At sometime in your life you may find that people have been told bad things about you and you are expecting them to see the obvious truth in your good behaviour, your good deeds, your good manners and good life.
The reason that they don’t see your innocence in your character and actions is because they are subconsciously completely convinced of your guilt because of what others have told them.
There is generally no battle between good and bad in their minds about you because they are only looking for the bad in you, and if they don’t see bad they rationalise/imagine bad “reasons” for your good behavior.
They are, in other words, looking at you through a toxic lense created by a hater in these people’s minds. They are faithfully blind to your innocence and eager to find fault in you because to find out that they were wrong brings forth feelings of guilt, shame, doubt in their “friends” who told them the lies (very uncomfortable to accept), and horror that they judged and mentally, self righteously, passed on the lies and did things to hurt an innocent person’s life.
People don’t want to believe that they were suckers, foolish, mean and the real guilty one’s, so they mentally cover over anything that makes you look anything but guilty.
And they eagerly see your innocent actions as evil and seek evil in all the good that you do.
This is why some people will never accept your character as good and they refuse to have anything to do with you.
Its not human behavior, it is foolishness, but foolishness created in their minds by a hater who thinks them gullible and foolish for tricked so easily.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Wednesday, 14 August 2019, 5:15:41 PM.