When we have discovered that we have done wrong, it is comfortable to tell ourself a lie that makes us feel like we were the innocent party, and that the real innocent person is guilty.
Other people will bring up past false information to try to convince you all over again of your innocence, and the guilt of the real innocent person. After all it fooled you before so it can be used to fool you again.
The narcissist is a person who is an expert at manipulation of the mind. This person sits with you, mixes up and confuses your emotions, and then uses your own feelings against you.
If a person allows themself to be lied to, then one day he or she will have to face the truth of what they did all over again, the truth always comes back until we have dealt with it, apologized and got right with the person that we have hurt.
Another point is that even if you lie to yourself to make yourself feel better, the poor soul that you have unjustly treated will still be suffering, and all that suffering will continue until you apologize.
“The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the one.”
We have to stop putting ourself first before others. We need to wake up, be honest, and be responsible for the mistakes and mean things that we have done in the past.
Note:
If you have done someone wrong you don’t deserve to get away with it, and as long as you don’t face up to the wrong that you have done, then the wrongs will continue and that innocent soul will continue to suffer because of you.
Ask yourself, “Who should be punished? An innocent person (because you are to much of a coward to accept what you have done) or the one that framed that innocent person?
Anyone who convinced you, in the beginning, that you should hate, attack and abuse publicly, will try to convince you that the innocent party is guilty. After all, they started all of this. They made you guilty because they knew how gullible that you are/were and they abused your trust in them.
Wake up and face the truths.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 29 October 2015, 5:06:51 AM.