Men, like women, like to feel wanted, needed, desired, and we like to think that we are positively affecting other people’s lives. Men, as they get older can meet many very attractive women, but as we get older there are still more attractive teenagers, 20 year old’s, thirty years old’s, and that stays the same in those age groups.

Sometimes we see a woman and we feel a strong connection with her, she may reply in kindness and smile back, even flirt and so forth.

Being of Sound Mature Mind means being in control of oneself and ones feelings, desires and especially ones ego.

It happens though. One day you are walking down the street or something like that, and you look at a much younger female and she smiles back and instantly you are interested. You don’t see her age, you see memories of when you were younger and when you had a woman that age, and instantly like everyone who is getting on in your years you want those good times with a younger woman all over again.

Young females can be very immature, eager to be desired and wanted, and thrilled if an older man shows her attention, but many are also likely to see any advances from you to her as an opportunity to play-the-victim and make false accusations or rightful accusations about your intentions with her.

Maturity Means Being A Strong Stable Husband/Person.

If you are married you will hurt deeply your wife, shame yourself and destroy a good thing, or even if you are having marriage problems sleeping with or an affair with a young woman will not help, but it will put the fuel on the fire for the marriages destruction. Think of your commitments, responsibilities, the promises of love you made, and think of the children.

My advice is to avoid the female, especially if she responds to your smiles with smiles back. Whether you interpret her intentions wrong or not, the point is that your own mind needs to deny you any chance of foolishness and to avoid her.

Probably 8 to 10 weeks and the fire, curiosity, and thoughts about her will have dwindled, but iof they have not still avoid her, and get on with life by showing your wife your faith love and dedication is with her.

If you are an older man and single, there is nothing that will be gained in a relationship with a younger woman mostly due to her immature mental levels and your more mature stage of life. Wisdom states, leave her be, let her find a man of her own age.

The best thing that one can do is to remain in control of your own mind and refuse to entertain any thoughts of any younger female who has become interested in you, or who flirts with you, and refuse yourself to desire your ego to be fed with dangerous destructive foolish fantasies. Refuse to entertain thoughts of her.

Be of sound mind, emotionally in control, mature in nature, make your wife proud of you and give her faith in you. Your denying yourself foolish fantasies with young women will help you have faith in yourself and have self respect.

Another thought is to consider the mind of the young woman who is immature and thus not completely stable in her choice of men and is still learning about the world. An affair or sexual act with her could cause her such stress int he future especially if she got pregnant.

Maturely we can see that there is just far too much that can and will go wrong with such a relationship for everyone involved.

All the best
from James Martin Sandbrook.

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