There are videos and books and such that say that a best friend is the one who pushes their friend in the lake, or swears at that person, or causes them mayhem and laughs and so on, these are not good friends because they are Immature and incapable of knowing what a mature stable best friend is. Immature people cannot be trusted or relied on due to their lack of mental control and lack of control of their emotions – they can do dangerous things with other people’s lives or even their own life because they don’t think things through they just do them.
Fads are on of those things that the masses chase, get excited over, spend a lot of money on until the next fad comes along, and then they do the very same thing. Someone becomes very wealthy while the masses don’t.
Fads amuse people for a while, but they are also a commercial success for someone, and the governments can make a lot of tax money on Fads, but also Fads are for the easily led people in society, those who desire Fads because it makes them feel included, important and part of the crowd.
Fads are often very expensive while they are popular, but when the interest wanes the prices come down – so the wise thing to do if a Fad is interesting to you is to wait until it is not popular anymore.
There are many types of Fads, such as movie fads, music fads, toy fads and so on, they tend to make the people who created the Fad a lot of money.
People of Strong Mental Strength don’t desire to be parts of the crowd, nor are they weak-minded, thus they do not desire to be included or doing what everyone else is doing, rather they do what they would like to do.
When you can see other people get excited about “the latest thing” and you don’t get excited with them, you are learning to think alone, to not be a part of everything going on, and you can think outside of the masses thinking and think for yourself.
The goal of the person of Strong Mental Strength is to be mature, to turn away from temptations knowing the damage that they can do to your life, mind, thinking and that they can create lifelong suffering and regrets.
Modern societies of many weak-minded see the mature and mentally strong as boring, no fun, but the reallity is that those who think for themselves, prepare their future as best as they can and are not easily led, are the ones who reshape the future for the better for themselves and all who know them.
A life of feeling good about yourselves, respecting yourself, understanding yourself, and Strong Mental Strength is a person whop departs from the ways of the easily led masses and stands strong along, and then with people who are like-minded.
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